Imagine being faced with a choice between marrying a 38-year-old established woman and a younger, non-established virgin. Which option would you choose?

While putting this into consideration,

* Age is Just a Number.
* Marriage Requires Experienced Hands,
* and It's About Much More Than Marrying a Virgin"

The one with a better character and better vision will be my choice.

The yet-to-be-established virgin might have a better character and a better vision. She might have a worse character and a worse vision. The same applies to the established older lady.

The older one might be established because she was born into wealth or because she duped someone. So, being established does not guarantee being a legitimate hustler. I appreciate wealth based on its foundation, not based on the size of the wealth.

A yet-to-be-established virgin with a good vision and a good character can make you richer than you can imagine. A yet-to-be-established virgin with a bad vision and bad character will make life miserable for you.

An established older lady with a good vision and a good character will make life sweet for you. An established older lady with a bad vision and a bad character will use her wealth to create a hellfire for you.

So, my choice will be based on vision and character.

immortalcrown:
The one with a better character and better vision will be my choice.

The yet-to-be-established virgin might have a better character and a better vision. She might have a worse character and a worse vision. The same applies to the established older lady.

The older one might be established because she was born into wealth or because she duped someone. So, being established does not guarantee being a legitimate hustler. I appreciate wealth based on its foundation, not based on the size of the wealth.

A yet-to-be-established virgin with a good vision and a good character can make you richer than you can imagine. A yet-to-be-established virgin with a bad vision and bad character will make life miserable for you.

An established older lady with a good vision and a good character will make life sweet for you. An established older lady with a bad vision and a bad character will use her wealth to create a hellfire for you.

So, my choice will be based on vision and character.

Wow!

But if she is established, it therefore means she is visionary, because one can't truly be established if he/she lacks vision, even if the person were born with a silver spoon.

NairaOcean:
Wow!
But if she is established, it therefore means she is visionary, because one can't truly be established if he/she lacks vision, even if the person were born with a silver spoon.

Your point is addressed in my third paragraph. Read my comment again and carefully this time.

immortalcrown:
Your point is addressed in my third paragraph. Read my comment again and carefully this time.

Your input is appreciated!

All the things you asked us to put into consideration is pointing towards your preference for the 38 year old. The younger woman may become established by the time she’s 38 too. These are very weird criteria to picking a future partner but I assume if a man is faced with picking one of the two, he will pick the one he likes the most 🤷🏼.

No man in his right senses will go for a rich 38 year old woman in place of a virgin girl with good character. Men don't give a flying Bleep about how rich a woman is, that's y their is a lot of single rich women

I agree with immortalcrown!

eazzzy1:
All the things you asked us to put into consideration is pointing towards your preference for the 38 year old. The younger woman may become established by the time she’s 38 too. These are very weird criteria to picking a future partner but I assume if a man is faced with picking one of the two, he will pick the one he likes the most 🤷🏼.

My reference to the 38-year-old woman is not necessarily my preference. I'm simply alluding to the recent saga between Wofai and her father-in-law, who disapproves of her marriage because she's 38 and his son is 30, which obviously reflects his choice. And maybe he also considered what I listed above before making his choice.

What do you think?

Chikarata2020:
No man in his right senses will go for a rich 38 year old woman in place of a virgin girl with good character. Men don't give a flying Bleep about how rich a woman is, that's y their is a lot of single rich women

Are many virgin ladies of good character?

Ask if ur mumsy was an experienced hands when she marry and how many years she don stay for marriage? My own mum wasn't experienced hand and she married in her later teens but still stays married till this minute.

It depends, on what you want Innocence or experience, if experience is what you want then go ahead with the matured woman. The mistake most people think is that in dating age and body count denotes experience in women(how women can better bond with men) . On the contrary the lesser the experience the more the lady can fully immerse herself in the marriage.

Be careful, look before you leap

idahme:
Ask if ur mumsy was an experienced hands when she marry and how many years she don stay for marriage? My own mum wasn't experienced hand and she married in her later teens but still stays married till this minute.

It depends, on what you want Innocence or experience, if experience is what you want then go ahead with the matured woman. The mistake most people think is that in dating age and body count denotes experience in women(how women can better bond with men) . On the contrary the lesser the experience the more the lady can fully immerse herself in the marriage.

Be careful, look before you leap

In this context, I was referring to an established lady, not necessarily an experienced one. Experience can be relative; younger ladies might possess more experience than older ones in certain aspects. Therefore, experience isn't solely about age. Additionally, the longevity of a marriage isn't determined by whether one marries a younger lady or a virgin. Numerous stories abound of marriages that didn't last, regardless of the age or status of the partners involved.

