... at their wedding?
You're a groomsman, but then told to pick up money for them.

I feel disrespected.

As them tell you you for still delegate the work give the bridesmaid or any relative closeby.

because una suppose plan who go pick money before now even give am sacks to use specifically for that.

No vex. Na you no use your headpan

This disrespect is likely caused by your or friend relationship with them

cazchi:
... at their wedding?
You're a groomsman, but then told to pick up money for them.

I feel disrespected.

As a groomsman, this is disrespect. A family member who is a female whether from the groom or bride family should do that. If any female in the family member can't do that, a female among the food servers/ushers should be assigned to do that.

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Jaun2:
This disrespect is likely caused by your or friend relationship with them As a groomsman, this is disrespect. A family member who is a female whether from the groom or bride family should do that. If any female in the family member can't do that, a female among the food servers/ushers should be assigned to do that.

I know it's disrespectful. I politely declined and was considering pulling out of the wedding all together, but decided otherwise.