When did a pr0stitute start giving marital advice ? Nothing wey aboki no go see for gate!

Emma09:
Very true. How as a man u can't provide for ur family and not expect ur wife to cheat on u? Almost very impossible. Make God no make me fail in my responsibility as a man o IJN. Amen!

I no know you but from your comment,you must be a 16 year old or have a brain of a 16 year old

Ekpo akpara mkpo
Can you imagine reason why women cheat?
Ekpo nkagwo umia ibod ado abom
Me Kap mkpa ishi

Bliztzer:


Why u be like this?

No be woman be folorunso alakija. Shey that kind woman need to cheat to provide for immediate family.

If u pillar na penis you go eventually fall.

I appreciate all those hard working ladies out. Make una let them spoil una. No do pass urself..

She divorced her husband because he is a brostitute.

How does sleeping around assist her in her struggle, or her hustle is Olosho

Emma09:
Very true. How as a man u can't provide for ur family and not expect ur wife to cheat on u? Almost very impossible. Make God no make me fail in my responsibility as a man o IJN. Amen!

Provider, provide all if them wan cheat, they would still cheat. A cheat is a cheat and need no reason to. It pains me that u maybe a male. A man shld not cheat nor a woman

YoshihideSuga:


She divorced her husband because he is a brostitute.

As the man no get stress na. Na the wife be breadwinner.

EreluRoz:
Back to sender in multiple fold. You could have saved yourself some stress by jumping over my comment.

Let's see who it goes to

Some ladies will take this as an advise

[quote author=EreluRoz post=129470889]She's somehow right but nairaland is not the best place to have reasonable discussion.

Women are not created to provide, it is against their nature, it makes them become masculine and vulnerable to other men. It takes a strong and well disciplined woman to provide and still remain faithful, well, not much of such women exist these days.

Men should learn to be traditional and provide, stop stressing your women and putting them in vulnerable position to other men. [/quote

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so you mean the moment a woman provides for the home she most cheat...

so thats a good reason to cheat abi, am sure your enjoying the liks.

How does selling soup ingredients in the market expose women to men? I have seen a millionaire's PA fvcked his wife before, any cheating woman has ashawo blood from birth.

Odewaleadesoye:


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A honest woman or girl is honest to the call..

Beauty4brain:
How can you let her struggle to provide for you and the family then still expect her to be loyal/flexible for you? Every Woman desire to be with a man who is above her in all areas of life.

this is why marriage is a business venture

EreluRoz:
She's somehow right but nairaland is not the best place to have reasonable discussion.

Women are not created to provide, it is against their nature, it makes them become masculine and vulnerable to other men. It takes a strong and well disciplined woman to provide and still remain faithful, well, not much of such women exist these days.

Men should learn to be traditional and provide, stop stressing your women and putting them in vulnerable position to other men.

This woman's husband is a billionaire, yet she was caught in bed with her Akwa Ibom house boy on Valentine's day.

Blackwale:
this is why marriage is a business venture

Says who? If it is, then marry someone who is on the same page with you.

EreluRoz:
She's somehow right but nairaland is not the best place to have reasonable discussion.

Women are not created to provide, it is against their nature, it makes them become masculine and vulnerable to other men. It takes a strong and well disciplined woman to provide and still remain faithful, well, not much of such women exist these days.

Men should learn to be traditional and provide, stop stressing your women and putting them in vulnerable position to other men.

This woman's husband is a billionaire, yet she was caught in bed with her Akwa Ibom house boy on Valentine's day and was served. What is your point?

Rubbish! Absolute nonsense. If only you know how the wives of the rich and powerful in Nigeria are being steadily banged by young men that have time and pricks. Yours truly is one of them.

Amumaigwe:


This woman's husband is a billionaire, yet she was caught in bed with her Akwa Ibom house boy on Valentine's day and was served. What is your point?

no mind am

Beauty4brain:
As if is easy to birth a child. Child bearing is enough work already for a woman.
Besides, lot of women have moved passed all these. So many are making their own money and still taking good care of their marriages.
The bottom line is this, a man being the head of the family must up his game and keep being in charge

Stop looking for excuses. Do you think it is easy for a man to be fucking you day in day out too. It is lazy women that use child bearing as an excuse. As if as a woman God cannot lift up your head. If Okonjo Iweala has this your mindset, will she be where she is, can she be positioned for God's blessing upon her family. God can use anyone of you to uplift your family. Just don't be lazy looking for excuses up and down. All my children are females and will never be lazy in Jesus name. Stay true and thorough to development and not parasitic tendencies. Fullfil your role. God did not create you to just come and give birth.

