Our old time friends are now strangers due to change in financial status.
Brothers now selecting brothers according to their standards.
Humans cry for the dead and keep malice with the living then envy the successful and avoid the broke.
This is how the life is?
Negativity has taken the order of our generation,But I refuse to be among
We Humans act Holy as if we never Sinned when crucifying and judging other- We travel
long to bury someone who we never checked up on when he/she was alive- We run away from the Poor and Jealous the Rich- yet we desire to be Wealthy.
Money truly charges people
If you dey do transfer u be blood
But once you stop to dey do transfer u be water.

This is deep!

judatech:
This is deep!

Summed it up all with this: hypocrisy.

Humans cry for the dead and keep malice with the living then envy the successful and avoid the broke.

By the way, I'm available for research writing.

Realities of life

Saw a good friend of mine we went to school together the same tutorial met him one day while coming from work told him I was heading home and that I was now married in my own house while he was still taking some courses as a full stack Web developer..he has great potentials but at that time he visited me saw my house learnt my wife is also a dr like myself and this was the guy who followed women back in the days while I was the reserved one after spending few mins he headed home to the house of a relative he was currently living excorted him and that was he he doesn't return my calls and messages...wonder why but was really happy seeing him.

Blitzking:
Saw a good friend of mine we went to school together the same tutorial met him one day while coming from work told him I was heading home and that I was now married in my own house while he was still taking some courses as a full stack Web developer..he has great potentials but at that time he visited me saw my house learnt my wife is also a dr like myself and this was the guy who followed women back in the days while I was the reserved one after spending few mins he headed home to the house of a relative he was currently living excorted him and that was he he doesn't return my calls and messages...wonder why but was really happy seeing him.

He Couldn't Manage the Disdain or something else happen.

Nevertheless, I don't have any reason to roll with someone who isn't on my Realm nor my Timeline .....

If you ain't successful nor on a mission to be successful (Without Evils of Course) ... I will Defriend You No time .... If You are Successful but Don't Enjoins Successes of Others, I will Defriend You .... What is the essence of Success that's not lifting others ... .... You can't be my friend keeping people down to be asslicking you .... I go comot for Ya matter !

I no get am for time to dey Manage Bad Belles & Psychological Disorder on My Matter ... If I'm not responsible for Ya problems simply carry Ya Wahala go Front !

My Friend must be successful or On a mission to success & Must Be Ready to Butter bread of Others .... if you are stingy I go run comot ..
As I dey spend you self must spend ...

DonroxyII:
He Couldn't Manage the Disdain or something else happen.

Nevertheless, I don't have any reason to roll with someone who isn't on my Realm nor my Timeline .....

If you ain't successful nor on a mission to be successful (Without Evils of Course) ... I will Defriend You No time .... If You are Successful but Don't Enjoins Successes of Others, I will Defriend You .... What is the essence of Success that's not lifting others ... .... You can't be my friend keeping people down to be asslicking you .... I go comot for Ya matter !

I no get am for time to dey Manage Bad Belles & Psychological Disorder on My Matter ... If I'm not responsible for Ya problems simply carry Ya Wahala go Front !

My Friend must be successful or On a mission to success & Must Be Ready to Butter bread of Others .... if you are stingy I go run comot ..
As I dey spend you self must spend ...

Felt he was thinking its best for his mental health. Would av love our friendship to continue and I go link am up cos the guy was one of the people whose actions pushed me to success in primary and secondary school there was an old man with a makeshift tutorial center he did after school lesson my friend linked me to this man then we paid 50naira per day. Was doing very poor academically but he linking me up turned things around that I eventually attended one of the best unis in the country on full scholarship..it was where I also met my wife.

Blitzking:

Felt he was thinking its best for his mental health. Would av love our friendship to continue and I go link am up cos the guy was one of the people whose actions pushed me to success in primary and secondary school there was an old man with a makeshift tutorial center he did after school lesson my friend linked me to this man then we paid 50naira per day. Was doing very poor academically but he linking me up turned things around that I eventually attended one of the best unis in the country on full scholarship..it was where I also met my wife.

