Resign and look for another job since you have messed up.

She is like a bone in the throat......

If you attempt to sack her you will be in deep shit
If you leave her and ignore her you are still in big shit

Only option is for you to resign and look for another job......Then learn ur lessons

Freshtruth:
I am the Manager of a Hotel. There is this waitress that is also working at the hotel, very respectful and loyal. All the workers in the hotel respect me to the bone.

Until the same waitress keep hailing me when ever she come to my office she will say may may u are a very handsome guy o. During my off day I called her to a bar in my area cause that was her off day too. I bought her barbeque and holandia yourgut. We lodge an hotel room and she satisfy me well.

The next morning I told her we won't do this again that is wrong because am a married man she said no problem, since then this girl has been disrespecting me, she embarrass me in front of the supervisors. My supervisor got angry and told me to sack her or report her to the owner of the hotel. I told them I will handle the issue.

Pls advise me what to do pls.

Don't do anything, just ignore her. The disrespecting phase will soon end. I'm talking from experience ooo!!!

Yugoslavia247:
See what you will do?

Increase her workload?

Change her position to the most difficult tasks.

Give her more work.

Increase the deductions for her salary.

When that is done.

Or simply pay her off. Take leave for 3 days.
Sack her by instructing the gate man to never allow her in or lose his job.

Let he gateman hand her the sack letter.

Over.

Pleasure is pleasure.
Job is job
If she thinks because of sex she can misbehave she will get sacked.

Better make make the warning clear. Tell her what is wrong with her.

Dem no dey waste time for this kind thing.

Na knack you knack.

If she no fit be matured show her the way out.


Dont be timid to her ooooo

Many gals here will support the gal because most of them don't think.
They feel sex means I can do anything.

Bro give am suspension. 2 weeks.

If she come again and do anyhow give am 1 week extra.

Because she will do same to you if situation was reversed.

If I am the owner of the company I can sack you not because you had sex but because you can't get your shit together. You should know what to do. You no rape am na.

It is obvious you just see ladies as sex objects. Read through your comment again. Sebi u go get daughter too. No worry

She will soon post your noddle picture and video. That disrespect is the first stage

iLegendd:
I know this post will soon hit front page and feminists will abuse you. They'll say you took advantage of her instead of she being the one who took advantage of you.

You wasted money buying barbecue 10k-20k, Hollandia 1.5k, paying for hotel, 20-25k, and her TP 5k. That is a total of 37-40k or more.

That is about $38. Let's just call it $40. Yes, it's small, but if you buy a meme crypto coin with that $40, in 2025, you may end up withdrawing more than a million Naira.

You missed this opportunity and still lost respect. If your wife finds out, you'll still lose your marriage. If the CEO of the hotel finds out, you may still lose your job. She didn't even give you a Mouth Action, but she don blow your spirit.

People will still blame you for not acting like Joseph.

She's a bad girl and you're an unfaithful husband. The only men that are meant to cheat are billionaires and multimillionaires.

My dear, if you sack her, she'll expose you and still find your wife and tell her.

If you had banged her well, she would've been worshipping you by now, but no, you laid on the bed and she did 80% of the work.

Most times, women respect a man based on how good he is in bed and how he can provide.

If any of them is missing, don't expect total respect.

The only option is for you to act like she doesn't exist, or continue having sex with her, but this time, deliver like a man or quit the job or sack her and lose your marriage.

The end.

welcome to the club ....ur brilliant I like it when people give comment like winch.God ....ur a winch I swear ....the guy no fit perform with him small groundnut now the girl don see am finish ......mumu he better go back for return leg and tear her toto so that he can redem the golden egg from her kpekus which signify his authority as the boss and a man ....instead the moral cowards want to cow out ......if him sack am his respect will be like low current .....people go suspect am girls go avoid and hate am more so the foolish girl he laid with fit go extra mile for him

You knew you're married yet disrespected your wife, damaged the purity of your marriage, and desecrated an innocent young lady because of her vulnerability. You knew you wouldn't marry her. Have you thought about how you damaged her emotions and body?

Now you're looking for respect, which you destroyed yourself. You should be ashamed. You're not worthy to be a manager for damaging the psychology of the people you're to protect.

If it is in some other country, she will claim damages that your salary will not be able to pay and you will still lose your job.. 
 
 

Freshtruth:
I am the Manager of a Hotel. There is this waitress that is also working at the hotel, very respectful and loyal. All the workers in the hotel respect me to the bone.

Until the same waitress keep hailing me when ever she come to my office she will say may may u are a very handsome guy o. During my off day I called her to a bar in my area cause that was her off day too. I bought her barbeque and holandia yourgut. We lodge an hotel room and she satisfy me well.

The next morning I told her we won't do this again that is wrong because am a married man she said no problem, since then this girl has been disrespecting me, she embarrass me in front of the supervisors. My supervisor got angry and told me to sack her or report her to the owner of the hotel. I told them I will handle the issue.

