I'm in real big trouble, I'm in love with two women and I don't know which one to take. I've been going out with one for 5yrs, and we had a terrible clash in February which led to a temporary break-up. We later made up in May. I met the other one in December 2006 and we didn't start dating until June 2007, and it so strong.
The problem now is this: The first one is inIbadan and we don't see often but we've started wedding plans, but the other one is in Lagos and we see on a daily basis, and she wants us to start wedding plans too.
I can't marry the two of them and I tried sending either of them away, but they won't go. What should I do. SOMEBODY HELP B4 I LOSE MY MIND.

Why not first lose your mind? The lady that stay is your chosen love!




You are formenting trouble for yourself. The only problem you have now is that of your lust. I don't see any other solution until you kill that lust. Nobody can help you but YOU!


In case you are still confuse, please don't hesistate to lose your mind once and for all. The best lady stays. If none of them stay, then you must return to bride market.

olanajim:

In case you are still confuse, please don't hesistate to lose your mind once and for all. The best lady stays. If none of them stay, then you must return to bride market.

hahahahahaha, i cnt laff abeg

@poster
u dnt love both of them. IT'S A LIE!! search ur heart, soul and mind well well, u will finally find the one u truly love.
by the way, why do u double date huh?

@Poster

I cant even find one woman and you have too. You lucky sod.

yes, efuah is true, u don't love both of them, u love one and u like one

thats why we do advice you not to double date, but you will not listen

thats yor cup of tea
and as olanajim said, lose your mind first

Why we dont hit the nail on its head? The fact is that he does not love anyone. He wouldnt otherwise double date. He is just messing about with both women.

@chaloo, u're right

That is why we should let him lose his mind.


He proposed marriage to a lady. He later got himself in a mess fucking another lady. The new lady got to his heart and now he say it is love!

Igbawo ni maku o ni ku?

This is a good way tell both of them you have hiv aids

After you tell them that the one that stay's should be the one you should go for. Well that is if anyone stays but the probality that any one stay's is zero. But try this first then you can tell them it is a lie later if they believe you.

@ Poster: You can't be in love with 2 women at the same time!

My advice is a clean slate - don't carry on wedding plans with either of them, and for pete's sake, break up with both!

Then, allow reasonable time to elapse, then find someone else, someone not related by blood or friendship to the original 2.

@Siena

Why advice him to breakup from both nd find someone else? He has admitted himself that he is not content with one woman. How somebody can be sure that he wont start the same thingy again?. He should breakup from both and stay single.

o boy. u don become this guy that sang i am in love with 2 women i dont know which one to take biko sb. remind me of his name,

when u were falling for both ladies did u seek our advise now that u are in trouble u want salvation, oh well the truth is that u were not proper in ur actions five years in a relationship is enough to help u decide on a person, u had a little disagreement, made up and december u were already eyeing another lady. if u knew u wanted to play away matches why did u not end the first match?

if i continue to type i would thrash u with words, my advise is for u to get ur priorities straightened out and gently break the heart of one of the ladies which u would definitely do, and settle finanlly with the one of ur choice. but to tell u which one to choose i am in no position to do that, u of all people know which is suitable for u.

give me one Ibeg, abi u b tommy

olanajim:

Why not first lose your mind? The lady that stay is your chosen love!




You are formenting trouble for yourself. The only problem you have now is that of your lust. I don't see any other solution until you kill that lust. Nobody can help you but YOU!


In case you are still confuse, please don't hesistate to lose your mind once and for all. The best lady stays. If none of them stay, then you must return to bride market.

LMAO.

First of all your not in love with both, you either love one and have feelings for the other. by the way why would you get

yourself into such mess, be involved with two ladies. pretty funny. you know who you want to be with listen to that tiny

voice in you and if you don't want both of them, you have to find a way to get yourself out of the mess you created

yourself.

hi girlfriends,


please reply this guy pl., it it were a girl who says she's in love with 2 guys and she's promising both of them marriages, u would say she's ''an ashawo'' wetin u b broda?

nonsense, fix wedding for both of them the same day now, and see how u would not loose your mind!

@ poster,

na ojukokoro go finish you. 2 women!

anyways sha,if you lose ur mind,yaba left get space and the streets will be short of 1 person so dia4,food go dey for we

please,abeg,biko nu,jo go ahead and lose ur mind ooooooooo

get yourself out of the mess you created. how does it concern us?

In ds jet-age of development sturvz, 1 man is still dumb enuf 2 b promising marriage to 2women??
Guy U 4k up! U shulda sorted urself out b4 ds stage now!!

Anyway, tell both of dem dat u got HIV and c who stays! Cos dats d best option i've seen so far on ds thread!

And, I hate 2 hear peopl say dat u cant fall in love wit more than 1 woman!! Absolute Rubbish!! Dats just a stereotype nt neccesarily applicable in reality!!

LOSE YOUR MIND how na ? for na kind sweet enjoyment[b] 2women[/b] 4 that matter,guy u re luck oh?

But how u compare a relationship of 5yrs with a relationship months old, haba!

Wait until u see d other side of the second girl, then u'll know d devil is better!

Just sample the two of them and pick the best.

*Disc playing* tony tetuila

_{* i'm inlove with two woman i don't what to do*}

he that shew two bones at thesame time must definitely bit his tongue.

guy! u got urself into trouble urself. that is the consequences of shewing 2 bones.

marry the 2 of them at the alter thesame day
or
u loose u mind, and let us see what's up.

he that shew two bones at thesame time must definitely bit his tongue.

guy! u got urself into trouble urself. that is the consequences of shewing 2 bones.

marry the 2 of them at the alter thesame day
                     or
u loose u mind, and let us see what's up.