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Some Nice Men: "Very Good Bad Guys" by jezuzboi(m): 12:19pm On Apr 03
"Someone" Tweeted:
The only time a woman wants just a nice man is when she's in a panic to get married.

"Whoever" Replied:
Spot on, because, prior to such panic moments, young women with age on their side are known to usually go haywire with that superficial shine of youth to points where certain of them, being a bit slutty, tend to only warm up to good times & not wedding bells in the event of it, putting in so much work to win over well-to-do charming princes for vibes & cruise only, since, in their opinion, relationships are potential prisons that would shut them out of the good stuff if they subscribe to it. One would think it is only rakish men who approach women with a truckload of garbage packed in their loins & itching to unload it on the women. But there tends to be a damage that broken hearts cause certain women which wouldn't let them gear toward true advances of genuine nice men who want more than to unload a truckload of garbage in their loins on them...because their broken hearts never quite heal enough for them to see beyond emotional wounds visited on them by past mates.

So one finds that a number of women, too, usually come unto men with a truckload of garbage stored in their vaginas & usually just itch to unload it on men. But the distinguishing factor between such men & women is that...while men itch to unload the garbage in their loins to only revel in good times with women, women take it further by adding other pricey benefits to the delight that derives from unloading the garbage in their vaginas on men, which accounts for their putting in great effort to secure well-to-do charming princes for themselves with gold the princes don't mind them digging. To win the favors of such princes, the women, taking no thought to the idealness of their superficial shine, pronto get choked up about a few compliments of order-giving, emotionally damaged dicks who want nothing but to unload the truckload of garbage packed in their loins on them. After all, they have gold they don't mind the women digging...& nice men do what all the while?

Probably spending their days watching their entire lives being put on hold...hating so much to have to wait & depend on the whim of women they're in love with—who'd only turn attention to the men the moment they're in a panic to get married, since, for them, youth is a time for a kind of fun & games that nice men are too timid & in love to indulge. Actually, it sometimes happens that the fun & games that rock the boats of such women is something that nice men have yet to figure out, & the fact that they have yet to figure it out—makes them utterly uninterested in the fun & games, thus coming off as super boring to the women. It's true that the man who has had experiences of conquests nearly always succeeds where he who is timid & in love fails. Though having no experiences of conquests to boast of, some nice men, however, prove to not be timid & in love enough to watch their entire lives put on hold for women who'd only turn attention to them the moment they're in a panic to get married. Being nice, it is not out of place for nice men to insist on such inconsiderate women as beautiful persons. But then, nothing is so sweet as to triumph over the resistance of beautiful persons. That sees some nice men showing their superiority in knowledge & skill by out-strategizing such women & getting the women to turn around & depend on their whim...surprisingly.

Out-strategizing such women sees some nice men adopting an approach that has them killing the women with kindness, & it usually works. Guess it's not that sheepish to play Mr. Nice Guy after all, because, besides it being how whole towns get won over when that approach is pulled on whole towns, it, as has become evident, is how even Alpha Females get won over. So the men wouldn't give listening ears to concerned individuals who caution them to never be nice men, specifically to inconsiderate women whose boats such niceness is likely to rock...but to be asses because that's how a nice man rids his mind of its potentialities to nurse “simping ideologies.” Know what that is? Making sheep out of able men. But some nice men wouldn't worry about that because, such women, with their base inclination toward all that glitters in their youth, already prove that they can't be trusted when the panic to get married turns their attention to nice men once they become spinsters.

So, some nice men, being "very good bad guys," like Shylock in Shakespeare's "Merchant of Venice," device means of getting their pound of flesh. As sharp-edged men who seek to understand the world but have learnt not to trust it, they make it an art to fit themselves into places they never belonged. Certain of such "good bad guys," mastering moral warfare, played the victim while making certain women feel guilty for something unspecified they'd done. That could be a good thing because, when folks seem to share one's exact ideas, one ought to be wary, as such folks could merely be mirroring those ideas to charm. In order words, when people don't seem to share one's ideas exactly, one ought to have no fears: it is only because they can't mirror those ideas to charm. But the women wouldn't know that. Their entire being revolved around all that glitters. So it was easy for the good bad guys to make the women feel like they'd betrayed & taken their niceness for granted.

It wasn't long before the women, speaking in defense of themselves for nothing exactly they had done, said to the good bad guys: "are you listening to yourselves? We took advantage of you? We betrayed you? We barely even know each other. Certainly not well enough for us to do either of those things to each other. As much as it pains us to admit, you’re not dumb enough to let someone you just met to take advantage of you. If we’re not going to be your emotional support Bleep, we sure as hell won’t be your hate Bleep! Get that!" Suffice it to say that, up until that very moment, the men hadn't brought up anything about sex. But thanks to their niceness, they'd managed to get the women to deem it their obligation to them...just not out of hate but on the basis of emotional support. As it turned out, the delight that charming princes spared much gold to have the women indulge them in—was the delight the same women granted the good bad guys as due reward for niceness.

