sorry to bore u, but there something bothering me as regards my marriage. I'm a married with 2 daughters and still hustling to make our living standard better and i want to separate from my wife and decided to show what my wife does, she's:
-Rude with her words,
Selfish and wins alone
-Does not appreciate me nor my siblings, my efforts no matter how little (an ingrate) especially in d past
-She's having less cravings for sex which make me suspect she's two timing
-insensitive with her tongue and makes me look unimportant
-does not give me my roses
-expects me to take shit whereas she does not speak kindly if i do the same to her
-refuses to open up to me, why we refuse having sex when i need more children especially a son which makes me look foolish
-alleged that I'm unable impregnate her that she's always scratching her privates that i should check myself up when sincerely i have not had any extramarital affair since 2015 because i choose to stop and we had my second daughter in 2017. Except if she's not my daughter
-unreasonable, does not care about my opinion on most things, does not think things through before doing (especially with accommodating her family)
-dirty and unorganized
-bad manager of time and has affected me
-lies to score cheap points in an argument

While her good characters are that she's:
-Supportive with her resources
-resourceful
-a good home manager especially with finances
-sociable which complements me as I'm opposite
-a good cook
-naive due to inexposure except she's pretending (but not so)
-does not look like someone that will betray me (who knows). I just had enough of her shenanigans and decided to throw her out. Do u think it's unfair?

She disrespects you, disregards your opinions and verbally ABUSES you. You take shiit from her that she NEVER takes from you.

I've got news for you:

Women RARELY let men like you impregnate them.

Add her naiveté to how she treats you and that makes her a PRIME candidate for cheating. Cyances are high one or both of your kids are NOT yours. Plus, accusing you of cheating because of her ITCHY vagina may be her way of PROJECTING her wayward ways onto you.

Find money to get DNA tests for both of her daughters. Comfirm whether they are yours or not.

But whatever the result of the paternity tests, you need to LEAVE her IMMEDIATELY. Send her packing if it's your house.

She's not fucking you. She lashes out at you and STEAL your peace of mind.

These actions are bad enough. But they are NOT the worst thing she's done to you. No, siree!

The WORST is that she deliberately HINDERS your ability to father another child which is something you desire.

She doesn't Bleep you. And your morals won't let you Bleep another person while married.

The solution is simple:

Kick the biitch OUT!

Your wife has very poor communication skills, that`s for sure. She needs to work on that. However, don`t take every word said in anger too seriously. Forgiveness is key. Sometimes a dose of dementia too.

I like that you have also included her positive traits. It says a lot about you, and I mean it in a good way. At the end of the day, nobody is perfect. But is she willing to work on herself? If yes, there is hope. Are you too?

Don`t give up on your marriage too fast. You guys have two kids. Every marriage has its challenges. But we get married to stay married and as long as your life is not in danger, try to work on your marriage. You guys need to create a vision of how you want your home to be (e.g. a place full of love, supportive, respectful, kind, understanding where everyone longs to be) and then become the people needed to run this kind of a family.

Your wife is having extra marital affairs with people who are infected. I know this is clear to you as day light

Pay her back some portion of what she's used from her resources. Maybe na dere the resentment is coming from.

kkins25:
Pay her back some portion of what she's used from her resources. Maybe na dere the resentment is coming from.

like how do i pay her back, we are married. her resources does not reflect 1% of my own resources both past and present

stubbornniggar:
like how do i pay her back, we are married. her resources does not reflect 1% of my own resources both past and present

Bought her any gifts? Taken her out to discuss things? Just try anything to bring back the old spark.

Once in a while, maybe enter kitchen do you wash your clothes? Does she tidy up after you?
If she's working and tending to home stuff, that's another angle.

if you've managed to be married with this person for 9 long years and has two kids by her, you can manage her forever.... stop looking for cheap way out now. the character you described up there is the same character she had the day you met her.

what is this separation gonna achieve? why try to run away from your family under the pretense of better life?

MrBrownJay1:
if you've managed to be married with this person for 9 long years and has two kids by her, you can manage her forever.... stop looking for cheap way out now. the character you described up there is the same character she had the day you met her.

what is this separation gonna achieve? why try to run away from your family under the pretense of better life?

funny. U never see person divorce after 25 years? Dey play