Who is the real wife?

Any one he paid her bride price is his real wife.

If he paid bride price for all the 3 women, the 3 women are his real wives.

You can't be joined in a holy matrimony unless both of of you register the marriage at the LGA registry in the Catholic, and other orthodox Christian churches. (Don't know about the pentecostals) So the second wife is the legally married one.

Depend on the Angle

Sight of God: Traditional Marriage
Sight of Govt : Court marriage


Sight of Men: white wedding

I will respect the one recognize by God

SWATMan:
You can't be joined in a holy matrimony unless both of of you register the marriage at the LGA registry in the Catholic, and other orthodox Christian churches. (Don't know about the pentecostals) So the second wife is the legally married one.

What if the church did not register the marriage at an LGA?

Court-wise,any marriage conducted in the court is the legal one.......But then again, you'll have to remember the fact that we are Africans and according to the African setting,one can also say the wife married traditionally is the legal wife...

Your own na who the real wife is. Person wey EFCC suppose carry. Who dey marry three wives now!

Ishilove:

What if the church did not register the marriage at an LGA?

Don't know about others, but the Catholic church would never wed the couple without a proof from the registry.

Court marriage