Wow, Find a Means to Reach Out to Him & Bless Him ....

Imagine person would still have to be lying to someone one to help ....

Na so I toast toast person to build house Ehn, the prayer wey the person dey give me now ... infact .... e build finish dem evict am from his rent place still evict am for his business place .

E be like, if not for your insistence for me to build what would I fall back upon ... see prayer & crying for an adult of 50s ... .. Me wey be small dude oo

Adulthood
I miss the good old days

Things are more complicated than it seems. Lots of successful people distance themselves from others for many reasons.

1. Some people are their own village people. They won't improve themselves, are slaves to pleasures, and even if you give them 10M, 4M will go to betting, the rest chasing women etc.

2. Once bitten twice shy. You've helped ingrates and decided that never again.

3. Envy. You don't want to be punished for being a good person. Lots of people can't flush out envy from their system.

Success for them is to be better than you, not their yesterday. Defeating you is more important than improving themselves.

4. You've helped and helped but they turn you to a maga, and will keep inventing ways to keep being needy, because it's easier to get free help or cash than to repair oneself to be productive.

5. They are helping others and have helped a lot. You just are not one of beneficiaries or don't know any of them.

Of course there are genuine cases of folks refusing to help where the above doesn't apply, but to limit the reason and blame someone that did well for himself and owes you nothing is a bad attitude.

The idea that people are poor because no one wants to help them is false. You can't help who does not want to be helped.

You can be in a place of help and still be an idiot. And yes, lots of people are the architect of their own poverty.

In Life , I have learnt to never say never.

There is this friend of ours , whom we thought wasn't meeting up in most spheres we felt matters and as a result quite a number of us had the believe that she may not do so well after all. But we were all wrong. Nature proved us all wrong...

Now , almost everyone wants to identify with her. Today's realities made her selective and I believe it was a function of the relationship that existed in the past.

At times, it is hardly the fault of the bigger levels ....
Do good always and no downgrading cos u just never can tell.

pansophist:
Things are more complicated than it seems. Lots of successful people distance themselves from others for many reasons.

1. Some people are their own village people. They won't improve themselves, are slaves to pleasures, and even if you give them 10M, 4M will go to betting, the rest chasing women etc.

2. Once bitten twice shy. You've helped ingrates and decided that never again.

3. Envy. You don't want to be punished for being a good person. Lots of people can't flush out envy from their system.

Success for them is to be better than you, not their yesterday. Defeating you is more important than improving themselves.

4. You've helped and helped but they turn you to a maga, and will keep inventing ways to keep being needy, because it's easier to get free help or cash than to repair oneself to be productive.

They are helping others and have helped a lot. You just are not one of beneficiaries or don't know any of them.

Of course there are genuine cases of folks refusing to help where the above doesn't apply, but to limit the reason and blame someone that did well for himself and owes you nothing is a bad attitude.

The idea that people are poor because no one wants to help them is false. You can't help who does not want to be helped.

You can be in a place of help and still be an idiot. And yes, lots of people are the architect of their own poverty.

All this thing na wise talk but as na you talk am e dey normal. Abeg I need assistance from you. I have asked for permission before but didn't do what I wanted to do but please I need an infinite permission to use your posts here on other platforms. You know you need to give back to community many unwise people need to be liberated so I need your permission to use your posts or ideas on here at anytime. Thank you in advance

Fattprince23:

All this thing na wise talk but as na you talk am e dey normal. Abeg I need assistance from you. I have asked for permission before but didn't do what I wanted to do but please I need an infinite permission to use your posts here on other platforms. You know you need to give back to community many unwise people need to be liberated so I need your permission to use your posts or ideas on here at anytime. Thank you in advance

No problem. Go ahead. Just put citations sha.

pansophist:


No problem. Go ahead. Just put citations sha.

I surely will. Thank you so much