Previous thread : https://www.nairaland.com/8083069/payback-girl-broke-heart

So last night this lady messaged a friend of mine and told him how I told the guy things she did and ones she didn't (I actually never told a single lie), so I entered the guy's dm and told him all I said was the truth.

After 20 minutes, the guy sent me a voice note saying 'He's appreciative of the fact I was looking out for him BUT I should remember I once had something with this lady, I may only see her bad side but he's yet to do his investigation, although they've been close of recent but he has never actually asked her out and HE WILL ADVISE ME AS A BRO, THAT THE SAID LADY TRUSTED ME ENOUGH TO TELL ME PERSONAL STUFFS ABOUT HER SELF WHICH SHOULD BE CONFIDENTIAL, I DON'T GO ABOUT SPOILING HER BECAUSE WE BROKE UP COS NOT ALL RELATIONSHIPS LEAD TO MARRIAGE, I SHOULD NEVER DO SUCH TO ANYBODY AGAIN, THE FACT WE DIDN'T DATE DOESN'T MEAN WE CAN'T BE OF HELP TO ONE ANOTHER IN FUTURE, WE SHOULD NOT CAUSE OF A SLIGHT ISSUE AS BREAKUP CREATE A LIFETIME ENMITY, HE SAID I SHOULD TRY AND FIND EVERY MEANS TO CONTACT THE LADY AND APOLOGISE TO HER AND MAKE IT RIGHT WITH HER, IF WE ARE COMPATIBLE (FINE YOU CAN CONTINUE) BUT IF NOT WE DON'T NECESSARILY HAVE TO DATE OURSELVES, GIRLS ARE MANY ,SO ARE MEN, THIS SAID LADY SHE HAS ONLY VISITED ME ONCE OR TWICE IN MY OFFICE TO GREET ME AND EVERY MOMENT SHE COMES WE ARE NEVER ALONE, WE SEE IN CHURCH OFTEN, I'M NOT SAYING ALL THESE BECAUSE I WANT TO DATE HER, BUT I SHOULD KNOW WHAT I DID WAS WRONG, EVEN THOUGH I'M TRYING TO LOOK OUT FOR THE GUY SHE'S WITH, IT'S THE GUYS CROSS LET HIM CARRY IT"... those where some of his words in the voice notes.

I actually insulted the lady before I did that to her while she was begging me, I called her prostitute, ashawo, hookup babe, animal etc... when she was disturbing me with calls those nights, at some point she sent a voice note crying, I didn't listen I keep telling her, are you mad?, are you stupid?, stop calling me you miserable human being cos I was furiously raging... now I'm regretting all my actions, her younger sister messaged me to even insult me.

Funny enough, through the help of my friend, she actually unblocked me this morning, I told my friend to help me talk go her so I can tender apology and .move on, to my surprised she was still all nice, I even asked her hope you didn't tell your elder sister too, she said "why won't she?" .. her heart seems to be calm, but the deed is done I've tendered my apology and moved on.

I have serious impatience issues and I assume alot, maybe reason i don't even have friends, i have created many imaginary enemies in my head, assumptions brought my relationship to an end ,she's actually a sweet girl to me but I wasn't patient with her, she told me severally to work on myself that's the ONLY issue she's having with me and now see where it's led to.

We move.🚶

how old are you. at some point in life, you would look bk and laugh at yourself. don't worry you will mature someday.
women.wey full everywhere and you are throwing tantrums over just one

Woman still dey use tears manipulate you, grow up boy!
She is everything you called her and more
She belongs to the streets....

I followed ur story
Let me give u advice
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What you did is right...don't let these boys who don't understand women behavior deceive u
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Pls, never beg that gal..pls never
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Anything that u will do to make a gal come back to her senses is right... people can castigate ur approach, but it doesn't matter as long as it worked..
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Your gal has now been put in her place.....imagine same gal was insulting u, shouting at u ND making u feel low of ursef....if u dint TAKE that step..THAT her stupid guy would have been fvcking her by now....he may even have fvckwd her already sef...so never underestimate vagina people....never lose ur guard.. she still a suspect
Stop feeling bad Oga..,this is where she will get you and take u back to a simping man...
Don't beg her, she's craving ur attention, don't cheapen the attention by begging her.. don't
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I'm telling u a Redpill truth..remain unfazed....and only reward her good behavior
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Next is to give her a bed shaking rough burantSHI sex ..it's important ..though it's ur gal..but sometimes.,u have to fk and treat ur gal like a slut....,e geh why....u shd understand my point by now
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Again, never u apologize..cos same gal was planning to run u street, Just that u cast her game..remain the man and the prize..dont repay her coming back..she shd pay u back for putting u through stress and linking with one stupid boy that is till planning to knack her if u lose guard