TO KNOW WHO DEY STRUGGLE MOST, ASK YOURSELF WHO DEY DIE FIRST

Praktikals1000:
Before male children know the truth about this question, they must have had children who also think that their mum is the one making all the sacrifice

Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you

U are bias and sentimental. Loads wey fathers carry na hin make dem dey first die. Check many houses na landlady u go dey see landlord don die

Jerryhare:
TO KNOW WHO DEY STRUGGLE MOST, ASK YOURSELF WHO DEY DIE FIRST

No mind the werey he just dey type nonsense,maybe he is still one of these indomie generation children that have experienced life.
He will learn in a very hard way

Tunde835:
They'll celebrate mothers ten times a year and whenever it's the fathers' turn they'll just call him a deadbeat.

Yeye sperms that should've been wasted for better sons.

descarado:

Who told you men are sole providers in families?
The women you see at work, markets, they provide for ghosts?
Abegi close ya mat dia.

If u are sensible .... U will read and understand what is written up there!!!! Yse ya brain cells to think.

Jewskillmohamed:


Still searching for your biological father?

What a fool.

RickyJesus:

What a fool.

You eat horse sperm with your mother?

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If a father is providing for the family, motherhood is the best thing in the world. Some of those attributes came factory-fitted from God.

Let a woman provide for just 6 months and the whole world will hear about it. Why? Because stress gets levels.
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Mothers do. That's a reality I think.

Father do all the doing, that is why most house are landlady landlady, becos mens hustle and pai first.

If u know how much ur father spent on ur mother and ur mothers relatives before they allowed ur mother to follow ur father to his home u won't be typing this rubbish..most of u supporting ur mother over ur father's would have been aborted I not for d efforts of ur fathers..wat i understand is dat d world favours women that's y its easier for women to get help than men..d society always recognize and assist widows but wen it comes to widowers nobody send them..I love my mum with all my heart but my dad is d best I see him as my God

If your wife tells you she is pregnant, your life is over. Take a good look at the cloth you are wearing that time, cause you will be wearing that for a long time. The kids & your wife will become adorable and you will fall out of fashion. We wear T-shirts and sandals not because we are stupid cause that is all we have. Enemies fear the father cause men take bullets with their heads.

ideatoprince18:
If only children knows what a real Father goes through to make things around the home work fine.... They will sing beautiful songs for their Dad.

The reason why people do sing songs of appreciation for their mum is mostly cos of the struggles that women go through are mainly physical and it's all seen in the eye. Women are creatures of emotion so it's easy for people to see their struggle through emotional side.

When we were little, whenever my Dad comes home from shop, sometimes he will be angry,sometimes he will be sad. In all the time, he always made sure we never lacked . When I came of age and started following him to shop, I found out that from morning till night he wont eat a thing. I thought he was fasting then. I never knew that he was starving so that we will eat. He was starving so as to be able to meet up family needs. Sometimes when we ask him for money or stuffs he will tell us off. We will become angry and meet our mum who will give us the money. I never understood all this until I grew up. Now I'm a man and I'm facing issues and see reasons why my Dad behaves the way he do then.

If u think a woman struggles more than a man, try ask a widow what she goes through then u will understand.

Do u know what it is to take care of yourself talkless of adding two, three, four people to yourself and be the sole provider of them all. Many will say women will do it. And I will tell u that 98% of women cant take care of a family without complaining when the Father is around doing nothing.

Thank God you stated 'real father'.

Jewskillmohamed:


Money is not everything, have you considered single moms or people who gave birth out of rape without a man figure, how did they do it ?

Have you considered single fathers.. as if is only men that abandon their children

Stargurl20:


Thank God you stated 'real father'.

.... please take ur close mindedness away from my comment!!!

Jewskillmohamed:


Money is not everything, have you considered single moms or people who gave birth out of rape without a man figure, how did they do it ?

Go keep woman for house and don't give her money let's see whether she will even stay to do all those things

Jewskillmohamed:


You eat horse sperm with your mother?

Still coming up with more idiotic statement, what a waste of space.

Jewskillmohamed:
For me I will say it's the mother and here are my debate list below you can counter it with your own list if you feel mine is s wrong .


Pregnancy and Childbirth: Mothers undergo the physical challenges of pregnancy, labor, and delivery, which can be intense and demanding.


Breastfeeding: Mothers who breastfeed often have to manage feeding schedules, potential difficulties like mastitis, and the time-consuming nature of breastfeeding sessions.


Primary Caregiving Role: Mothers are often seen as the primary caregivers, responsible for nurturing, comforting, and meeting the emotional needs of children.


Multi-tasking: Mothers frequently juggle multiple tasks simultaneously, such as household chores, childcare, and work responsibilities.


Emotional Labor: Mothers may bear a significant amount of emotional labor, including managing family relationships, mediating conflicts, and providing emotional support.


Societal Expectations: Society often places higher expectations and pressures on mothers to excel in both professional and domestic roles including moral roles for example don't smoke or go to the bar you are a woman.


Mental Load: Mothers often carry the mental load of planning and organizing family activities, appointments, and household logistics.


Sleep Deprivation: Especially in the early stages of parenting, mothers may experience more interrupted sleep due to nighttime feedings and childcare responsibilities.
Career Sacrifices: Many mothers face challenges in balancing career advancement with family responsibilities, leading to potential career sacrifices.


