Yeah, I can totally relate. Just mingle with old friends, make new ones and be focused or work or projects. It will eventually go away, ur mind will go into survival mode.

op knew he took the best decision,but what he is feeling now is what he can't control......just take each day as they come,soon you will get over her to some extent.

Auxtan:

Without the entitlement tendencies

Is it only her entitlement that made you leave her? I hope there was more bad character because you're not going to find anything close to your ex.

If you even manage to see with one without entitlement, she might be knacking her exes.

chidekings:
op knew he took the best decision,but what he is feeling now is what he can't control......just take each day as they come,soon you will get over her to some extent.

You captured it exactly as I feel. Inside of me, I feel I took the best decision for my future, but presently I feel so emotionally entrenched as she's no longer in the picture of things in my life after being very much a part of it for close to 4 years.

SenecaTheYonger:


Is it only her entitlement that made you leave her? I hope there was more bad character because you're not going to find anything close to your ex.

If you even manage to see with one without entitlement, she might be knacking her exes.

Her other flaws usually stems from that entitlement tendencies. She begin to battle anger at that moment it seems to her you won't give in to her request. She becomes cold towards you and quite careless.

Auxtan:

Her other flaws usually stems from that entitlement tendencies. She begin to battle anger at that moment it seems to her you won't give in to her request. She becomes cold towards you and quite careless.

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Is there any woman that don’t give their man attitude when he says no? This is normal thing and can be dealt with. There are ways you can tame that behavior she will be afraid to act that way when you don’t give into her request.

Auxtan:
It's been 3 months already since I ended my relationship of almost 4 years.

Prior to the break up, I was planning to marry her this December or latest next year.

Somehow, I couldn't take her over entitlement issues anymore, had always tolerated this but suddenly my guns were out and I ended my good relationship with a girl I loved so much.

Now this is the problem I am facing now, been looking to get into another relationship because I can't stop thinking about my Ex.

She called a couple of times but finally moved on with another guy. Obviously a very lucky guy I must be honest.

My problem is that, I keep looking to see if a potential girl have the same characteristics as my ex. I loved my ex so so much.

This looking and looking has really affected my decisions of proposing to one.

I am even thinking of doing fasting and prayer before choosing my next, because my next will probably be proposed to for marriage. I also don't have time for an extended relationship again.

My advice to guys, no matter what the plan is, remain just friends with a girl you love and don't do an extended years relationship. Whether you are redpill, you will so much miss her like I am missing mine when it is over.

I am even on therapy now to forget this girl. Is like a juju on me.

You are Missing Her because of Your Emotions ...

You Don't have a Warrior Heart ... Warriors Loses Loved Ones & Comrades on The Battles fields here & There But The Struggles Still Continue Without An Iota of Emotions ....

Boys would have move on teytey before the rubbish escalated .... No time for Madness

It happened to me too .... Within Two Months, I already sensed the "Entitlement Stupidities & Irreconcilable Differences" .. She never knew I was watching & computing ....

Once You wanna catch people unaware, just make them see you as a comfort Zone .. They will behave their natural self & Gbam That's how u know who dem truly be & whether u go fit Manage them, Adjust or run ... Don't let them Pretend So You Won't Be Run Street !

I dropped her silly ass & Moved On ... she be ogbanje sha(Those kain You go drop wey ur mind no go wan touch Ground again-- Na so Bad Bad Dreams .. E be like dem don report me give dem Dibia ) ... But Wetin God's Powers no fit do ... ....

Na she come mellow now dey greet me Sir, Sir ... I go answer am like Acquaintance still comot face ... All of Us na African, Na person wey guck am na Ihm Fvcked Up!

Why would I suffer heartache for 4years ...Mba, Correct the one wey ur body no go fit tolerate immediately... if she no gree... comot yasef! ... If U fit tolerate am as Per nobody is perfect then Good if not Comot Yasef as fast as Possible.... ...

If I Put up With someone for 4years, then I already crosses My Ts & Dotted My Is ... I'm ready to take all their Goods & Sh.its ... If Not, Japa teytey!

Handle relationships like business ... Stop being emotional Face Realities ... I hate boyishness in Men !

You are Not Qualified for Marriage Right Now, You Need to Do Man 401 .. So You Can Graduate Moreover Forget That Redpilling Nonsense, It will Remove the Human in Your Man & Make You Toxic-Man ...

