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Men! Stop Paying For Dates by lordnkem000(m): 1:09pm On Dec 26, 2023
So finally I met this girl we've been chatting for so long. She came into town yesterday and called me for us to hangout and I agreed, it was real fun and the interesting part was I tried to form big man but this girl surprised me by paying for her bills. She told me she believes in 50/50 on dates because a man who pays your bills will want to fvck you that day and it is absolutely wrong for a woman to deny him. So if you won't give him sex on first dates, don't eat his money on first dates. Honestly, I just fell inlove with her immediately and to think she's a nairalander made everything sweeter. Our guys here are doing great work sensitizing the place and i am so proud.
I had an amazing day yesterday and i think I just found my woman, how about you guys? How was your Christmas? Let's hear it

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Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by Yuri141: 1:14pm On Dec 26, 2023
She paid because she asked you out. Ideally who ever asks a person out is supposed to take care of all or most of the expenses. So if you ask a lady out, you will surely have to cover the expenses.

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Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by Bluezy13(m): 1:16pm On Dec 26, 2023
cheesy cheesy cheesy

(1) She suspected you would come to Nairaland to narrate your experience. Like you mentioned, she's a Nairalander.
(2) She prepared grounds for smooth billing later. I hope when that time comes, you still be inlove with her.

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Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by FRANCISTOWN: 1:16pm On Dec 26, 2023
lordnkem000:
Our guys here are doing great work sensitizing the place and i am so proud.

We'll do greater works even in 2024

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Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by Natbrowny: 1:28pm On Dec 26, 2023
In Nigeria.. Its a normal thing.

Men pay for dates.

In real society with common sense.. Its a different ball game..

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Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by NoSmoking: 1:35pm On Dec 26, 2023
Abuja girl will ask u out and still make u pay if u gock urself

🤕

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Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by lordnkem000(m): 1:35pm On Dec 26, 2023
Yuri141:
She paid because she asked you out. Ideally who ever asks a person out is supposed to take care of all or most of the expenses. So if you ask a lady out, you will surely have to cover the expenses.
Are you serious? No one should pay 100% bills just because you asked the other out. Not fair
Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by Yuri141: 1:38pm On Dec 26, 2023
lordnkem000:

Are you serious? No one should pay 100% bills just because you asked the other out. Not fair


when youre getting to actually know a person you just met, that is the ideal thing to do. When you finally get used to each other, you can now split bills as you like.

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Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by lordnkem000(m): 1:40pm On Dec 26, 2023
Bluezy13:
cheesy cheesy cheesy

(1) She suspected you would come to Nairaland to narrate your experience. Like you mentioned, she's a Nairalander.
(2) She prepared grounds for smooth billing later. I hope when that time comes, you still be inlove with her.
She spoke highly of Nairaland guys to my greatest shock, she wasn't pretending at all, she even later followed me to my house and we spoke alot about Nairaland feminists. I never knew Nairaland had such a beautiful girl, Omo Nairaland get people o, girls that have genuine business and no send man money. Look our men here dey try
Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by lordnkem000(m): 1:41pm On Dec 26, 2023
Natbrowny:
In Nigeria.. Its a normal thing.

Men pay for dates.

In real society with common sense.. Its a different ball game..
True words
Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by lordnkem000(m): 1:45pm On Dec 26, 2023
Yuri141:



when youre getting to actually know a person you just met, that is the ideal thing to do. When you finally get used to each other, you can now split bills as you like.
I think you re right, but most girls have the mentality that men must spend on first dates but they don't think sex is important on first dates. If you can't give me your body on first date, then you shouldn't expect me to spend on first date too
Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by Bluezy13(m): 1:49pm On Dec 26, 2023
lordnkem000:

She spoke highly of Nairaland guys to my greatest shock, she wasn't pretending at all, she even later followed me to my house and we spoke alot about Nairaland feminists. I never knew Nairaland had such a beautiful girl, Omo Nairaland get people o, girls that have genuine business and no send man money. Look our men here dey try

Congratulations.
Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by Silentgroper(m): 1:54pm On Dec 26, 2023
Who's the female??


What section can she be found
Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by NoSmoking: 2:17pm On Dec 26, 2023
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Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by FaithELEFAN(f): 10:04pm On Dec 26, 2023
Why can't people just eat at home and save money. Why should you go to expensive hotel and eateries
Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by Savedday2: 10:32am On Dec 27, 2023
Bros, shine ur eyes! Na trap ooh!