Pls advise me what to do pls.

Freshtruth:
I am the Manager of a Hotel. There is this waitress that is also working at the hotel, very respectful and loyal. All the workers in the hotel respect me to the bone.

Until the same waitress keep hailing me when ever she come to my office she will say may may u are a very handsome guy o. During my off day I called her to a bar in my area cause that was her off day too. I bought her barbeque and holandia yourgut. We lodge an hotel room and she satisfy me well.

The next morning I told her we won't do this again that is wrong because am a married man she said no problem, since then this girl has been disrespecting me, she embarrass me in front of the supervisors. My supervisor got angry and told me to sack her or report her to the owner of the hotel. I told them I will handle the issue.

Pls advise me what to do pls.

she wants you

This is what I refer to as 'Erection without Direction!

How u expect girl wey done press ur nyash to respect u)?

You should have told her you’re married before you get into her pant! You deserve whatever she serve you bro to be honest

BscHolder:
I'm interested in friendship with you.
All these moments I've been nurturing affections for you via this forum

lol your pen1s wan carry you go where you no know

thesicilian:

Wow.
What's her crime?
Some of you will be worse than Idi Amin, Abacha and Hitler combined if given the opportunity to be in power

are you kidding me? is insubordination no longer an official crime? to the extent that her boss' boss is noticing it

thesicilian:
You know that saying that you should never poop where you eat? This is the reason. At what point did you come to realise that sleeping with your staff is bad? Is it before or after sleeping with her?

Obviously she liked you and wanted something more, but your plan was to hit and run. You treated her bad and now you're surprised that she's disrespecting you.

What I'll suggest you do is to take her out again and apologize to her, because you've wronged her. If both of you are single and want to continue the relationship discreetly, its ok. But it must not be allowed to affect the job. Both of you should spell out the terms of the relationship. If it's something that cannot work for one reason or the other, then you should also be able to break it off in a civilised manner. If that is not possible one of you will have to leave the establishment.

Personally I'll prefer you leave (both as a matter of honour and as punishment for sleeping with someone under your care and supervision) instead of trying to force her out

In your last paragraph, you forgot you were speaking to an African, who can never resign, no matter what, he better be shown the way out than resign.

Dreamhighnow:


It is obvious you just see ladies as sex objects. Read through your comment again. Sebi u go get daughter too. No worry

Okay.
So she should jeopardize the whole company because she had sex.

Dey play.

Freshtruth:
I am the Manager of a Hotel. There is this waitress that is also working at the hotel, very respectful and loyal. All the workers in the hotel respect me to the bone.

Until the same waitress keep hailing me when ever she come to my office she will say may may u are a very handsome guy o. During my off day I called her to a bar in my area cause that was her off day too. I bought her barbeque and holandia yourgut. We lodge an hotel room and she satisfy me well.

The next morning I told her we won't do this again that is wrong because am a married man she said no problem, since then this girl has been disrespecting me, she embarrass me in front of the supervisors. My supervisor got angry and told me to sack her or report her to the owner of the hotel. I told them I will handle the issue.

Pls advise me what to do pls.

The indignity you're suffering is the price to pay for breaking the law of a system same men standardized on social existence. Blame men for this, they planted into women's mentality the seeds that germinate into their understanding to enact a delusion of boldness that erases boundary that demarcate roles, status and postitions right after an consented but illegal sexual activity has been executed. Men are to be blame for all the woes and ills of any given society. Not women. I know what I'm saying. Youre married, your staff tempted you with carrot, bugs bunny fell for it and drew line back, Betty Boop couldn't handle that. More romps, more favors and preferentials was her end game.

Now imagine you were married to like 9 wives with utmost sexual, marital, economical and attentive responsibilities dangling round your busy neck tasking your arse on fire, no jezebel-yanshed Stefflon Don or Beyonce-looking biiiach would dare appeal or attract you.

So go deal with it.

Happy monogamy life.

Ps.
Lady staff, whoever and wherever you are... Don't cut this man any slack. They are the ones, including all the rich married men, destroying the fabrics of Western society with their hypocrites life.

Me and my wife till death do them apart, for richer for poorer, yet they are the largest patronizers of hotels and brothels banging all these young girls up and down. Nigerian politicians inclusive

Holluwhakemmy:
That's definition of see finish, she have seen your Gbola so no more respect for you, next time you won't try that with your staff.

Is That not what women want big 🥒

Her name might be nonsense
Wow
You Bleep*d nonsense

Freshtruth:
I am the Manager of a Hotel. There is this waitress that is also working at the hotel, very respectful and loyal. All the workers in the hotel respect me to the bone.

Until the same waitress keep hailing me when ever she come to my office she will say may may u are a very handsome guy o. During my off day I called her to a bar in my area cause that was her off day too. I bought her barbeque and holandia yourgut. We lodge an hotel room and she satisfy me well.