"With great female power comes great female responsibility. Whatever it is, it has to feel good. Something that feels so good can’t be wrong. When nothing feels good, it only means everything is wrong. How is what feels good to be identified? By simply finding the source of happiness within & not relying on others to supply it." This happened to be a lesson the women learned late: one they learned upon getting to that stage where the panic for marriage had already set in...a stage where they'd already devoted their entire attention to some nice men they soon discovered to not be real nice men but very good bad guys. Feeling like the men didn’t have the time or the energy for them, they wouldn't hold them back. So they told the men to go because every day felt like a breakup...with them constantly letting each other down & holding each other back. At some point, everyone was having sex but them. The men's fingers found what they sought: it was left for their eyes to see what they yearned to see. But the women wouldn’t be driven nuts by their crisp fingers. Asked why they tried so hard to demonize & abolish being driven nuts by fingering when there are other means of driving them nuts which can't be demonized or abolished, they made known that the men's fingers in them drives them mad & they say stupid things & make confessions when they're mad.

Hence, for the men, it's always nice to see them mad...& that’s all they cared about. The women's attention then turned to genuine nice men, having become spinsters with panic for marriage setting in aggressively. But the genuine nice men had grievances to air against the women who they testify to having treated them badly in past times because of charming princes with gold for them to dig—as well as good bad guys they mistook for nice men, all the while failing to recognize real nice men...even relegating them to the background in the mating game. For that reason, the nice men, not wanting the women to eat their cakes & have it back, blatantly refused to be last resorts for women whose attention only turned to them by reason of their panic to get married. Worst part is: some of them, at that point, had ceased from being elegant beauties to write home about like they used to be, some even having kids & baby bumps to show for their escapades. Thus, nice men play safe by being careful to not get carried away by lavish affection of despairing women who'd not look the men's way when their beauties burned, leaving them with stories that touch hearts...like this one:

"we look back on those days & regret none of it: not the risks, the shame, nor the total lack of foresight. We’ve had a lot to learn. In your place, if there is pain, nurse it. If there is a flame, don’t snuff it out: don’t be brutal with it. Withdrawal can be a terrible thing when it keeps one awake at night. Watching others forget us sooner than we’d want to be forgotten is no better. We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should, that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty & have less to offer each time we start with someone new. How you live your life is your business. But remember, our hearts & our bodies are given to us only once. Most of us can’t help but live as though we’ve got two lives to live. One is the mockup, the other the finished version, & then there are all those versions in between. But there’s only one life, & before you know it, your heart is worn out. As for one's body, there comes a point when no one looks at it, much less wanting to come near it. There are bodies that have gotten to points where none wants to look at them, much less come near, except the blind, being pressured to love that body."

The genuine nice men, not being so nice as to blindly love the worn-out bodies of spinsters who gave the best of themselves to charming princes & very good bad guys, only to turn their attention to genuine nice guys they had relegated to the background in the mating game on account of their supposed timidity & boringness, gave the spinsters the cold shoulder. That was their way of not just making the spinsters live with the consequence of their past behavior toward them, but to likewise put forward to young women with age on their side that the only time a woman wants a nice man shouldn't just be when she's in panic to get married. It should be more like a modus operandi, otherwise, things may just turn out like it did for the case study of this narrative...arguably.
Re: Some Nice Men: "Very Good Bad Guys" by muyico(m): 4:10pm On Apr 03
Weldon! Nigeria youths hates reading

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Re: Some Nice Men: "Very Good Bad Guys" by jezuzboi(m): 6:51pm On Apr 03
muyico:
Weldon! Nigeria youths hates reading
Perhaps they need someone to remind them of how much readers can be leaders.
Re: Some Nice Men: "Very Good Bad Guys" by qtguru(m): 8:23pm On Apr 03
Lol not reading that
Re: Some Nice Men: "Very Good Bad Guys" by 2braithe: 8:30pm On Apr 03
Are you writing a P.hD thesis?

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Re: Some Nice Men: "Very Good Bad Guys" by jezuzboi(m): 8:36pm On Apr 03
qtguru:
Lol not reading that
embarassed embarassed
Re: Some Nice Men: "Very Good Bad Guys" by jezuzboi(m): 8:37pm On Apr 03
2braithe:
Are you writing a P.hD thesis?
Is that what it looks like?

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