Yes, we definitely need to talk about this important issue. Not merely to talk about it, but to resolve the matter once and for all and find a way to move forward.

The matter I am referring to is the intense animosity between the males and females on this forum. I can sincerely opine that we have never had it this bad before on this forum. Is it just on this forum or do these people take this hatred to real life?

The way both genders cuss and abuse each other is unprecedented expecially the guys . I hear clauses like "all Nigerian girls are useless", and lots of abuses being heaped on Nigerian ladies by guys on this forum.

Kilode, what exactly is going on and why do we hate our women this bad.

For some guys, I would hazard a guess the origin of this deep-seated hatred might be a result of negative experiences in the past with a lady or two and methinks those are not enough to paint all Nigerian ladies the same gloomy brush.

Remember these are our mothers, sisters, cousins, wives and girlfriends even olosho's.
Why do you hate the Nigerian lady so bad that you have to cuss out on NL every single day.

Have you had one two negative experiences with your women like your mother, sister, girlfriend, wife. What exactly is the reason why you always abuse and cuss our ladies. We need to change and do better ok?

Now, the floor is open, can you honestly tell us a negative experience you have with a Nigerian girl/lady and why you think all of them are bad.

I will go first, I have had a wonderful experience with Nigerian women/ladies, from my dear mom(mmanyi) to my beautiful sisters who took care of me growing. Even, I can say I feel more comfortable in the company of the ladies than the guys.

Also, all the relationships I have had with our ladies for romantic to sexual have been very wonderful and I can say the Nigerian women are the best.

What is your angst and what exactly is the reason for this hatred?

Is there are way we can reach some kind of truce and bury this animosity once and for all? What can we do to end these fights?

You get time

Chrisrare:
You get time

These fights na serious matters na. We gat find a way to reach a truce in other to amicably live with each other.
I remember the good old days when Nairaland was like the Garden of Eden between both genders.

You really get time.

WhereMyLoud:
You really get time.

Yes. I get time, is it a bad thing. Bible says " Blessed are the peacemakers. .."

Two things really, firstly, a lot have not been brought up to be respectful of others (respect is more than the physical act of greeting) so that regard for the opposite sex is not there and they are lashing out in an uncontrolled manner.

Secondly, this is a faceless forum and a Nigerian one at that, the worst of people would always be on display.

Stuff they would never deign to say in real life would be what they do here and frequently.

aswani:
Two things really, firstly, a lot have not been brought up to be respectful of others (respect is more than the physical act of greeting) so that regard for the opposite sex is not there and they are lashing out in an uncontrolled manner.

Secondly, this is a faceless forum and a Nigerian one at that, the worst of people would always be on display.

Stuff they would never deign to say in real life would be what they do here and frequently.

Thanks for your input. I totally agree.

Be like na only you dey carry the fight for head ...


Same set of folks that will meet outside of this forum and fvck each other's brain's out...