Good day
I have this colleague of mine in my place of work that is in his mid forties yet unmarried. Some times in staff prayer they would make prayer points in direction of 'those not married' some times also they would make jokes of him going to get married.
Oneday I sat with him and asked him why he is yet unmarried, I wanted to know the reason for that,he bluntly told me that it's money issues, he now told me how our boss called him and told him to settle down by getting a wife,that he would sponsor everything.
My colleague refused the offer according to him,because to him it would look like he's unable to sponsor his wedding or marriage and hurt his ego.
Looking at him,time is not on his side,please what is your advice to this young man,should he accept the offer of my boss,or should he continue working until he gets his own money or what?

What do you advice him?

You should allow him be whenever he's ready he will get married.he said he's not financially bouyant for now to get married.

Even your boss said he will sponsor his marriage,after that will he be feeding the man and his wife.
y'all should just allow the man be, he's not the first person in his late 40's not to get married neither will he be the last person.

Uma go dey drink Panadol for another person headache

Theopneustos:
Good day
I have this colleague of mine in my place of work that is in his mid forties yet unmarried. Some times in staff prayer they would make prayer points in direction of 'those not married' some times also they would make jokes of him going to get married.
Oneday I sat with him and asked him why he is yet unmarried, I wanted to know the reason for that,he bluntly told me that it's money issues, he now told me how our boss called him and told him to settle down by getting a wife,that he would sponsor everything.
My colleague refused the offer according to him,because to him it would look like he's unable to sponsor his wedding or marriage and hurt his ego.
Looking at him,time is not on his side,please what is your advice to this young man,should he accept the offer of my boss,or should he continue working until he gets his own money or what?

What do you advice him?

the guy doesn't want to get married,he is just using hubris is an excuse,if a man really wants to marry a girl only few things can stop that,infact when I wanted to marry and the list was somehow I got the girl pregnant and the list was reducing by 10% every month the pregnancy develops,he can even marry by hire purchase, Abuja marriage,court marriage or guy man marriage,anything is possible ,what is needed is the man's interest

After the wedding,is your boss going to be the one to be sponsoring all their bills?


Many people in this part of the world just dey mistake wedding wey no pass one day to marriage wey be lifetime something......

Well,the earlier we all understand and realize that not everybody will get married,the better for us all..