Stereotypes and Bias: Stereotypes and biases can lead to mothers being undervalued or taken for granted in their contributions to the family.

It's important to note that these points are based on societal perceptions and norms, and individual experiences may vary widely. Both mothers and fathers play crucial roles in their families, and their contributions should be acknowledged and appreciated equally.

All you listed is nothing compared to chasing money especially in a country like Nigeria where your tomorrow is not sure.

Tasks below involve money

Rent , feeding , clothing, education, healthcare, energy bills

I used to think my mom was MVP until i had to almost walk the shoes of my dad. I love my mom100 but men dey try abeg, funny thing is they are underappreciated. Give it to responsible men they are the real real MVP

FuckYeyeMods:
Truthfully, Women are truly trying.
I wonder how they deal with Sleep Deprivation.
After gisting into the night, before bed, you will still knack her and she will still be the one to wake everybody up few hours later.
Get the children ready for school while she cook,
Take the children to school while you're still asleep,
Comeback and hasten you to get ready for work,
Serve your food,
Wash the dishes, Sweep, Mop, tidy everywhere.
Wash the clothes and still unable to sleep even when alone while everybody are away.
Kudos to every good wife on earth.

Guy you be confirmed ode. Most of these things you mentioned can be perfectly taken care of by a well paid nanny or maid.

On the other hand, can you pay someone to go and "hustle or provide" for your sustenance?

Do you know what it takes to make money? And then spend it on another being? Even criminals have a hard time making money not to talk of working folks. Or is it business men?


Women are having it easier than men that's all. I'm not saying they're doing nothing but it's very far from what men are doing.

FuckYeyeMods:
Truthfully, Women are truly trying.
I wonder how they deal with Sleep Deprivation.
After gisting into the night, before bed, you will still knack her and she will still be the one to wake everybody up few hours later.
Get the children ready for school while she cook,
Take the children to school while you're still asleep,
Comeback and hasten you to get ready for work,
Serve your food,
Wash the dishes, Sweep, Mop, tidy everywhere.
Wash the clothes and still unable to sleep even when alone while everybody are away.
Kudos to every good wife on earth.

If she does all these, then she deserves a good man who appreciates her!!

Jewskillmohamed:


Money is not everything, have you considered single moms or people who gave birth out of rape without a man figure, how did they do it ?

They passed through hell self still had men that are always coming through for them.
I know plenty of them

FuckYeyeMods:
Truthfully, Women are truly trying.
I wonder how they deal with Sleep Deprivation.
After gisting into the night, before bed, you will still knack her and she will still be the one to wake everybody up few hours later.
Get the children ready for school while she cook,
Take the children to school while you're still asleep,
Comeback and hasten you to get ready for work,
Serve your food,
Wash the dishes, Sweep, Mop, tidy everywhere.
Wash the clothes and still unable to sleep even when alone while everybody are away.
Kudos to every good wife on earth.

Why leave ur wife to do all the work . I help in all u mentioned above, as a way to support my wife yet am the bread winner......Times has changed u can't leave all the chores to her if u dont have a maid

philexcel:


Why leave ur wife to do all the work . I help in all u mentioned above, as a way to support my wife yet am the bread winner......Times has changed u can't leave all the chores to her if u dont have a maid

I know someone would say this, which is actually fine..
She understood how hectic my day use to be..
I m also a good cook and I wish I can find time to enter kitchen and cook good meal but I have only 3 - 4 hrs a day to sleep... everyday.
You might be wondering if I'm a security personnel. Well I'm not.

Badmashiii:


Guy you be confirmed ode. Most of these things you mentioned can be perfectly taken care of by a well paid nanny or maid.

On the other hand, can you pay someone to go and "hustle or provide" for your sustenance?

Do you know what it takes to make money? And then spend it on another being? Even criminals have a hard time making money not to talk of working folks. Or is it business men?


Women are having it easier than men that's all. I'm not saying they're doing nothing but it's very far from what men are doing.

Why call me Ode!
I actually felt it as if you're talking to me directly.
Can you or do you pay your wife 100k, 150k as allowance?
If I list my schedules for you everyday then you will realise you're very idiot.
Please don't get out there and make money. Be forming woke by washing the dishes, bathing the children or cooking.
Mumu! Which woman will do all the aforementioned without direct benefit.
She's a graduate and very beautiful but she knows what needs to be done.
So She's not your regular batch.
Werey!!

Mumu

ideatoprince18:


If u are sensible .... U will read and understand what is written up there!!!! Yse ya brain cells to think.

Close you mouth.

ideatoprince18:
.... please take ur close mindedness away from my comment!!!

See the one who is close minded. Lol...

livinbygrace:


No mind the werey he just dey type nonsense,maybe he is still one of these indomie generation children that have experienced life.
He will learn in a very hard way

He must be one of indomie generation, 9ja never show him shege

I will say father but my mother is also a great mother the manager of the house she manage our father struggles and manage us I give kudos to my father always because he is good father and my mother too... I give this kudos to my father because am a good father now like my father so it is not easy but mother is a manager of the house if your mother is not managing your father home 🏠 well. Your father works will not show

U see father's eehn...the load is too much on them after I lost my dad it dawned on me that "to be a man is not a day job"