The next morning I told her we won't do this again that is wrong because am a married man she said no problem, since then this girl has been disrespecting me, she embarrass me in front of the supervisors. My supervisor got angry and told me to sack her or report her to the owner of the hotel. I told them I will handle the issue.

Pls advise me what to do pls.

This one is not a side chick material 😁

Oga manager: sacking her is a no go area or else you're going down with her. For her to have been reacting that way, she definitely knew what you don't. She's a step ahead of you.

Don't even try to sleep with her again cos you're losing the battle already. First, act as if everything is normal..then invite her to your office and have one on one discussion with her on this her recent lackadaisical attitude to work. Make this discussions strictly official, her reactions will definitely determine your next move.

Don't ever underrate any woman irrespective of her age, size or position.

You want to eat your cake and have it abi. Agbaya!

If I may ask, what do you even need her respect for, will it increase your salary? U don Bleep finish pursue her yet you dey find respect. Oga manager relax. Provided she does her job well, whether or not she respects you is inconsequential

efemena5050:
I don't blame u oooo na the idiots wey like ur comments I blame........ insipidus malinctus glo glo giz......see ur loopsided advice for ur mind u get clever abi ....don't worry until someday them hit and run ur sis .....I guess u dint read where the op told the girl he is married abi ... He knew he was married before engaging in such acts now the drums don start him dey form honest by products ......the guy is a cheat....and senseless......" Women only respect u as oga when u respect ur self.....if him sack like u recommend them go suspect am even more .....by now she fit don spread the whole information about him small periwinkle dick ....thts y she no dey respect am again ......." Never shit in ur room....if u must shit then go outside ur house so as to avoid any unpleasant smell

Stfu
Yen yen yen
They had mutual sex
Now one party now sees it as an avenue to be unreasonable and forgets the job is the job.
So because they have sex the company should suffer just to please one person.

Never.

What do u expect.....

Freshtruth:
I am the Manager of a Hotel. There is this waitress that is also working at the hotel, very respectful and loyal. All the workers in the hotel respect me to the bone.

Until the same waitress keep hailing me when ever she come to my office she will say may may u are a very handsome guy o. During my off day I called her to a bar in my area cause that was her off day too. I bought her barbeque and holandia yourgut. We lodge an hotel room and she satisfy me well.

The next morning I told her we won't do this again that is wrong because am a married man she said no problem, since then this girl has been disrespecting me, she embarrass me in front of the supervisors. My supervisor got angry and told me to sack her or report her to the owner of the hotel. I told them I will handle the issue.

Pls advise me what to do pls.

Did you respect yourself too? It was after she satisfied you you remembered you are a married man, yeye. You did not ask for advise before doing rubbish.

Yugoslavia247:


Lol.
Yen yen yen
And he told you he is married.

After you get sacked. Do your worse.
Then I will arrest you for blackmailing.
Infact you will go court and let's see where you will see money get lawyer.

go back and read the post again. Naso una dey fail exam. Olodo

🤣🤣😂😅🤣😂😅😂
🤣🤣😅😂🤣😅😅😅
You nack person finish still dey find respect
Nobody disrespect a man quickly like girl wey him don nack.........
Oga sack her to save your face or face the embarrassment continuously.
I for teach you wertin you go do
But you sef
You no be better person

BscHolder:
I'm interested in friendship with you.
All these moments I've been nurturing affections for you via this forum

Guy you don fall guys hand o
That lady go use you shine now, just watch.

Villa12:
go back and read the post again. Naso una dey fail exam. Olodo

See person wey dey talk.
You knack and I knack.
I no misbehave now you dey misbehave
Say you be wetin
As how.
If you want to be do anyhow better be ready to leave the job. Go tell people say I knack and I go tell them say na 5k u collect.
Dey play.

Yugoslavia247:


Okay.
So she should jeopardize the whole company because she had sex.

Dey play.

if OP try nonesense with her, OP should know he's going down with her and probably lose his wife too

PLEASE BE CAREFUL YOU CAN LOSE YOUR JOB OR YOUR WIFE( DIVORCE).
You can't say how many other top workers she has sleep with.

THAT IS WHY GOD'S COMMANDMENT IS GOLDEN, Now you've lost your peace of mind

SIN KILLS

Yugoslavia247:


Stfu
Yen yen yen
They had mutual sex
Now one party now sees it as an avenue to be unreasonable and forgets the job is the job.
So because they have sex the company should suffer just to please one person.

Never.

malinctus I never expected u to comprehend my write up judging from the recommendations u gave so Bleep out......mutual sex! With one party all acting moral all of a sudden .......let's reverse the scenery here let's assume it was ur wife or the op wife tht did this when u find out as the husband will u clap for ur wife .....the guy messed up ...he was married not single ....he is the boss (oga) ......so u see .....learn to reason objectively and not in a lopsided manner ....combium

Villa12:
if OP try nonesense with her, OP should know he's going down with her and probably lose his wife too

Lol. For this economy. You think it is social media dey play

He no marry ex hkup gal na.