Solofresh2:
You see why these girls get used and dumped. This is the reason why men use and dump girls like this OP

Ashawoman82:
so y did u lead him on in the first place.

RonuThings:
😎

Just Negodu 🙄

Ladies of nowadays are becoming something else 🤔

After eating a man's money and wasting his time, you now remember he's ugly 😏

Marry a Nairaland lady at your own peril 🥱

elipheleh:
I wonder why my wife married me then? I no be Ramsey Noah at all

Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.

Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.

Shugavee:
That’s the expression of trying to put up with someone, you would think with time , so you keep being with the person till your realize you can’t do it

Little21:
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And she is kinda realizing she can't do it so it's best she back out now.
It's marriage we are talking about here not some bf and gf stuffs.
You can't possibly be with someone you feel nothing about. It won't work out.
Am pretty sure if Op was a "man" and said he can't marry this girl that loves him so much but he feels nothing about her.

They are gonna be like "no way you are spending your life with her", "it better you stop it now and look for someone that you love" and so on. But because it was a lady they go about bashing her.
Bunch of hypocrite!

Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.

anu3:


Well, physically attraction matters, bro... Money/wealth gets boring too. Having to be with someone you're not physically interested can be a huge burden for so long. Imagine you marrying an old hag be because she's rich... That's it.

You want someone you'd be happy to see everyday even if others think differently...

wis3:
Refund everything he has ever spent on you

Shugavee:
i’m telling you!! life of a woman

Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.

Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.
Ole u no love him na wetin he dey give dey attract u leave him and let find his type but as i see u ur mouth wide

Fahvvy:
A man possesses the qualities of a good husband and you disqualified him all because of his looks? ...

He provides for your wants...
He treats you well...
He puts up with your excesses...

And yet his only issue is that he's not tall enough or fine enough?

When have you ever heard anyone saying that it's a man's height that makes the marriage work? Or it's his fine face that makes the marriage work? ...

This is how y'all women will pass on, on men that truly care for you for irresponsible men, simply because these men don't meet some ridiculous physical standards that you have in your heads ...

Truth is that the things that make marriages work are not physically based, they're majorly character-based ...

But it's your call ....
Since this is a deal breaker for you, then tell him off ...
My most sincere prayer for you is that you know what you're doing ...
If you're a believer, you should seek the face of God on this matter ...

Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.

wis3:
Refund everything he has ever spent on you

malvisguy212:
she made it clear, she did not love him. of tomorrow she cheat on her husband, you'll be the first to cast a stone on her.

Lanmonfarm:
When he was offering gifts and all why u no come here ask for advice, u're a hoe!

Shugavee:


He isn’t a broke man like you my dear, by now he has made x100 of what he spent on me.

Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.

Shugavee:
my dear don't go for what you don't like, no matter what , make sure anyman you date or give your body to is a man you like, money and care is important but he should be someone you like. I don't take this for granted.

There was a man who wanted to marry me also , very single , very generous and rich tho he had matured kids cause he's an advanced man, many women would be so happy to have him considering how rich he was but i didn't just find him attractive , i tried my best but i just couldn't have sex with this man , he literally feed me, gave me weekly allowance and other things I needed, i tried but i just couldn't . Now we don't talk like we use to but I'm so happy I made that decision upon all the pressure inside me. Don't force yourself

Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.

Fahvvy:
A man possesses the qualities of a good husband and you disqualified him all because of his looks? ...

He provides for your wants...
He treats you well...
He puts up with your excesses...

And yet his only issue is that he's not tall enough or fine enough?

When have you ever heard anyone saying that it's a man's height that makes the marriage work? Or it's his fine face that makes the marriage work? ...

This is how y'all women will pass on, on men that truly care for you for irresponsible men, simply because these men don't meet some ridiculous physical standards that you have in your heads ...

Truth is that the things that make marriages work are not physically based, they're majorly character-based ...

But it's your call ....
Since this is a deal breaker for you, then tell him off ...
My most sincere prayer for you is that you know what you're doing ...
If you're a believer, you should seek the face of God on this matter ...

dalass:


Some of you should understand that some guys though not all, don't want to take NO for an answer. If you tell them no a million times, they still believe that somehow their persistence will make you change your mind.... This is a very annoying attitude. If you don't collect things, some just dump it at your door step like it's for you and they don't want it back, do whatever you want.

Physical things are important too... Some have body/ mouth odour, maybe ugly and short like this guy. The guy prolly wants his offsprings to have better chance in life by marrying a tall and fine lady but na Dem dey get strong genes and theri kids will look short and ugly like their dad... It is well.

Besides, a lady can't possibly say yes to all suitors. Even birds and other species have specs, e.g lionesses who follow the strongest etc

OP, prayerfully choose your future partner. The guy fit look handsome self when money and care hit him well

akube34:
I don’t understand. Should she marry who she is not attracted to? See the first is attraction. Others comes second