This guy never know 9ja girls. Full of pretence and manipulation. Don't be surprise, that girl na big ashawo for area.
Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by mariobalotelli09: 11:01am On Dec 27, 2023
Small advice for guys!!! If you want to take a lady out on a date, at least take the one that has money to transport her self home. If you know she can't find her way home then don't waste your money on any expensive date o. Don't say i didn't warn you 😂
Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by lordnkem000(m): 11:48am On Dec 27, 2023
NoSmoking:
If I take jeon out
I will order a lot for both of us

I will leave her there and run away

🦘
My own jeon? Na wa o ertin wetin she do u na?
Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by lordnkem000(m): 11:50am On Dec 27, 2023
FaithELEFAN:
Why can't people just eat at home and save money.
Why should you go to expensive hotel and eateries
I wonder o, I guess it's just for show off or most times to wicked the man
Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by lordnkem000(m): 11:51am On Dec 27, 2023
Savedday2:
Bros, shine ur eyes! Na trap ooh!

This guy never know 9ja girls. Full of pretence and manipulation. Don't be surprise, that girl na big ashawo for area.
She doesn't look that way, though she's a very outspoken girl, and love raw talks. I don't care about ashawo vibes, none is perfect
Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by NoSmoking: 9:52pm On Dec 27, 2023
lordnkem000:

My own jeon? Na wa o ertin wetin she do u na?

She wants to sleep with all d girls on NL

She dey spoil their mind against men
Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by Nicepoker(m): 10:33pm On Dec 27, 2023
Don't be deceived. She just dropped few slices for you, and you are already excited as if you have gotten a whole loaf. I can tell you for free she is not real. No be Nigerian girl? grin
Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by lordnkem000(m): 11:14am On Dec 28, 2023
NoSmoking:


She wants to sleep with all d girls on NL

She dey spoil their mind against men
So she br lesb? Omo na wa o. I can't believe my sweet jeon na lesb o. But that girl too do abeg
Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by NoSmoking: 11:18am On Dec 28, 2023
lordnkem000:

So she br lesb? Omo na wa o. I can't believe my sweet jeon na lesb o. But that girl too do abeg

Yeah sure
Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by pansophist(m): 11:57am On Dec 28, 2023
My experience with 50/50 women (the fake ones) is that they will pay a little money for dates and transport, and even bring you oranges during a visit, but when they bill you eh, the amount will be bigger than what 2k girls have collected in a year.

Imagine getting a call that her car broke down, and they have to change the engine which costs 1.5M, Then she asked you the soul-crushing question,

''What will you do about it? grin

lol

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Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by DyingFetus: 12:28pm On Dec 28, 2023
I can never spend more than 2k on a date


There are of interesting date ideas that doesn't involves breaking the bank so far the girl is interested in you not some forking who're looking to drill you


The essence of a date is to get to know each other


I was surprised when I matched a girl on bumble and she suggested visiting a game arcade for a date night
Like is this possible considering it's a Nigerian girl and with gorgeous big tits
Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by MrCork: 3:17pm On Dec 28, 2023
lordnkem000:
So finally I met this girl we've been chatting for so long. She came into town yesterday and called me for us to hangout and I agreed, it was real fun and the interesting part was I tried to form big man but this girl surprised me by paying for her bills. She told me she believes in 50/50 on dates because a man who pays your bills will want to fvck you that day and it is absolutely wrong for a woman to deny him. So if you won't give him sex on first dates, don't eat his money on first dates. Honestly, I just fell inlove with her immediately and to think she's a nairalander made everything sweeter. Our guys here are doing great work sensitizing the place and i am so proud.
I had an amazing day yesterday and i think I just found my woman, how about you guys? How was your Christmas? Let's hear it


angry
Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by MrCork: 3:17pm On Dec 28, 2023
lordnkem000:
So finally I met this girl we've been chatting for so long. She came into town yesterday and called me for us to hangout and I agreed, it was real fun and the interesting part was I tried to form big man but this girl surprised me by paying for her bills. She told me she believes in 50/50 on dates because a man who pays your bills will want to fvck you that day and it is absolutely wrong for a woman to deny him. So if you won't give him sex on first dates, don't eat his money on first dates. Honestly, I just fell inlove with her immediately and to think she's a nairalander made everything sweeter. Our guys here are doing great work sensitizing the place and i am so proud.
I had an amazing day yesterday and i think I just found my woman, how about you guys? How was your Christmas? Let's hear it


we shud stop payin for date becuzz u dont have moiney??...........are u ok sir?(no oofeoncse) angry
Re: Men! Stop Paying For Dates by lordnkem000(m): 10:44pm On Dec 28, 2023
MrCork:



we shud stop payin for date becuzz u dont have moiney??...........are u ok sir?(no oofeoncse) angry
Mr cruise I hail you o, I am okay sir.
I no say you like cruise

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