Hi Nairalanders
I'm so depressed as am typing down this content.
Its all about my relationship with a girl I have been dating since 2021.
on the first day I met this girl she was so amazing, she got all what I needed in a girl. she is cute, brilliant and smart, which were some of the reasons I gave in for the relationship.
things went well for sometimes after 2months I started seeing a character in her wish I didnt want to condole with.
she is so agressive when she is angry and she insult me at any chance she has. am a guy who is easy hearted and I don't like going hard on her.
after every of the scenarios she will come begging and I will forgive her.
As of last month we hard an exams to write and you guys know how university exams are time demanding and being focus and be prepared for the tsunami called exams, I told her we should reduce our time spent together so I will be able to be prepared for the exams cos she can not be of help to me becos of our difference, I am in computer science department and she is in English Education. she got mad at me for such a request and left my place and told me she will be going out with other guys to keep her company, after she left I called and begged her and she was still reluctant after some hours she gave a change and told me to come spend a night in her apartment, I objected BT later gave up and went to see her. In her place that night she was cool with me we were talking and gissiting until the late hours wen I slept off, I was woke up with her taps on my back asking me I should wake, when I was trying to get my self In order she gave me a slap (this is what she likes doing to me) she slaped again it was so painful I was asking her why she did that she gave me again and again I counted it, it was on the 20th I slap her back she pushed me and told me to leave her Huz that night
that I should not get close to her again that she has a new guy already. I left her Huz that night and Neva return, she called after a week to beg for forgiveness I forgive her and told her am not into it again
am tired of the way she was treating me and am happy alone BT she is still disturbing me I can't block her cos I see that as a crime .
pls guys I need an advise.

Damnnn niggar

This one na just weak man

Wizzy13:

For me to advise you, I need you to answer the following questions.

1.
Did she explain why she slapped you up to 20 times in one night? I can't imagine what will make an adult (not minding the gender) slap another adult 20 times within 24 hours talk more of doing it at a go.

2.
Do you snore or have body odour? Don't be offended, I am just trying to figure out what irritated and drove her crazy to wake and slap you 20 times in the middle of the night.

3.
What is that value you offer her that makes her come back each time she leaves? Are you spending too much money on her or do you give her extraordinary romance? What has she confessed that she enjoys in the relationship?

I need your sincere answers to these questions so I will tell you what I will do if I am in your situation. Your answers will enable me know her interest in you and your future with her.

The 4th but an unnecessary question is who told you that blocking a contact is a crime?

slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar
This one na just weak man

I know BT all I need now is help

Assuming you are the one paying your school fees, you should have set your priorities right.


Parents suffer to pay school fees and everything about you so you will become somebody in future but your still growing prik is controlling you.

J don't need a soothsayer to tell me how your future will look like.

Wizzy13:
Hi Nairalanders
I'm so depressed as am typing down this content.
Its all about my relationship with a girl I have been dating since 2021.
on the first day I met this girl she was so amazing, she got all what I needed in a girl. she is cute, brilliant and smart, which were some of the reasons I gave in for the relationship.
things went well for sometimes after 2months I started seeing a character in her wish I didnt want to condole with.
she is so agressive when she is angry and she insult me at any chance she has. am a guy who is easy hearted and I don't like going hard on her.
after every of the scenarios she will come begging and I will forgive her.
As of last month we hard an exams to write and you guys know how university exams are time demanding and being focus and be prepared for the tsunami called exams, I told her we should reduce our time spent together so I will be able to be prepared for the exams cos she can not be of help to me becos of our difference, I am in computer science department and she is in English Education. she got mad at me for such a request and left my place and told me she will be going out with other guys to keep her company, after she left I called and begged her and she was still reluctant after some hours she gave a change and told me to come spend a night in her apartment, I objected BT later gave up and went to see her. In her place that night she was cool with me we were talking and gissiting until the late hours wen I slept off, I was woke up with her taps on my back asking me I should wake, when I was trying to get my self In order she gave me a slap (this is what she likes doing to me) she slaped again it was so painful I was asking her why she did that she gave me again and again I counted it, it was on the 20th I slap her back she pushed me and told me to leave her Huz that night
that I should not get close to her again that she has a new guy already. I left her Huz that night and Neva return, she called after a week to beg for forgiveness I forgive her and told her am not into it again
am tired of the way she was treating me and am happy alone BT she is still disturbing me I can't block her cos I see that as a crime .
pls guys I need an advise.

