I would have said "fear woman" but things like this are not peculiar to gender. Human being will always perpetuate ridiculousness. Irrespective of the gender

This is actually from a Twitter page and I've been short of words since I read it












I want to share my little anonymous secret.
I was 32 when I met my husband. He was almost 37 and single. He didn't really seem like a man of my type, but I was a bit desperate. I needed to settle down. He is not really fluent in English and acts a bit barbaric, not how I imagined my future husband. He's a plumber, and he gets a lot of work. He travels often, but he is home most of the time, too.
I wouldn't have agreed to marry him if I was young, though I would have dated him because he has money and is equally generous.
He is a nice-looking man, but he doesn't dress or sound like it. A woman like me wants someone who is good-looking and knows how to dress and speak fluently as well.
I really was reluctant when he brought up the idea of marriage, but I had to agree because I was 33 by then, and I felt like no better man was going to come my way. I had good men I was talking to, but none of them was interested in marriage or marrying me per se.
After we married, I started hating myself for settling with such a man. We barely attended any corporate event. His friends are all local, and he is always about us doing local things.
I am ashamed of him, so I don't even like staying by his side when we were out.
Long story short, I got pregnant for someone else because I don't really enjoy being intimate with my husband. He turns me off because I don't find him attractive. The guy I got pregnant for is equally married. He is the one I wanted to marry before he dumped me for someone else. We dated for two years and I was madly in love with him. I couldn't handle the heartbreak, but when I realised in marriage that I'd married the wrong person, I reached out to him, and we've been intimate ever since.
I'm not in love with him, I just like being intimate with him because I find him to be more of my dream man than my husband.
I had my child in January last year. My husband thinks he is the father, and I am not worried about DNA because it would never cross his mind. It's the literate who disturbs women with DNA. This is a secret that would never come out because my husband is convinced the child is his, and I never told my ex the pregnancy was his.
I just found out I'm pregnant again, and I don't even know which of them is responsible for this one.
My problem right now is that my ex mentioned that he wished I could give him a child. He and his wife have only one child. The woman is battling with PCOS, and my ex is in need of a son badly. My first child is a boy, and it's his, but I don't know what would happen if I tell him. He can't be trusted so I fear to reveal this truth.
I wish that he knows the truth and puts the child in his plans. Please, what should I do? He is richer than my husband and would give the boy a better life, to be honest. Please post anonymously and let your audience advise me, thank you.

No judgements please.

Do we have people with secret like this here?. Abegi take them to your grave

Don't try to be politically correct, it's FEAR WOMEN. Only a woman could MARRY someone that she hates, Bleep around on him and still talk trash about him in public while enjoying his money.

I will ALWAYS say this:

It takes a FOOL to marry a woman that is not a virgin. It takes a BIGGER fool to marry a NONVIRGIN 30+ woman.

Smart men NEVER marry nowadays. Society is broken and promiscuity is rampant.

Any man who chooses to marry MUST choose his bride from a range of 18 to 23 year old VIRGINS.

AngelicBeing:

Trouble man

meedoLock:




Trouble man

You people with all those stupid questions
Na waa o

Why are people this wicket!

BabbanBura:
Why are people this wicket!

I swear!! I don't know how people can live with such poisonous secret.

@OP I understand your plight and you ain't wrong for the bold step you take all because of age because it's good to have given birth rather than never when u are getting closer to menopause..

So base on the issue on ground 🤔
We need to consult the Oracle for what next because this matter is too strong 😂


Abeg admin put am for front page

Namaster:
Don't try to be politically correct, it's FEAR WOMEN. Only a woman could MARRY someone that she hates, Bleep around on him and still talk trash about him in public while enjoying his money.

I will ALWAYS say this:

It takes a FOOL to marry a woman that is not a virgin. It takes a BIGGER fool to marry a NONVIRGIN 30+ woman.

Smart men NEVER marry nowadays. Society is broken and promiscuity is rampant.

Any man who chooses to marry MUST choose his bride from a range of 18 to 23 year old VIRGINS.

Marrying a virgin too doesn't guarantee she won't cheat later when she get to maturity stage and expose to life at 27 and 30 she can still leave ur home and leave d kids for u to enter club.


Life no balance bro and their is no perfect calender for it

Kingrshd3:


Marrying a virgin too doesn't guarantee she won't cheat later when she get to maturity stage and expose to life at 27 and 30 she can still leave ur home and leave d kids for u to enter club.


Life no balance bro and their is no perfect calender for it

This virginity of a thing this guy carry around sha! Hope u will be ready to marry your daughter off as early as 18 years of age before she could be sampled out? Considering the days societal order, that's the only means you could marry her off as a virgin. The world has moved beyond all of that now.

Whats important is marrying someone who love you wholeheartedly and who will be ready to go down rough part with you....

meedoLock:




This virginity of a thing this guy carry around sha! Hope u will be ready to marry your daughter off as early as 18 years of age before she could be sampled out? Considering the days societal order, that's the only means you could marry her off as a virgin. The world has moved beyond all of that now.

Whats important is marrying someone who love you wholeheartedly and who will be ready to go down rough part with you....

Noimd am jàre he just they conclude as if virgin means certificate to successful marriage or happy home mtheew