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Should I Confront Her? by Rubyjade: 9:20am On Apr 13 |
From DM I have been going through my mom's phone for a while now and things I see on it are too bad. She has been having sexchats with 3 different men, I am most certain she has met and had sex with one of them. |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by incandescentena: 9:24am On Apr 13 |
Allow mum breath 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by 2special(m): 9:29am On Apr 13 |
Don't confront her rather discuss with her..... 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by Hezzyluv: 9:30am On Apr 13 |
"This is super..... story" 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by Rubyjade: 9:33am On Apr 13 |
Hezzyluv:Oga abeg shift if you no get wetin you wan advice |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by ezugegere(m): 9:42am On Apr 13 |
If you "confront", you may not like the consequences. She could even commit suicide o! Unfortunately, both your parents seem to be irresponsible. A woman in her 50s that is still sending nudes to men is grossly irresponsible, no matter her reason for doing that. However, seat your day down and talk to him. If possible, involve whoever you know that he respects 7 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by Absuchat(m): 10:06am On Apr 13 |
Drop your mom's number ASAP She needs counseling 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by JASONjnr(m): 10:17am On Apr 13 |
You have to bear with her from your narrative, she's just trying to feel young again but she's not doing the right thing. Also, the men she's sex-chatting with might likely be married too. Then it will mean that she's doing what she's accusing her husband of. It's better to divorce and let her conscience to release her than flirting while married. Next time she wants to move out... Please allow her. She's got her children that will look after her in her aged days. 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by duduade: 10:30am On Apr 13 |
Let her live Please body no be firewood 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by Rubyjade: 11:28am On Apr 13 |
Absuchat:Counselor isonu 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by NPFLADMIN(m): 12:05pm On Apr 13 |
Technically, they ain't married again. She's just in a situationship. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by frozen70(f): 1:06pm On Apr 13 |
Rubyjade: If you feel hurt about your mom life style outside marriage, Jow do you feel about the disgraceful act of irresponsible life style of your dad, who has lost his glory as a father and a husband Well I think you should just leave your mom alone pls, she has been through heart breaks from your dad and her joy is now outside, she is fighting for her life and happiness I will not advice you to confront her since you are not able to challenge your dad to come back home and keep her warm Once a woman cant get the love she craved for in her marriage especialy from her husband, then don't blame her for seeking for such else where because you don't know the options she has before taking such decisions Loneliness kills fast You should be more worried about your dad's life style because I bet you, at old age your dad will get his rewards from your mum and trust women she will pay him bitterly, by then all those small small girls and women he is going about with, have already been done with him Since your mom is working and an independent woman, am sure you know by now that money is not your mom's problems. But affection, thats what she is looking for. She has blood running in her life. You want her to sink into depression in her marriage while your dad is enjoying life outside marriage Think twice and leave her alone Just learn from their mistakes and be a more responsible and committed husband and father so that your wife will remain loyal and faithful to you 8 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by aggos: 2:43pm On Apr 13 |
frozen70: Someone has advised you to sit her down to discuss this with her. I see no reason why a 50 years old woman should be sharing her nude pictures with young men outside just because her husband is not there for her. That is indecency! Let her walk out of the marriage if she can rather than flirting around with guys. Remember that she got her life to live and be happy. 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by hakeemhakeem(m): 2:51pm On Apr 13 |
My friend betrayed me,I will betray him too makes both of them a betrayal, your mom had joined your father as fornicator.tell her to divorce him and get herself a manfriend or boyfriend which is more better and honored to afford a gathering of family members on her head by that she would be able to raise her head to talk about the actrocity committed by your father 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by Kobojunkie: 3:37pm On Apr 13 |
Rubyjade:Seems the only reason she has remained in the marriage home up until this point is not because of your father but you. If you wish to confront her, then be equally ready to agree to her moving out of the house and probably divorcing your father as well. It is unfair of you to keep her chained in that situation, requiring she has no life outside of it all while you ignore your father's indiscretions. Yes, by accepting your father's wayward ways you give him a green card to operate freely. Either extend the same green card to your mother or allow her to leave so she can find her own life outside of that marriage abeg! 8 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by Kobojunkie: 3:44pm On Apr 13 |
hakeemhakeem:Nonsense! Betrayal is typically the end of a relationship, the severing of bonds. You can't betray someone who first betrayed you cause there is typically no bond left to betray after the first betrayal unless, of course, you are dealing with a fool of some sort. OP's father ended the marriage relationship with his hand. The woman hanging around does not mean they are still a unit. OP said he is the reason she stays. The man could have equally divorced her before choosing to betray her but he didn't so why put the onus on her to do so? 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by Beremx(f): 3:56pm On Apr 13 |
Your mother needs love. Let her be. Focus on your father who broke her heart knowing well she didn't wrong him 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by hakeemhakeem(m): 5:08pm On Apr 13 |
Kobojunkie: If man and woman pee while walking someone will have more water on their body. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by jamesversion: 8:18pm On Apr 13 |
Give me your mum's number. 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by Pojomojo: 6:56am On Apr 14 |
No 1 Like |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by IyaTola: 7:05pm On Apr 15 |
Confront her that's she's a baby 🍼 or what 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by Meerahbel: 8:27am On Apr 17 |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by lavylilly: 3:25pm On Apr 17 |
What makes you think so? Hezzyluv: 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by IyaTola: 8:29am On Apr 20 |
jamesversion:Werey niyen |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by Oyindamolah: 1:45pm On Apr 20 |
frozen70: |
Re: Should I Confront Her? by TeamXola(m): 3:12pm On Apr 21 |
hakeemhakeem: Why sharing this nonsense with me? |
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