just drop the summary of:
what happened?
how it happened?
where it happened?
who initiated the breakup?
how did you take it?
how did you get over it?, and many possible questions as they occur to you
help others learn from you
thanks

The last person told me he was getting married.
Later he got cold feet and did not marry her again.
Well he confessed he did not want to be tied down for any reason .
They had already invited people and just a few day to the wedding he called it of.

With my husband
I just told him to go that i cannot stay with him anymore.
I moved to mysisters place til he packed out.
It took him only a few days to go.

it was a blind date and we realise we re not compatable

He was too into the realationship. We was only going out for like 2 weeks and he was all "you my wifey" "our kids is gonna have nice hair". I was like dammn.

i bind you in Jesus name

he dumpes me,that's how it end


but he was very stupid to do that,but now he is the one that's regreting

it was very bad

i feel you

4real:

i feel you

thanks

what happened? - he started becoming distant
how it happened? - not calling anymore, texting or messaging or seeing me, always out with the boys
where it happened? - near my house where he lives, he was always hiding at home, watching movies, blocking the world out
who initiated the breakup? - i did, i wanted him to tell me what was making him want to isolate himself from me especially since we were close enough to open up about fears etc,
how did you take it? - was really upset cos it happened so fast
how did you get over it?, and many possible questions as they occur to you
help others learn from you

- I'm still getting over it, I didn't get closure so occassionally I think about it. But this isn't good advice but I'd say close the door!! Close the door! If he wants you he'll put the effort into opening the door again. Don't think of the what if's and give yourself hope, because if he never gives a second thought about you, you'll be devastated when you find out from facebuk that he's got a new girl

I had to reply to this topic now, only 3 replies, I'm going through everything, so nobody better make a sly comment about me still doting on this guy o!!

Something tells me chamotex that wasn't the full story, just something.

I can remember I travelled and having missed him so much I decided to pay him a surprise visit when I was back in town. On checking on him, his door was unbolted from the outside which waas a good sign dat he was at home. My heart melted cause I was anxious to bombard him with kisses and hugs when I entered. So with all eagarness and anxiety, I knocked on the door and I hear a female voice saying, Yes, tani yen who is dat, and she came opening towards door and I heard I her unboltening the door 4rm inside, My mind became so unseltteld and suddenly all d gra gra wey dey my body began to die down gradually, As the lady opened the door she didn't want to open it widely and she evn had the gut to ask me who I was lookin 4. Well I summoned courage and said I was looking 4 my guy ( I wudnt want to mention his name). Well on entering I met my guy in only boxers lieing on the bed. He didn't knw I was d one conversing wth d girl at the door he thot it was his neighbour dat wanted to borrow a film and didn't expect her to enter. So on seeing me he was shocked to the bones and was just stammering. I opened my mouth and I just cudn't close it again. It was then I took my time to look at the girl again and I cud nw see clearly dat she was also tyeing a wrapper. I took a good look at both of them and I just ran out with great dissapointment. I heard him calling me back bt I didn't evn bother to wait 4 any rubbish. He came the nxt day with his friend to beg me bt I said it was simply OVER. That was hw it all ended. Though he still calls me and tells me he still loves me I told him no way. That act made me loose interest in guys and I find it difficult to love whole-heartedly and it helped me build a shock absorber in my subsequent relationship. Bt letting go was nt dat easy. Smetimes I get tempted to call him bt pride just takes over,

Nasty. Sorry about that.

Pity eh

My last relationship, which was with my Laptop

ended with a Blue Screen, when i saw it

i couldnt even cry, cos really we had been through sooo much

Gamine:

Pity eh

My last relationship, which was with my Laptop

ended with a Blue Screen, when i saw it

i couldnt even cry, because really we had been through sooo much

tope2000:

i was eagerly waiting for you to narrate your own experience!!

as for me, the girl go back yankee, insecurity make am call am off (you cant blame her, when your boy is fine as hell and you are away from him for that long, whtdyu expect?)