Just Be a Man, You would be Fine 🙂!

Auxtan:

If I can pay to totally forget she exists, I will do so. Is causing me lots of emotional issues.

Pay Me, I will Train You Out of Her ?
Game ?

Auxtan:
I won't even lie, coming here to write this is to get myself distracted. Relationship is so ugly when it is no more!

Na only You Ya Mama Born abi u be the last born ni

All these ajebo boys.... na the advantage wey some of us wey started from pako get over una ....

Auxtan:
It's been 3 months already since I ended my relationship of almost 4 years.

Prior to the break up, I was planning to marry her this December or latest next year.

Somehow, I couldn't take her over entitlement issues anymore, had always tolerated this but suddenly my guns were out and I ended my good relationship with a girl I loved so much.

Now this is the problem I am facing now, been looking to get into another relationship because I can't stop thinking about my Ex.

She called a couple of times but finally moved on with another guy. Obviously a very lucky guy I must be honest.

My problem is that, I keep looking to see if a potential girl have the same characteristics as my ex. I loved my ex so so much.

This looking and looking has really affected my decisions of proposing to one.

I am even thinking of doing fasting and prayer before choosing my next, because my next will probably be proposed to for marriage. I also don't have time for an extended relationship again.

My advice to guys, no matter what the plan is, remain just friends with a girl you love and don't do an extended years relationship. Whether you are redpill, you will so much miss her like I am missing mine when it is over.

I am even on therapy now to forget this girl. Is like a juju on me.

You are being emotional and not logical. I pray you dint end up with a woman that will end up using you.

candygist:


You are being emotional and not logical. I pray you dint end up with a woman that will end up using you.

What is a logical decision to you?

Another simp spotted


She don use kayanmata finish your pathetic life

The reality of Relationship is an imbalance. Breakup hurts but it hurts more on the person who invested more into it.
I have had several girlfriends in the past, several ex's some of which I'm still in contact with.

In relationships, you don't put all your eggs in one basket. See, the person you love or the one who loves you had a life before you guys met, they will definitely have a life when you guys part ways. Knowing this will perhaps make the heartbreak less painful and more palatable. If the love is deep and the emotions genuine, real pain will be felt, it's a process that you must pass through however the human mind is so wonderful that despite pain, you can feel happiness, you can channel pain to excitement, energy and passion.

Before I did a surgery yesterday, I received a breakup message from one of my girlfriends I very much Love, did I feel pain, yes, was I disturbed, no. Infact, I did the surgery excellently well that everyone including the patient was happy and the patient is recovering fine.

So my gee, breakup is normal, it's part of life, you don't have to forget the memories completely, focus on creating new ones. The trick is to love yourself very much so that the presence of absent of your partner if you eventually have one is inconsequential

dontrulee:
The reality of Relationship is an imbalance. Breakup hurts but it hurts more on the person who invested more into it.
I have had several girlfriends in the past, several ex's some of which I'm still in contact with.

In relationships, you don't put all your eggs in one basket. See, the person you love or the one who loves you had a life before you guys met, they will definitely have a life when you guys part ways. Knowing this will perhaps make the heartbreak less painful and more palatable. If the love is deep and the emotions genuine, real pain will be felt, it's a process that you must pass through however the human mind is so wonderful that despite pain, you can feel happiness, you can channel pain to excitement, energy and passion.

Before I did a surgery yesterday, I received a breakup message from one of my girlfriends I very much Love, did I feel pain, yes, was I disturbed, no. Infact, I did the surgery excellently well that everyone including the patient was happy and the patient is recovering fine.

So my gee, breakup is normal, it's part of life, you don't have to forget the memories completely, focus on creating new ones. The trick is to love yourself very much so that the presence of absent of your partner if you eventually have one is inconsequential

Thanks so much doc. This will be really helpful!

Auxtan:

What is a logical decision to you?

Guy, I've been in your shoes and even worse before.
I have cried and couldn't sleep overnight because one girl that I really loved broke up with me. Lol.
One thing that will help you is that there are billions of ladies in the world and there are definitely some who are better than your current or future girlfriend.

Then, I thought I would never meet a girl like my ex, mumu me... Now that I've grown, I've met countless ladies better than my ex. Guy, move on and improve yourself, you'll be glad you did

Auxtan:

Thanks so much doc. This will be really helpful!

