my little sister is 10 and she's in the fourth grade. throughout primary school, she's had multiple teachers and last year Mrs Beza started teaching her class. my sister didn't like her at first because she gave them lots of homework and was less permissive than her previous teachers. one time, i went with my dad to pick up my sisters from school (i have three and they're all in the same school).

Mrs Beza was still there and began talking to my dad while me and my sisters waited there. I noticed she was leaning weirdly close and to my dad and trying to touch him. One of my other sisters (who's 14) noticed too and she tried getting our dad to leave the conversation but with no luck.

Also, this wasn't the only time she acted like this. Every time she sees him, she gets inappropriately close to him and she always seems to have something so important to tell him that she has to get him to go somewhere else. Now don't get me wrong, I trust my dad very much and know he would never cheat on my mom. They've been married for 19 years and have a very good and loving relationship.

This issue is with Mrs Beza, definitely not my dad. I also know that this woman has a husband herself, so it made me lose respect for her as well. I don't know what to do. I hate her and honestly can't wait for my sister to finish primary school, so she can finally get rid of that woman.(please note this is not my personal experience)

Humm!! Children of these days, una kwn pass una self. So two adults nor fit stand talk again waytin be una own self.
Well, when una come of age, una go understand better.

@Humbrown23


Your dad is a man and if he wasn't comfortable with the closeness, he'd probably warn her or report her to the school management.


Also, stop interfering in your father's life. He's an adult and knows what is best for him.


I believe you're the oldest of your siblings. Stop saying things to them that will ha E them nurture evil thoughts towards their teachers. They won't learn well.

Supplementary wife or awaiting step mom.

Have you discussed this observation with your dad and if truly he has nothing to do with her, he should know how to explain to her about her body movements

Your sister tried getting your dad's attention with no success and you are here blaming only the woman , you go explain tire oo

Na which one be fourth grade?

We no dey for America, here in Nigeria it's called primary four.

By the way how come is it that your sisters are still in primary school while you are apparently in your twenties already?

how about talking to your dad about it?just tell him you dont like the way she gets too close to him, im sure he'll know what to do,he will understand you are just looking out for him and that you are taking notes.i don't think its a big deal talking to your dad about stuffs like this.just tell him.

Humbrown23:
my little sister is 10 and she's in the fourth grade. throughout primary school, she's had multiple teachers and last year Mrs Beza started teaching her class. my sister didn't like her at first because she gave them lots of homework and was less permissive than her previous teachers. one time, i went with my dad to pick up my sisters from school (i have three and they're all in the same school).

Mrs Beza was still there and began talking to my dad while me and my sisters waited there. I noticed she was leaning weirdly close and to my dad and trying to touch him. One of my other sisters (who's 14) noticed too and she tried getting our dad to leave the conversation but with no luck.

Also, this wasn't the only time she acted like this. Every time she sees him, she gets inappropriately close to him and she always seems to have something so important to tell him that she has to get him to go somewhere else. Now don't get me wrong, I trust my dad very much and know he would never cheat on my mom. They've been married for 19 years and have a very good and loving relationship.

This issue is with Mrs Beza, definitely not my dad. I also know that this woman has a husband herself, so it made me lose respect for her as well. I don't know what to do. I hate her and honestly can't wait for my sister to finish primary school, so she can finally get rid of that woman.

Ur mother u made reference in ur post in April last year still leaving with ur dad?

Please 🙏 let your dad play away game ooo

Humbrown23:
my little sister is 10 and she's in the fourth grade. throughout primary school, she's had multiple teachers and last year Mrs Beza started teaching her class. my sister didn't like her at first because she gave them lots of homework and was less permissive than her previous teachers. one time, i went with my dad to pick up my sisters from school (i have three and they're all in the same school).

Mrs Beza was still there and began talking to my dad while me and my sisters waited there. I noticed she was leaning weirdly close and to my dad and trying to touch him. One of my other sisters (who's 14) noticed too and she tried getting our dad to leave the conversation but with no luck.

Also, this wasn't the only time she acted like this. Every time she sees him, she gets inappropriately close to him and she always seems to have something so important to tell him that she has to get him to go somewhere else. Now don't get me wrong, I trust my dad very much and know he would never cheat on my mom. They've been married for 19 years and have a very good and loving relationship.

This issue is with Mrs Beza, definitely not my dad. I also know that this woman has a husband herself, so it made me lose respect for her as well. I don't know what to do. I hate her and honestly can't wait for my sister to finish primary school, so she can finally get rid of that woman.

Fourth grade keh

Obierika:
Na which one be fourth grade?

We no dey for America, here in Nigeria it's called primary four.

By the way how come is it that your sisters are still in primary school while you are apparently already in your twenties already?

4th grade is primary 5 ...or even 6 in some places

Humbrown23:
my little sister is 10 and she's in the fourth grade. throughout primary school, she's had multiple teachers and last year Mrs Beza started teaching her class. my sister didn't like her at first because she gave them lots of homework and was less permissive than her previous teachers. one time, i went with my dad to pick up my sisters from school (i have three and they're all in the same school).

Mrs Beza might actually mean no harm.Probably that's how she relates with parents of her students

Mrs Beza was still there and began talking to my dad while me and my sisters waited there. I noticed she was leaning weirdly close and to my dad and trying to touch him. One of my other sisters (who's 14) noticed too and she tried getting our dad to leave the conversation but with no luck.

Also, this wasn't the only time she acted like this. Every time she sees him, she gets inappropriately close to him and she always seems to have something so important to tell him that she has to get him to go somewhere else. Now don't get me wrong, I trust my dad very much and know he would never cheat on my mom. They've been married for 19 years and have a very good and loving relationship.

This issue is with Mrs Beza, definitely not my dad. I also know that this woman has a husband herself, so it made me lose respect for her as well. I don't know what to do. I hate her and honestly can't wait for my sister to finish primary school, so she can finally get rid of that woman.

Mrs Beza might actually mean no harm, you never can tell if she doesn't act that way to other parents as well. Some people get carried away and start gesticulating with their hand and other body part subconsciously in the middle of a conversation. But if you are not comfortable with their discussion,you can discuss with your dad 1vs1 and ask him what Mrs Beza discuss with him and that you are not comfortable with it.I assume you are old enough,so you can possibly volunteer to go and be picking your junior ones from school and that will stop them getting in contact with eachother unless your dad has other intentions.

Just pretend as if you did not see anything.

There is nothing wrong if your father bangs the woman, it's just a fling