i know she's goin come back

hahaha

Dont you just love it when people console themselves

izz all good sha

just drop the summary of:
what happened?
He put his hands on me

how it happened?
I asked him to leave my house and he would not stating "my house, my pussy"

where it happened?
In my house that solely own myself

who initiated the breakup?
I did, after he threatened me

how did you take it?
I was angry that he put his fucking hands on me

how did you get over it?, and many possible questions as they occur to you
I called the police, I had him arrested, I had him sent to jail (2 years only because it was the first offence, he served 90 days the rest was put on probation), I had him labeled a woman beater, I had his probation violated in DC (he served another year in DC jail), I had the judge issue a 3 year stay away order and 3 additional years of probation in Baltimore and anger management classes.[color=#990000][/color]

help others learn from you
thanks

Never never let a man put his hands on you, never ever take abuse from anyone and if i had stuck to my 6 month rule regarding guys i would have never been in this situation.

As a single mom, I always had a policy that no guys met my kids before 6 months.  I introduced him to my children after 3 months breaking my rule and 2 months later he put his hands on me.

it was just a mutual driffting apart,
we dint feel anything for each other anymore.

I told him I had a dream dat God spoke to me dat weren't meant to be together. Lol

Seriously now, I told him dat. :-D

Ok, what happened? I was graduatn before him so he was becoming insecure. He couldn't stand the thot of his babe being snatched away by those guys in d corporate. Also, he was the jealous type. Can't blame him really cos his babe na damsel dat gets alot of attention from men. Lol
Then he was also tolerating & enjoying some gestures frm girls dat he shouldn'2 be tolerating. Ofcourse, this raised an alarm and some other things sha.

I intiated d break-up like I said earlier, but he broke it up. Lol

How did I handle it? It was real bad cos I loved him and I was really hoping we could get married. He stalked me for smtym saying dat I should at least get a baby for him even if i don't marry him. U can imagine!!!

The most difficult part was breaking the news to friends and relations esp my mum who was hoping I had get married dat year or the next.

Lesson: i had to do what i had to do though i had a lot at stake (we courted for like 3 years) and I had also invested so much. We had a biz we were running together too. Despite all this, I knew it was best for me cos sooner or later he was going to still cause me d heartache. He was also selfish. He thinks about himself too much.

i ripped her p*ssy with my 10 inches

chamotex:

i ripped her p*ssy with my 10 inches

w£Ldone!!! omodada!!

I juzz told him:

"I gatta move on i'm done widya"

Bad boy!!!

@ topic

I just realized we weren't connected.

It ended terribly cos i still loved him so much but he unfortunately stopped loving me ever b4 it ended.To crown it all, he broke up with me over the phone. I'm trying to get over it by making more friends but never to go into any relationship until i have totally gotten over him.

We switched phones for a day but unfortunately his texts were saved in his phone and yep he was seeing several others,he denied it at first,admitted it later bt it made no difference i broke up with him. Who needs a serial cheater,sha. Nw he wants me back but naah am really enjoying singlehood.

tammyswits:

We switched phones for a day but unfortunately his texts were saved in his phone and yes he was seeing several others,he denied it at first,admitted it later bt it made no difference i broke up with him. Who needs a serial cheater,sha. Nw he wants me back but naah am really enjoying singlehood.

ignore his pleas.

I am sweety!

just drop the summary of: OK!

what happened?

I couldn't go on anymore with the relationship.

how it happened?

We started dating for the wrong reasons so I never expected it to last more than a month. I am even surprised we made it to the seventh month.

where it happened?

I called him. We lived 40 mins apart so doing it on the phone was more convenient. Besides why should I have spent money on fuel for a guy I wanted to dump?

who initiated the breakup?

Our relationship was doomed right from the start but we both wanted to enjoy ourselves.

how did you take it?

I felt relieved. I couldn't have felt better.

how did you get over it?

I never got into it so getting over wasn't a big prob.

This is one of my mistakes in life I never wish to repeat again. After a heartbreak I was so devastated that I was ready to settle for less (my ex). I wanted to play the game but I just saw it wasn't meant to me. Now I am back to myself and hope to remain like this for a long time, perhaps forever!