You're welcome.
They're many options in front of you, choose what's best for you.
However, note that you shouldn't show dependence on a woman or feel incomplete without a woman. Women are very very easy to get but get yourself first and everything else follows

dontrulee:


You're welcome.
They're many options in front of you, choose what's best for you.
However, note that you shouldn't show dependence on a woman or feel incomplete without a woman. Women are very very easy to get but get yourself first and everything else follows

Will do just that.
Really appreciate

Auxtan:

If I can pay to totally forget she exists, I will do so. Is causing me lots of emotional issues.

You're emotionally attached to her, sadly she wasn't emotionally attached to you hence she found it very easy to move on, while you're still stuck thinking about her.

It'll interest you to know that while you're dating her, she already had another guy in the picture should in case anything goes wrong she'll easily move on with the guy. Dey play!

She calculated everything before it happened meanwhile you weren't smart enough to discover this.

Men don't love with emotions, you love with your senses. A girl with entitlement mentality ought to be avoided completely! Move on oga there are lots of girls outside

dontrulee:


Guy, I've been in your shoes and even worse before.
I have cried and couldn't sleep overnight because one girl that I really loved broke up with me. Lol.
One thing that will help you is that there are billions of ladies in the world and there are definitely some who are better than your current or future girlfriend.

Then, I thought I would never meet a girl like my ex, mumu me... Now that I've grown, I've met countless ladies better than my ex. Guy, move on and improve yourself, you'll be glad you did

Advising weak emotional men like that op is a complete waste of time.

Leave the guy to keep wailing and regretting while the so called ex is probably mounting and riding a good hard dickk right now.

G00dharddick:


You're emotionally attached to her, sadly she wasn't emotionally attached to you hence she found it very easy to move on, while you're still stuck thinking about her.

It'll interest you to know that while you're dating her, she already had another guy in the picture should in case anything goes wrong she'll easily move on with the guy. Dey play!

She calculated everything before it happened meanwhile you weren't smart enough to discover this.

Men don't love with emotions, you love with your senses. A girl with entitlement mentality ought to be avoided completely! Move on oga there are lots of girls outside

A sad pill that I agree with 💯

Auxtan:

I sha know that I can get sex anytime I want it. That is why I am sure is not about sex.

You're a confirm simp and a pussy as$ man.

I can bet my balls that you've invested so much on that girl hence you can't move on. The girl has been busy riding various Dicks even while you were dating her hence she no send you.

WTF is wrong with you emotional pussy ass weak men?

I have never a girl running to nairaland and start writing bullshit on how she missed her ex boyfriend etc, na mainly guys dey do this thing. Grow TF up dude and stop SIMPing like a an emotional weak pussy asssss

G00dharddick:


You're a confirm simp and a pussy as$ man.

I can bet my balls that you've invested so much on that girl hence you can't move on. The girl has been busy riding various Dicks even while you were dating her hence she no send you.

WTF is wrong with you emotional pussy ass weak men?

I have never a girl running to nairaland and start writing bullshit on how she missed her ex boyfriend etc, na mainly guys dey do this thing. Grow TF up dude and stop SIMPing like a an emotional weak pussy asssss

Lol

Oluwa! When our men go get sense? Never, ever be a provider to any woman. But then, the thing dey sweet ooh! These day, what I do is to chop our girls money and knack their kpekus join.

I no lie you the thing dey sweet ooh! Na now I know why our girls like entitlement. Just try dey chop girl kpekus, come dey chop her money join, you go see as be.

Auxtan:
It's been 3 months already since I ended my relationship of almost 4 years.

Prior to the break up, I was planning to marry her this December or latest next year.

Somehow, I couldn't take her over entitlement issues anymore, had always tolerated this but suddenly my guns were out and I ended my good relationship with a girl I loved so much.

Now this is the problem I am facing now, been looking to get into another relationship because I can't stop thinking about my Ex.

She called a couple of times but finally moved on with another guy. Obviously a very lucky guy I must be honest.

My problem is that, I keep looking to see if a potential girl have the same characteristics as my ex. I loved my ex so so much.

This looking and looking has really affected my decisions of proposing to one.

I am even thinking of doing fasting and prayer before choosing my next, because my next will probably be proposed to for marriage. I also don't have time for an extended relationship again.

My advice to guys, no matter what the plan is, remain just friends with a girl you love and don't do an extended years relationship. Whether you are redpill, you will so much miss her like I am missing mine when it is over.

