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| If I?. by yoboone(m): 11:16am On Feb 09, 2012 |
Good morning all, Pls am crazy for one little girl(18 yrs), I am 27 and a every faithful guy. I met this girl in december peiod 2010 and we became ordinary friends but now lovers. I love her so much and she does(I wish u will understand). Pls my quetion is this expecially to ladies "is it possible for me to disflower this girl since she is a virgin and she will have me in mind forever? As in, is it a criteria that a woman considers a guy that disflowered her? Pls I want to marry this girl and I am not settled yet(financially). Pls ladies, advise me on what to do to keep her forever cos I really love her(do I need to disflower her?). Thanks for helping me out of this. |
| Re: If I?. by Killz3(m): 11:23am On Feb 09, 2012 |
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| Re: If I?. by Mavor: 11:26am On Feb 09, 2012 |
Na wa ooo!!! See mentality.  |
| Re: If I?. by LaParisienne(f): 11:29am On Feb 09, 2012 |
@OP What exactly are you on about? |
| Re: If I?. by Metalgoong(m): 11:29am On Feb 09, 2012 |
@OP Well, just Deflawa her with you inglich  |
| Re: If I?. by ThisisCee(f): 11:37am On Feb 09, 2012 |
How can u (a 27yr old) think of disflowering an 18 year old girl Thatz ridiculousmaybe when u learn to control that 'thing' between ur legs, u wud prove to ha u love ha. |
| Re: If I?. by Jackieugo(f): 11:40am On Feb 09, 2012 |
yobo one: It sounds like you need to get your priorities in order. What will the girl's family think of you coming to NL to ask this question? She is only 18. Atleast give her time to mature into womanhood properly. This isn't romantic at all. |
| Re: If I?. by Dyt(f): 11:42am On Feb 09, 2012 |
ignorance dey say |
| Re: If I?. by born2boink(m): 11:43am On Feb 09, 2012 |
Dyt:dem don reach here |
| Re: If I?. by Dyt(f): 11:46am On Feb 09, 2012 |
wale |
| Re: If I?. by born2boink(m): 11:50am On Feb 09, 2012 |
Dyt:Mama Wale, I beg no vex |
| Re: If I?. by Killz3(m): 11:51am On Feb 09, 2012 |
18 is legal! The girl can choose at that age. Where i have a problem is with the OP's mindset. |
| Re: If I?. by stepo707: 12:27pm On Feb 09, 2012 |
Metalgoong: @op is a first time lover i guess.The love still dey shack am.It will fade away eventually.No go give that girl belle oh. |
| Re: If I?. by Nobody: 12:30pm On Feb 09, 2012 |
go to NTA and continue shouting i disflower her  |
| Re: If I?. by jpilata(m): 1:16pm On Feb 09, 2012 |
Please MR,u have a bad mindset.U want to sleep wit this lass and later leave her.U are deceiving her that u wil marry her so that u can sleep wit her.Our body is the temple of the lord. |
| Re: If I?. by MrsChima1(f): 1:37pm On Feb 09, 2012 |
School is out? |
| Re: If I?. by pinkymami(f): 1:38pm On Feb 09, 2012 |
That's one hell of a mentality you got there,saying one can't forget who deflowered her might be true but saying that would make her love you forever is plain dumb, though she's legal, she's still a bit young so just let her grow a little more and please do well to reason better than you do now. |
| Re: If I?. by Konnektions146(m): 4:36pm On Feb 09, 2012 |
sounds so naive. get yur priorities right ad leave the young lady alone, yu dont sound like yu can even manage a home though yu re old enough to own one , de young lady still have got a world ahead of her, please dont ruin it. |
| Re: If I?. by lolaluv1(f): 5:03pm On Feb 09, 2012 |
OP You are trying to tie the young girl to your person by sleeping with her. That is a very wrong mindset. What you should do if you love her, is to work and better your life and BECOME A MAN. That way, you can have her for keeps by putting a ring on her finger when she's more matured (since you love her so much, according to you). What you're talking about can ruin the girl's life. Is she matured enough to handle the plethora of emotions that comes with having sex? Can she take proper care of her reproductive health? Will she look back in future and thank God she met you? Any male can sleep with a female but A REAL MAN HANDLES HIS BUSINESS WITH DIGNITY AND INTEGRITY. Stop thinking of using kondo power! |
| Re: If I?. by zolzlolz(f): 5:19pm On Feb 09, 2012 |
Er, OP, what is it that attracts a 27yr old guy to and 18yr old girl? Are you immature or something? |
| Re: If I?. by MrCork17: 6:03pm On Feb 09, 2012 |
zolzlolz: ^^^ Age is a number. Zingondodo!!  |
| Re: If I?. by zolzlolz(f): 6:32pm On Feb 09, 2012 |
Mr, Cork:if that makes you sleep better at night, with your 80yr old girlfriend  |
| Re: If I?. by Nobody: 6:38pm On Feb 09, 2012 |
You can't make someone stay with you by "deflowering" them (what a funny word!). If you have to do that to make someone stick around, then maybe it's time you part ways. At 18, she can make her own decisions. But, she is still young, so I hope you would not pressure her to do anything she isn't ready to do. |
| Re: If I?. by drnoel: 8:25pm On Feb 09, 2012 |
Looks arnd, and asks "did anyone see me here", shakes head and >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>ZOOOOOM OUT>>>>>>>>>>> |
| Re: If I?. by Nobody: 10:14pm On Feb 09, 2012 |
Op, you sound like the 18-year old, Where on earth did you get that mindset. Please think like a man and don't let ur joystick do the thinking for you, true love has nothing to do with $eX, Deflowering her now does NOT guarantee she'll stick with you forever, you'd be surprised it could be an eye opener for her |
| Re: If I?. by kemmeye: 10:19pm On Feb 09, 2012 |
well ure a pervert for one i mean come on really ure not thinking right if you think this is the only way you can marry her. ure weird man |
| Re: If I?. by Lexusgs430: 11:43am On Feb 10, 2012 |
Deflower her ? Is she brewing a forest down there ? Go and ask her parents first !!!! |
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