As men our life, pattern and lifestyle isn't that complicated but you know life happens.
Men make more decisions everyday more than our female counterparts.

These decisions aren't just because of US but because of of other people's HAPPINESS (Our family and kids). Life of a single father.

When I met my ex wife, she was a jovial lady. We were both in 200 level back then and she was 2 years older than I was. One thing led to another and she had a baby for me.

Her parents objected to her settling down with me since we were both in school and I was a Christian. She was a Muslim but we were both caught in the web of "humans first before religion". Her dad was always angry whenever I called to great him. Her mother on the other hand was kind of accommodating.

On my own part, I did more for my woman and the baby. But no one has it all and In truth in some part I couldn't meet up. But I was still an undergraduate na.

She left me and went with my baby boy. It was a alot of fight and drama to get my son back. He spent 5 years with his mother and my son was already referring to other people as father. Why are women like this? She went with my child to Ghana.

I know We were much younger when we had the child but then she was older than me and certainly had it all planned out. She was more experienced than I am.
Please if you have your child out there with a baby mama, do everything to get your child back. Especially if it's a male child

When I got my child back, he had alot of attitudinal issues. he was shy,couldn't and relate properly both at home and in the school. There foods he couldn't eat which I understand... He had started knowing what female private part was which proved he was majorly among women.

I can't tell if he had been abused when the mother was not around but alot of things were just off with my son.

Recently, his mother came that he wanted to take the boy to go and visit her her parents. I refused and she went and brought her family members who were security personnel.
I made sure I caused alot of scene and was prepared to go to any length most especially physical.

They were quick to add 1+1 and knew I was serious about what ever was going to happen.
Omo if you don't have strong people and bouyant financially, plenty rubbish go super o.
Imagine the oppression.

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