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Blaming Young Struggling Men by 1000Capacity: 6:18pm On Apr 16
When I was a kid, I used to wonder why people carry drugs. I used to wonder why people engage in crimes.
One day, I had watched a program called "crime watch". One guy who was arrested said he had to carry the drugs because his wife needed an operation to be done and he had no other means to source for fund. That's sacrifice but the world don't see it that way. They see a young fellow who went against the "law".

Over the years, I have seen several other people apprehended who were into all kinds of things considered to be "against the law". I have also seen people who were lucky enough not to have been caught.

Well, for a struggling young man, there comes a time your mind is opened. You stop making fun of people arrested for all sorts of crimes and start to relate with their acts. You start to understand their choices.

There is a silent truth to this Life. "You Have to Beat the System to make it". The system is not designed to be at your favor, the "LAW" is fashioned to keep you in CONTROL.

When Hunger and poverty want to finish you, you start to do plenty hard calculations angry
Look at the old people on the streets, who can't afford to pay rent. Some are unable to breakfree from poverty.
Is your life not heading that way? Look at your life, you cant even afford a basic life and you aren't getting any younger.

The system makes you think getting a salary job will make your life better. But after years still, you are stucked in endless debts before month ends. Wetin man go do?
You start to believe God is coming to save you and solve your problem with a miracle... But there are just too much problems in the world for God to be worried about yours grin
It's like a man is born to struggle from birth to death.

It takes a Big Will and Determination to want to beat the "law". To live a meaningful life, you'll have to danm the consequences.
Whatever happens, let it happen

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Re: Blaming Young Struggling Men by obinna58(m): 6:42pm On Apr 16
Blame your selfish leaders
Re: Blaming Young Struggling Men by DONFRANSKID(m): 6:52pm On Apr 16
Na who life favor go think say other people lazy

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Re: Blaming Young Struggling Men by Wainey: 6:55pm On Apr 16
Crime is the easy part to success, just one successful robbery and u can make N10m.
But there is also the legit way, it's a more painful, crucial and tiring journey, but you have to trust the process.
Re: Blaming Young Struggling Men by eedhrisademola(m): 10:48pm On Apr 16
Wainey:
Crime is the easy part to success, just one successful robbery and u can make N10m.
But there is also the legit way, it's a more painful, crucial and tiring journey, but you have to trust the process.

TRUST THE PROCESS {LEGIT WAY}.
Re: Blaming Young Struggling Men by Sonnobax15(m): 5:47am On Apr 17
lipsrsealed
It is well
Re: Blaming Young Struggling Men by Fiscus105(m): 6:02am On Apr 17
1000Capacity:
When I was a kid, I used to wonder why people carry drugs. I used to wonder why people engage in crimes.
One day, I had watched a program called "crime watch". One guy who was arrested said he had to carry the drugs because his wife needed an operation to be done and he had no other means to source for fund.

Over the years, I have seen several other people apprehended who were into all kinds of things considered to be "against the law". I have also seen people who were lucky enough not to have been caught.

Well, for a struggling young man, there comes a time your mind is opened. You stop making fun of people arrested for all sorts of crimes. You start to understand their choices.

There is a silent truth to this Life. "You Have to Beat the System to make it". The system is not designed to be at your favor, the "LAW" is fashioned to keep you in CONTROL.

When Hunger and poverty want to finish you, you start to do plenty hard calculations angry
Look at the old people on the streets, who can't afford to pay rent. Some are unable to breakfree from poverty.
Is your life not heading that way? Look at your life, you cant even afford a basic life and you aren't getting any younger.

The system makes you think getting a salary job will make your life better. But after years still, you are stucked in endless debts before month ends. Wetin man go do?
You start to believe God is coming to save you and solve your problem with a miracle... But there are just too much problems in the world for God to be worried about yours grin
It's like a man is born to struggle from birth to death.

It takes a Big Will and Determination to want to beat the "law". To live a meaningful life, you'll have to danm the consequences.
Whatever happens, let it happen
In as much leaders make it hard to make it.


Trying to make an hero in crime. Nowhere in the world that people pick money for free and in everywhere in the world, you struggle to break through, before you cross to success.

You must also have it mind that not everyone would rich, so, be contented with small things you have legitimately.

And lastly, one must planning adequately for immediate and larger future, and must be extremely careful in extravagant spending.

In my analysis above, how many Nigeria youths have that mentality, but quick rich syndrome. Many youths leave a carefree and reckless life at teenagers,when it's time to take responsibilities, they would now wake up to reality, by then,they would be looking for shortcut to success.
Re: Blaming Young Struggling Men by Peakdesign23(m): 8:59am On Apr 17
Making a huge amount of money legit is not an easy task. Unless you’re a politician or working in an oil company or have your own multimillion business or an ascribe wealth.

I write. ✍️ Do well to patronize me.🙏
Re: Blaming Young Struggling Men by Ibechris2: 9:11am On Apr 17
Until we change our mentality and decide to think ahead ealier than expected,things wouldn't change.

Some people have been stagnant in a place for too long all because they don't want to change their lives for better,hence their regressive thoughts.

However,there is an amount of money u will make in Nigeria and u can never remain poor again only if u are prudent financially. E.g 50million naira.

Give the same amount to an idiots...he would squandered it in one month with hope to get another one.

Lastly,build yourself to attract money by leaving ur old locations and get ur hands dirty,work and see things turn around for u, albeit gradually. This I can advice.
Re: Blaming Young Struggling Men by victory36(m): 1:44pm On Apr 17
I never knew there are some Nigerians who actually see life for what it is and from this perspective. Well done bro👍
Re: Blaming Young Struggling Men by 1000Capacity: 6:15pm On Apr 20
victory36:
I never knew there are some Nigerians who actually see life for what it is and from this perspective. Well done bro👍

I dey here
Re: Blaming Young Struggling Men by IkeIgboNiile(m): 6:23am On Apr 21
The truth is that most of the young man who are finding things difficult because we have turned away from traditional religion(not ritual)

We have allowed nollywood to cloud our judgement about our culture and practices. Yahoo maybe bad but it change a lot of guys perception of traditional religion.

They become so successful and handle huge amount of money or lifestyle then their parents could never dream of in their entire lifetime.
Re: Blaming Young Struggling Men by Newdawn30: 9:50am On Apr 21
As a young man, sometimes I do regret not following my friends to-do yahoo , today they got houses and lands , get any girl they want easiky and are treated with respect , money buys respect

While us struggling guys babes go use you any how first chance they get .

Secondly in Nigeria who cares how you made your money ? No one . As long as you help people and spray at events they will praise your name all over town .


Take calculated risk as a man

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