toujurs:
■If you are a guy, who struggled and made money, and now planning on settling down with a broke lady, worst is she is from a poor home as well and you plan on elevating her family, you are daft, foolish and a coward. ....

Kobojunkie:
Our ancestors were almost all them cowards! We get it! Next!

toujurs:
If you are a guy, who struggled and made money, and now planning on settling down with a broke lady, worst is she is from a poor home as well and you plan on elevating her family, you are daft, foolish and a coward.

If you were broke, would she have taken you serious, Now that you have made it. She misses you, and loves you. And cries for a attention.

Broke girls are for sex. If you are a big boy, bang these broke bitches, and tip them for the sex. Or rather decieve them with relationship, she will definitely fall for it, because you are a big fish.

She her self, isn't genuine, so never feel guilty about it. it's because you are financially capable to handle her finances. Not really like she genuinely loves you.

Stop giving her money, and watch how the relationship dies a natural death.

Be wise and have sense. Go for comfortable or rich babes within your status, even if the babe is in her early thirties, it's better than dating a broke girl in her early or mid twenties.

It's fine if every lady, wants a rich man, it's their choice, but ask yourself, now that you have made it in life from being broke, why settle for a broke bitch. Have sense this man.

And settle down with a financially stable women. Even if she is in her thirties. Guy marry her, and long as she has a good character, and willing to listen. Never take a broke girl serious.

toujurs:
■ Have sense Mr man, try and have sense don't be silly. Back in the days, there were farm lands. And men needed to Marry enough women who could cultivate these lands. So women of then had a purpose to fulfil. And were financially responsible for their growth, from the cashcrops of their produce, you can be as productive as you can. Among other wives. But this days, it's a different ball game, most women want a rich man, and to their whole responsibility.
A man who graduated from same school as you, should handle your expensesand that of the kids, completely while she keeps her own money. For her family.

Wainey:
Most times guys do nothing but create hundreds of threads about women.

Get a life bro

Tallesty1:
Whatever standard a man sets for himself is fine by me, as long as it is not enforced on all of us.

Women have been unapologetic when it comes to upping their standard, and the world hasn't ended. So, do you and be happy.

MrBrownJay1:
what you wrote made very little sense.... whether the babe is broke or rich is irrelevant. whats important is to understand her character. that rich babe that you want to settle with, would she be with you if you were broke?!
any smart man knows that they type of woman/women you get has absolutely nothing to do with how much money you got.... thats a broke man's mentality!

Karlifate:
■ The only valuable thing a woman can do for a man, especially in this generation, is to birth & properly take care of his kids — to be a genuine mother (and a good wife). 👌That's priceless.💯

Kobojunkie:
And when the same children choose to pay more attention to the mother who cared for them more than they do the man who only watched her do it alone, una go still complain.

Seriously, Nigerian men would benefit a great deal if they probably stayed the fk away from relationships entirely until they have become at least a bit wiser about these things.

Kobojunkie:
And when the same children choose to pay more attention to the mother who cared for them more than they do the man who only watched her do it alone, una go still complain.

Seriously, Nigerian men would benefit a great deal if they probably stayed the fk away from relationships entirely until they have become at least a bit wiser about these things.

Karlifate:
■ Who the fukk is "una" You this Yaba Left escapee again

Kobojunkie:
Look who's talking!

Karlifate:
Look who's quoting!

Kobojunkie:
And when the same children choose to pay more attention to the mother who cared for them more than they do the man who only watched her do it alone, una go still complain.

Seriously, Nigerian men would benefit a great deal if they probably stayed the fk away from relationships entirely until they have become at least a bit wiser about these things.

Jman06:
■ You're not in Nigeria therefore, you are not in touch with the realities of men/women love relationships in Nigeria. You always view people here in Nigeria with same lens you view those in your immediate environment. Those of you who have lived your lives abroad are not in any position to give advice on relationships in Nigeria. There's a whole lot of cultural differences between Nigerians and people in your immediate environment. For instance, you maybe shocked to notice that a greater number of Nigerian ladies in Nigeria won't support the idea of their husbands staying around to bond with children instead of being out there working his butt off to make alot money for the family.

Kobojunkie:

Jman06:
You're not in Nigeria therefore, you are not in touch with the realities of men/women love relationships in Nigeria. You always view people here in Nigeria with same lens you view those in your immediate environment. Those of you who have lived your lives abroad are not in any position to give advice on relationships in Nigeria. There's a whole lot of cultural difference between Nigerians and people in your immediate environment. For instance, you maybe shocked to notice that a greater number of Nigerian ladies in Nigeria won't support the idea of their husbands staying around to bond with children instead of being out there working his butt off to make alot money for the family.

Kobojunkie:
So back in the days, the men did indeed marry broke women to produce slaves children to work their lands with. You don't wish for us to consider the men of Old cowards by your formula. You would rather we consider the men of this age cowards for continuing what has been the tradition since the time of their fathers before them because they don't own land to be farmed? Sounds more like you are shifting goalposts all over the place. E no dey work at all!

A better approach to what you are trying to sell would be to tell men of today that traditional marriage was not intended for their benefit. You can add your opinion of how only cowards would adopt the same traditional marriage laws that were designed to benefit only their ancestors before them. Tell them that they need to abandon traditional marriage entirely instead.

toujurs:
■ How is that slavery, when she owns the produce of the cultivation. Guy, rest.

toujurs:
How is that slavery, when she owns the produce of the cultivation.

Guy, rest.

CandidAdmin:
But when you a woman who is richer than you, you'll also avoid her for another reason.