If you were bullied, how did it end? What did you do? Let the comments roll in!


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Who wan bully me wey na me get class, I was practically dragging class with my teacher and I go to school with many things to divert attention from the other kids to myself till my parents were summoned and they were asked to limit things I bring to school.
She makes a hell of noise was the first remark on my report sheet

In my secondary school, it was from one controversy to the other, I was even reinging in other schools that some of them do sneak into my school just to see the so much talked about me , even parents and others already heard about me from their homes. I had a nickname that spread across. Lies full my head join ontop boys matters, dated this, and that when I never dated anyone in secondary school. Plenty story but I later turned out to be a quiet person, I even prefer staying indoors these days, nothing is outside.

I'm still wondering how that girl stayed quiet and was receiving slaps from her fellow girl and same age bracket, Kai my mama go beat me join ooo, even if is a boy I'll slap my own back and everywhere will scatter because I hate being touched with passion.

After seeing this British school in Abuja bully video. I just thought it wise to share my similar experience.

Let me go first.

It was John. I will never forgive him. He use to collect my pocket money and beat me. I usually don't know why he does it. Maybe it was because I was lanky. He just hated me for no cause reason.

I was scared to report to my teacher and parent because he threatened me. One day, I had to face him in our Integrated science class. He slapped me during lunch break. I didn't even know when I slapped him back. That day I received the beating of my life. Thank God my class teacher Miss Abigail ran in.

Out of anger, I cursed him that he will never finished our secondary school. To my disappointed he finished secondary school.

Wherever you are John Ogbuise. May God punish you. All those pains you caused me.

Bullying was considered weak in my school. If you try to bully a smaller student, you'll be severely beaten by your mates.

Moreover, most students were in different gangs and factions. It's almost impossible to bully one student without his gang members getting involved.

In my school, we don't bully ourselves. Instead, we join up together to go fight other schools.

Was ONLY bullied by my Female Classmates.

In SS2, Because I had Fine Writing and was Good at Writing Fast when our Teachers were dictating notes,
These Girls would carry me to the Middle of their Seats, Put their Arms around my Shoulders and use their YANCH, Breasts and Hips to OPPRESS me as They were Writing.

Some will be Licking those Stick Sweets and be Rolling their Tongues.

My PREEK really suffered ehn.

Them nor dey bully birdman like me.

1. Train your children to be close to you. Show them some of your vulnerabilities and they will be comfortable to share Thiers.
2. Train them to have a voice even when they are wrong. So invite them to argue (give their perspective) before they are punished for offences.with this, they can gestimate apt punishment for their offenses.
3. Teach them confidence. Let them know everybody reports to someone or something.
With these, they will overcome bullies.

Never let them know your weak side. Tell them that your dad is a major general. Have back up by making friends with strong looking boys and girls. Tell them stories of how it is a taboo to be a weakling in your family.

The first time I experienced that was in primary 5. The whole time in the government school was like living in a snake pit; everyone was on their own. We fought when we had to and got over it. There were no groups or teams, but things changed when I was transferred to a mission school.

The first thing I noticed was that they had groups: a quiet one and a violent one. The quiet one was led by Chisom Nkposu, a dude from Ebonyi state, and the second group was led by Chukwunweolu Njoku. There was also a female group led by Eze Nkechinyere. At first, they would try to get you on their side. If you refused, they would frustrate you, so those who went solo had to avoid them by all means.

I was new in the school, and the principal was my uncle, but that didn't matter since I don't like disturbing people with my problems. After unsuccessfully trying to get me on his side, the violent group decided to frustrate me. There was nothing they didn't do until one afternoon during game time, one thing led to another, and I was in a fight with their leader.

We exchanged a few blows and grappled each other. He tried to fling me around but miscalculated, so I took advantage of that and flung him into the gutter—a dry gutter that was just wide enough for him. I landed on him immediately and started to punch away all my pent-up anger. The gutter was narrow, so he couldn't turn. The other group was there, so they didn't allow his guys to intervene. I beat him badly. I got tired of punching and started feeding him sand. It was the headmaster who separated us.

That earned me maximum respect.

The leader of the female group was also fond of beating guys, and she came for me after school one day. I mistakenly stepped on the foot of one of her girls and apologized, but that wasn't enough for her.

She used to wear this beautiful sweater, and on that fateful day, after she cornered me, she wanted to remove that cloth first. I waited until the thing covered her head, then I rushed her and used the cloth to properly wrap her head and hand and punched away. Nah policemen separated us.

With the groups out of the way and the other group not coming for you unless you come for them, I instantaneously became the leader of those who wanted to go solo. I fought the fights all the time.

In secondary school, it was too much that I had to learn karate.
Can't go into that now.

Private school is not for the weak.

Functionaries are bandits.

Bullies are everywhere

Bully them back


Seniors used to beat me every night with belt for nothing at dorm, after beating them will tell me to enter bunk
now I bully them back on Twitter and Facebook till they shit their pants because

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I fought back. My dad will say allow the bully fight when he loses his guard you strike and striking meant a good blow to the ballzs or nose. Till date I have a scar on my fore head after a heavy fight with a bully in sec school

Omo
I fight one in my primary school days o.
I dey primary 5 that year.
The day I finally had the courage to fight him after enough bully from primary 4. That day I beat am, put sand for e mouth and bite am for breast. E cry when people separate our fight. Hahahaha 😂
I swear the next day the bully parents come school o. Dem come see who nearly bite their boy breast commot and with enough beating😂
Naso Dem see the small me compared to their big bully son 😂