I am even on therapy now to forget this girl. Is like a juju on me.

You’ll be fine bro.

Also ended a relationship after four years 17-21. Distance after school shit and believe me I still miss her.

I’m in Ibadan and she’s back home in delta after school shittt tho I have been to her family house once for a week back in 2018.

She was a good girl and I’ll always wish her Hapiness all her life 💯


I think girls move on faster than we guys. 2024 and I still miss her. It’s crazy 😔

dontrulee:


Guy, I've been in your shoes and even worse before.
I have cried and couldn't sleep overnight because one girl that I really loved broke up with me. Lol.
One thing that will help you is that there are billions of ladies in the world and there are definitely some who are better than your current or future girlfriend.

Then, I thought I would never meet a girl like my ex, mumu me... Now that I've grown, I've met countless ladies better than my ex. Guy, move on and improve yourself, you'll be glad you did

Cry??
Nope

Well In my own case she ended it because she ended it and I was glad I didn’t end it because of my promise from the start that we aren’t ending. So my conscience is clear. .
But Truth Be Told. Love Hurts 😔

dontrulee:
The reality of Relationship is an imbalance. Breakup hurts but it hurts more on the person who invested more into it.
I have had several girlfriends in the past, several ex's some of which I'm still in contact with.

In relationships, you don't put all your eggs in one basket. See, the person you love or the one who loves you had a life before you guys met, they will definitely have a life when you guys part ways. Knowing this will perhaps make the heartbreak less painful and more palatable. If the love is deep and the emotions genuine, real pain will be felt, it's a process that you must pass through however the human mind is so wonderful that despite pain, you can feel happiness, you can channel pain to excitement, energy and passion.

Before I did a surgery yesterday, I received a breakup message from one of my girlfriends I very much Love, did I feel pain, yes, was I disturbed, no. Infact, I did the surgery excellently well that everyone including the patient was happy and the patient is recovering fine.

So my gee, breakup is normal, it's part of life, you don't have to forget the memories completely, focus on creating new ones. The trick is to love yourself very much so that the presence of absent of your partner if you eventually have one is inconsequential

Oil Dey Your Head brr. 💯🤧

timmydrogba:



You’ll be fine bro.

Also ended a relationship after four years 17-21. Distance after school shit and believe me I still miss her.

I’m in Ibadan and she’s back home in delta after school shittt tho I have been to her family house once for a week back in 2018.

She was a good girl and I’ll always wish her Hapiness all her life 💯


I think girls move on faster than we guys. 2024 and I still miss her. It’s crazy 😔

Yours was in your very young age bro. Mine lasted from my 24yo to my 28yo. I'm very ripe for marriage and always thought she's my wife to be.

Auxtan:


Yours was in your very young age bro. Mine lasted from my 24yo to my 28yo. I'm very ripe for marriage and always thought she's my wife to be.

Well I’m not that young. That was when I was 21 till I was 25.

We are both 27 and 29 now respectively.
You can’t understand.

timmydrogba:



Well I’m not that young. That was when I was 21 till I was 25.

We are both 27 and 29 now respectively.
You can’t understand.

Hope you're in a new promising relationship?

Auxtan:

Hope you're in a new promising relationship?

Sure Brooo. Give yourself Time.
Time heals Things. 😉

timmydrogba:


Sure Brooo. Give yourself Time.
Time heals Things. 😉

She's obviously a lucky girl. You are one of the few guys left that truly fall in love and not lust. That is why we suffer when that person doesn't work out.

IamDora:


What do u want actually? U said she is entitled isn't It? So breaking-up with her should've been a decision u thought over and over and over again before u had to take, isn't it?

So why the regrets here? Listen, a broken relationship will always be better than a broken marriage. How did u even know she's now into a new relationship? Obviously, you're stalking her (Either in reality or social media). She should be the one doing that, while u, the man, focuses on building and improving yourself. The worst thing that can happen to you as a man is for a lady u broke-up with to still meet u In that position she left u! (Take it from me as a lady)

If you don't move-on now, it is just a matter of little time before you get to start f**ling yourself around her, texting, calling and telling her how “Life hasn't remained the same for u since u two broke up” and would it make her feel pity for u? NO! It will only make her feel that it was the best decision she made by leaving u.. bye

WORD!!