Ask for strength and become a better person.

Live your life with understanding. All men cannot be Dangote or Bill Gate as all fingers are not equal. Wherever you find yourself, make Godly efforts to make yourself better and the place much better. All men cannot be Oyedepo, same way all women cannot be Okonjo.

Odewaleadesoye:


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Why do men cheat because of irresponsible women is verse vasa, not forgetting most women know how to do it better.. no long story.

Bluffly:

Stop looking for excuses. Do you think it is easy for a man to be fucking you day in day out too. It is lazy women that use child beating as an excuse. As if as a woman God cannot lift up your head. If Okonjo Iweala has this your mindset, will she be where she is, can she be positioned for God's blessing upon her family. God can use anyone of you to uplift your family. Just don't be lazy looking for excuses up and down. All my children are females and will never be lazy in Jesus name. Stay through to development and not parasitic tendencies. Fullfil your role. God did not create you to just come and give birth.

Ask for strength and become a better person.

Live your life with understanding. All men cannot be Dangote or Bill Gate as all fingers are not equal. Wherever you find yourself, make Godly efforts to make yourself better and the place much better. All men cannot be Oyedepo, same way all women cannot be Okonjo.

Alright Fine. I don't have strength to argue anything you write here. Thank you

EreluRoz:
She's somehow right but nairaland is not the best place to have reasonable discussion.

Women are not created to provide, it is against their nature, it makes them become masculine and vulnerable to other men. It takes a strong and well disciplined woman to provide and still remain faithful, well, not much of such women exist these days.

Men should learn to be traditional and provide, stop stressing your women and putting them in vulnerable position to other men.

Nobody is created to provide.

A woman provides for herself when she is single and suddenly when she gets married she is no longer "Created" to provide??

No matter how much you provide for a woman, if she wants to sleep around, she will sleep around.

Shalom

Odewaleadesoye:


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Why is always a thing of pride for a woman to struggle but a reproach for a man to struggle even if he is doing better than the woman's father and brothers will ever do

Dear men,

Do not be pressured to provide for any woman. Provide for yourself and let the woman share in the provision you have made for yourself.

Nobody is created specifically to provide. Most women twist the Bible and say it is the man's duty to provide.

The Bible clearly states that ANYONE (not necessarily a man)who fails to provide for the family is worse than an infidel. This verse is misconstrued so much because it talks about widows and not about a husband providing.

This is why I always tell my female family members that no man owes you provision. You should vet the man you want to submit to on the merit of his character rather than his pocket.


Marriage or dating is a social relationship and not a financial relationship. Men should strive to be very selfish about who they give their money. If you met her as a 5k girl, please date and marry her as a 5k girl. You don't owe her any financial liberation simply because you are together.

Shalom

Beauty4brain:
Too much hatred for women. What happens? Take it easy dear

Learn to accept responsibility, you are an adult and not a kid, freebie is for children. You know you can't fault my assertion but rather you talk about hate , is holding women accountable refer to hate? Learn to accept responsibility and live a life as an adult that you are. A word they say is enough for the wise.

Beauty4brain:
How can you let her struggle to provide for you and the family then still expect her to be loyal/flexible for you? Every Woman desire to be with a man who is above her in all areas of life.

So a man who shoulder all the responsibility should also have the right to cheat bah

TheDemola:
How is someone not married giving marriage advice? Can only happen in Nigeria. Take this girl serious at your own peril.

She can and it makes sense, since she has been married before.
She's even more qualified because she has seen better than someone who hasn't experienced the IN and OUT of marriage.

But wait o, some people go still take this one serious?
SMH 🤦‍♂️

You need to see the real face of this girl when she was arrested. Photoshop and excessive face painting dey hide things o.

AlphaHakimi:



Nobody is created to provide.

A woman provides for herself when she is single and suddenly when she gets married she is no longer "Created" to provide??

No matter how much you provide for a woman, if she wants to sleep around, she will sleep around.

Shalom

Don't mind these selfish women, they are looking for who they will kill with their financial obligations as if they are less of a human than the man.

TheDemola:
How is someone not married giving marriage advice? Can only happen in Nigeria. Take this girl serious at your own peril.

She is very right about this one, because all the women I have seen cheating on their husbands are bread winners of their various families. The second category are the ones whose husbands travel alot and don't have their times.

Johnson225:


Your comment is disgraceful boss...

So, a woman cheating is justified when her partner is having financial downtimes How some of una dey think self

Know who you will call boss. Some don't deserve such respect due to their thinking faculty. And note also that Nigerian female should be avoided by all means for you to have peace of mind. Iree ooo