Another SIMP nigga coming to cry on nairaland romance section

U better block her permanently and everywhere

motionarena:

Another SIMP nigga coming to cry on nairaland romance section

not really

Patented:
U better block her permanently and everywhere

thanks bro

To slap you dey hungry me like this

Lol... Lol .. Lol...

I don't even know what to say to you or regarding the case!.

My brother brother.. 🤣🤣 . .No matter the Insult or Advise. Men will always learn from experience . You still a young man so you won't understand whatever they telling you on here. Men are always the price. .. Tell her she should give you chance. You need sometime for your self ..And meet other girls. There are girls all over place .. It's not easy to be a Man ...Stay strong bro..

Nah....not to belittle your emotional state, but this story get somehow.

Either way, if you need space to study for exams, relationship shouldn't be your problem now

You get problem o.

I think you need to forgive her. That slap is what you constantly need to keep talking rubbish all the day. You can't afford to miss it.

I feel like slapping you again the 21st time, again and maybe again. Abeg where una dey see these kind girls from?
Where?

Opanka44:
I feel like slapping you again the 21st time, again and maybe again. Abeg where una dey see these kind girls from?
Where?

bro calm

Wizzy13:
Hi Nairalanders
I'm so depressed as am typing down this content.
Its all about my relationship with a girl I have been dating since 2021.
on the first day I met this girl she was so amazing, she got all what I needed in a girl. she is cute, brilliant and smart, which were some of the reasons I gave in for the relationship.
things went well for sometimes after 2months I started seeing a character in her wish I didnt want to condole with.
she is so agressive when she is angry and she insult me at any chance she has. am a guy who is easy hearted and I don't like going hard on her.
after every of the scenarios she will come begging and I will forgive her.
As of last month we hard an exams to write and you guys know how university exams are time demanding and being focus and be prepared for the tsunami called exams, I told her we should reduce our time spent together so I will be able to be prepared for the exams cos she can not be of help to me becos of our difference, I am in computer science department and she is in English Education. she got mad at me for such a request and left my place and told me she will be going out with other guys to keep her company, after she left I called and begged her and she was still reluctant after some hours she gave a change and told me to come spend a night in her apartment, I objected BT later gave up and went to see her. In her place that night she was cool with me we were talking and gissiting until the late hours wen I slept off, I was woke up with her taps on my back asking me I should wake, when I was trying to get my self In order she gave me a slap (this is what she likes doing to me) she slaped again it was so painful I was asking her why she did that she gave me again and again I counted it, it was on the 20th I slap her back she pushed me and told me to leave her Huz that night
that I should not get close to her again that she has a new guy already. I left her Huz that night and Neva return, she called after a week to beg for forgiveness I forgive her and told her am not into it again
am tired of the way she was treating me and am happy alone BT she is still disturbing me I can't block her cos I see that as a crime .
pls guys I need an advise.

You have fallen

May God give you the strength to rise again.

A Gentleman only falls for a Woman he thinks is worth it. < No on can answer this for you

Wtf man.
If you tell your mum (no offense) this, the stereotype she see in her son would change.
Like did i just read what i just read?
Dude you f**ked up.

immortalcrown:
For me to advise you, I need you to answer the following questions.

1.
Did she explain why she slapped you up to 20 times in one night? I can't imagine what will make an adult (not minding the gender) slap another adult 20 times within 24 hours talk more of doing it at a go.

2.
Do you snore or have body odour? Don't be offended, I am just trying to figure out what irritated and drove her crazy to wake and slap you 20 times in the middle of the night.

3.
What is that value you offer her that makes her come back each time she leaves? Are you spending too much money on her or do you give her extraordinary romance? What has she confessed that she enjoys in the relationship?

I need your sincere answers to these questions so I will tell you what I will do if I am in your situation. Your answers will enable me know her interest in you and your future with her.

