They had to do it either because the marriage was arranged or demanded as their families saw them as a burden and financial responsibility to be passed on to a man who was willing to take her off their hands.

Sometimes their families even paid a dowry to the groom for assuring a future for their daughter.

Nothing was worse than an unmarried woman of a certain age.
Or, they got married because they didn’t have any other options.

Wendyzara:
They had to do it either because the marriage was arranged or demanded as their families saw them as a burden and financial responsibility to be passed on to a man who was willing to take her off their hands.

Sometimes their families even paid a dowry to the groom for assuring a future for their daughter.

Nothing was worse than an unmarried woman of a certain age.
Or, they got married because they didn’t have any other options.

I told my girl this. May we never be victims of those who want to marry us not because of love but because of condition. I can't marry a wife that will be reminiscing on how her ex would have been her first choice but he's not ready or he's too far bla bla bla... I will now be the option. God forbid!! Before I marry you I make sure u want to want to marry me under all circumstances. I can't dedicate my life for someone who sees me as "the one that's available "

And that's why it's very important to have a mutual relationship with the one you love

Must not involve sexual relationships
But a type where you share deep thoughts with each other.
You discuss properly with each other

That kind of stuff.

YourGFsnatcher:

I told my girl this. May we never be victims of those who want to marry us not because of love but because of condition. I can't marry a wife that will be reminiscing on how her ex would have been her first choice but he's not ready or he's too far bla bla bla... I will now be the option. God forbid!! Before I marry you I make sure u want to want to marry me under all circumstances. I can't dedicate my life for someone who sees me as "the one that's available "

Some cases is 'MONEY', remove money they will call u 'EMEKA WITH BOLE LEG' but since u get de bole leg money no let dem notice am!!...

Wendyzara:
And that's why it's very important to have a mutual relationship with the one you love

Must not involve sexual relationships
But a type where you share deep thoughts with each other.
You discuss properly with each other

That kind of stuff.

Exactly!
the problem is that most of us marry for the wrong reasons. For most we just marry for economic and social contract. If you remove these two, most people will not be married. If we aren't besties first, why should we get married in the first place

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In their prime time they run after bad boys who will scatter their kpekpus and drive them crazy, and when reality starts dawning on them they start looking for the good guys to marry them, even though they don't love the Mr. nice guy. They just want to get married because they know those bad guys won't Marry and time isn't on their side anymore.

Moral lesson: don't be the Mr. nice guy!

G00dharddick:
In their prime time they run after bad boys who will scatter their kpekpus and drive them crazy, and when reality starts dawning on them they start looking for the good guys to marry them, even though they don't love the Mr. nice guy. They just want to get married because they know those bad guys won't Marry and time isn't on their side anymore.

Moral lesson: don't be the Mr. nice guy!

u gat a good point bro

Lol

Leave women matter for God abeg......I believe say even God himself go don tire for women matter by now self.....Very wahala-some entities.

You have a point

Klinxmanz:
Some cases is 'MONEY', remove money they will call u 'EMEKA WITH BOLE LEG' but since u get de bole leg money no let dem notice am!!...

I need anylady as helping soulmate but she cook.




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G00dharddick:
In their prime time they run after bad boys who will scatter their kpekpus and drive them crazy, and when reality starts dawning on them they start looking for the good guys to marry them, even though they don't love the Mr. nice guy. They just want to get married because they know those bad guys won't Marry and time isn't on their side anymore.

Moral lesson: don't be the Mr. nice guy!

I guess the op is probably a female because of the way she immediately shifted it to the families of the lady saying they arranged the marriage for her and neglecting the fact that the said lady actually spent her youth like a prostitute, forming boss b!tch, ignoring and manipulating the good men, while wasting her youth with the bad ones.. then later when reality has started dawning on her, she starts looking for the mugu man who will save her and accept her whorish life as she is....

it's just the typical story of the modern woman...

Whenever I become a second option, don't choose me.

The above have been my motivation. I don't want to be the available option or the back up plan for any woman who didn't achieved her fantasy.

When I meet a lady, I have always been outspoken about choices, likes and dislikes, goals, behaviors and dreams. I usually discuss everything, from values, education, career, family, religion, everything.

I can never be married to someone who don't love me, I am a King, a prize, I can't settle for less, I can't marry unproductive, unreasonable and lackadaisical lady because I want to be married.