NairaOcean:


In this context, I was referring to an established lady, not necessarily an experienced one. Experience can be relative; [i]younger ladies might possess more experience than older ones in certain aspects. [/i]Therefore, experience isn't solely about age. Additionally, the longevity of a marriage isn't determined by whether one marries a younger lady or a virgin. Numerous stories abound of marriages that didn't last, regardless of the age or status of the partners involved.

experience as in how?

Experience comes with age like it or not.

Although a woman's experience doesn't count if you truly are the man of the relationship. She should naturally adjust to you.


In issue of marriage for a man it is not that complicated if you just stick to your priorities.. damn her age.

I will always go for a lady that understand her roles and is intelligent enough to interpret it 80% of the time.

What are those roles:
# Having me as her number one always
# Worship my views, sometimes suggest intelligent reviews
# Take care of me like my mother without complain 😆😆 includes cleaning our space and preparing sumptuous meals
# Willingness to offer me her body, soul and mind

I am understanding enough to not over demand any of these mentioned but it should not be an issue if I really require those treatment.

I believe the reason some marriages fail today is lack of understanding especially from the female party (not solely blaming the females here though)

Men also fucck up sometimes by being irresponsible and too cagey but the bulk lies with the women.

I just don't want a hoe

The 38yr old established woman was once a virgin.

The younger non-established woman will one day become established.


So make your own money then look for the one that has big nyash and breast and marry.



Stop disturbing us.

Goodlyhrt:
experience as in how?

Experience comes with age like it or not.

Although a woman's experience doesn't count if you truly are the man of the relationship. She should naturally adjust to you.


In issue of marriage for a man it is not that complicated if you just stick to your priorities.. damn her age.

I will always go for a lady that understand her roles and is intelligent enough to interpret it 80% of the time.

What are those roles:
# Having me as her number one always
# Worship my views, sometimes suggest intelligent reviews
# Take care of me like my mother without complain 😆😆 includes cleaning our space and preparing sumptuous meals
# Willingness to offer me her body, soul and mind

I am understanding enough to not over demand any of these mentioned but it should not be an issue if I really require those treatment.

I believe the reason some marriages fail today is lack of understanding especially from the female party (not solely blaming the females here though)

Men also fucck up sometimes by being irresponsible and too cagey but the bulk lies with the women.

I rebuke you in Jesus name

TO ME VIRGIN IS JUST OVERRATED MOST GUYS THIS DAYS DONT EVEN CARE IF YOU ARE A VIRGIN OR NOT... WHAT MATTER IS THE LOVE BETWEEN LIKE WISE AGE IS JUST A NUMBER BUT... BUT HER AGE DIFFERENCE WONT BE MUCH FROM NINE LIKE HIGHEST 5 GAP DIFFERENCES....STILL LOVE ABOVE ALL

NairaOcean:
Imagine being faced with a choice between marrying a 38-year-old established woman and a younger, non-established virgin. Which option would you choose?

While putting this into consideration,

* Age is Just a Number.
* Marriage Requires Experienced Hands,
* and It's About Much More Than Marrying a Virgin"

after dis-virgin her, then what?

I can't marry a 38yr old lady with low fertility rate and rapidly counting down to menopause.
Except, I am going to have 2nd younger wife.
I prefer to enjoy the beautiful body of a young wife lying naked close to me instead of an older lady that has grown out of shape due to ageing.
Note that, I will choose a sexier lady over the non-sexier one.
We help nature in applying law of natural selection in reproduction/survival through mate selection.

ThinkSmarter:
I can't marry a 38yr old lady with low fertility rate and rapidly counting down to menopause.
Except, I am going to have 2nd younger wife.
I prefer to enjoy the beautiful body of a young wife lying naked close to me instead of an older lady that has grown out of shape due to ageing.
Note that, I will choose a sexier lady over the non-sexier one.
We help nature in applying law of natural selection in reproduction/survival through mate selection.

Some 38-year-olds appear more attractive and youthful than younger women! I hope you know that?

iichidodo:
I would like me a 38 years old established virgin...

Hmmmm!
Mission impossible!

NairaOcean:


Some 38-year-olds appear more attractive and youthful than younger women! I hope you know that?

you are very right and that is why i said that i will choose a sexier lady over the non-sexier one, irrespective of age.

Established woman oo