The 4th but an unnecessary question is who told you that blocking a contact is a crime?

bro all becos I needed space
and she had another guy and My presence maybe wasn't what she wanted
I don't snore or have poor hygiene
perfectly to say she was looking for a good way to breakup

incogni2o:


You have fallen

May God give you the strength to rise again.

A Gentleman only falls for a Woman he thinks is worth it. < No on can answer this for you

true bro

perfectsusanoo:
Wtf man.
If you tell your mum (no offense) this, the stereotype she see in her son would change.
Like did i just read what i just read?
Dude you f**ked up.

thats an experience now

Who be this again? Woo warn yourself o

Wizzy13:
Hi Nairalanders
I'm so depressed as am typing down this content.
Its all about my relationship with a girl I have been dating since 2021.
on the first day I met this girl she was so amazing, she got all what I needed in a girl. she is cute, brilliant and smart, which were some of the reasons I gave in for the relationship.
things went well for sometimes after 2months I started seeing a character in her wish I didnt want to condole with.
she is so agressive when she is angry and she insult me at any chance she has. am a guy who is easy hearted and I don't like going hard on her.
after every of the scenarios she will come begging and I will forgive her.
As of last month we hard an exams to write and you guys know how university exams are time demanding and being focus and be prepared for the tsunami called exams, I told her we should reduce our time spent together so I will be able to be prepared for the exams cos she can not be of help to me becos of our difference, I am in computer science department and she is in English Education. she got mad at me for such a request and left my place and told me she will be going out with other guys to keep her company, after she left I called and begged her and she was still reluctant after some hours she gave a change and told me to come spend a night in her apartment, I objected BT later gave up and went to see her. In her place that night she was cool with me we were talking and gissiting until the late hours wen I slept off, I was woke up with her taps on my back asking me I should wake, when I was trying to get my self In order she gave me a slap (this is what she likes doing to me) she slaped again it was so painful I was asking her why she did that she gave me again and again I counted it, it was on the 20th I slap her back she pushed me and told me to leave her Huz that night
that I should not get close to her again that she has a new guy already. I left her Huz that night and Neva return, she called after a week to beg for forgiveness I forgive her and told her am not into it again
am tired of the way she was treating me and am happy alone BT she is still disturbing me I can't block her cos I see that as a crime .
pls guys I need an advise.

Hmmn Manchi . I won't insult you because I have once been in your shoes before.As they Say Experience is the best Teacher. I have nothing to say but let me give you this real nigga Advice: Never get too Comfortable in A Relationship. Shalom

Wizzy13:
bro all becos I needed space
and she had another guy and My presence maybe wasn't what she wanted
I don't snore or have poor hygiene
perfectly to say she was looking for a good way to breakup

Please, answer the 3rd question. Also, you didn't answer the 2nd question clearly. Did she give any specific reason for waking and slapping you that night?

When you thought u have seen it all, and d amazing happens.
That girl gat no respect for u bro, nothing more to say. She sees u as smth to fiddle with in the relationship.
Anger issues is a red flag.
Run bro

I think she is abusive, in such cases break up is the best course of action. But if you 'mistakenly' go back to her, the first thing you will do is list all her past sins against you and warn her that you will not tolerate her bad character anymore and that if she dares exhibit it again, the relationship will end automatically. Since she can't seem to let you go, leverage on that to ensure she changes for the better .

Wizzy13:

thats an experience now

True. Learn from it. A lover is never qualified enough to disrespect or disregard their loved ones.

immortalcrown:
Please, answer the 3rd question. Also, you didn't answer the 2nd question clearly. Did she give any specific reason for waking and slapping you that night?

she said she didnt want me around with all her heart

Wizzy13:

she said she didnt want me around with all her heart

Does this response answer my 3rd question? I will ignore you since you can't answer simple questions.

immortalcrown:
Does this response answer my 3rd question? I will ignore you since you can't answer simple questions.

maybe my kinda of lifestyle
I don't spend too much
am not that type of regular guys she meets
I think so

Wizzy13:

maybe my kinda of lifestyle
I don't spend too much
am not that type of regular guys she meets
I think so

If this is your answer to my thought question, I am speechless because I don't want to insult you. The question centres on what makes her come back each time she leaves. What is that thing she confessed to you that she likes about you or that she enjoys in the relationship? This is the question.