I met this girl and we started being friendly. I wanted to make out something out of the relationship. On the first day of her visit to my office in Victoria Island, I took her to Tantalizer and bought alot of things and we ate.

On another occasion, she visited me unawares and I was going for launch in a Bukka, where I even meet a lot of rich men coming to eat. I asked her to follow me to the Bukka but she refused asking me to take her to Tantalizer. I pleaded with her to follow me to d Bukka even if she does nt want to eat the local food but she declined. My intention was to go get her a take away after we come out from the Bukka.

With her asking me to take her to Tantalizer, I was so furious that I bade her farewell and left her for my launch. I dont have the intention of carrying on with this girl cos she is a numbskull. Guys can u imagine the stupidity.

The question is: Ladies can you follow your boy friend to a Bukka?

it's obvious that she's materialistic. . . eating from a local restaurant does not define u poor or low class, i for instance loves to eat local foods. . . i wonder why some ladies behaves like they were brought up in the Queen's palace.

vinceb,
i feel you. talking from a guy's perspective, i think there is nothing wrong with going anywhere to eat, as long as it is safe and decent. infact 'the best of meals are served in bukka's' as they say. even if she dint want to eat there, she shld have atleast followed you and watched you eat. like efua said, she might just be materialistic, so be on the look out.

Buka Food tastes better and more Natural, less calories and less risks from Cancer.
Most people that insist on eating in fast food joints, check there background, they are obviuosly trying to fit into a higher social ladder and eating in a fast food or posh resturant makes them feel as if they have arrived. Nothing wrong in eating in a posh place once in a while but when you have to eat out every day you should be wise and save cost.
Some young people dont think, If youn calculate how much you spend on fast food if you eat out everyday, you will be shocked.
My Boyfriends office is close to mine and he takes me out veryday for lunch, except on weekends when i cook, Guess where we he takes me to? A buka in maitama. Once in a while he takes me out for a special treat or i take him out.

My guy, dump the hungry asshole, that you eat from a local bukka doesn't mean that you are poor or rich. if she really loves you, she would have followed you to the bukka even if she wouldn't eat. She even had the gut to tell you that you should take her to tantis, that shows her kind of gurl. I get sick of some Nigerian ladies that are materialistic. True love doesn't care about eating from a bukka or at tantis, ok?
Dump her, let her go to hell. Waki and die chic

Even if u re not dating the person, i dont think its right for me to tell my friend (that is even nice enough to invite me for lunch) to take me to another place except ofcourse i have a hidden agenda not to talk of someone am dating ! Na wah o,maybe there is someone she knew would be @ the bukka or something cos for me o,i have still not understood y she refused. My broda, even the response of some females here will make u know that

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ooppps dont mind my latin there.

Shalom!
Luv ya all

Even if u re not dating the person, i don't think its right for me to tell my friend (that is even nice enough to invite me for lunch) to take me to another place except ofcourse i have a hidden agenda not to talk of someone am dating ! Na wah o,maybe there is someone she knew would be @ the bukka or something because for me o,i have still not understood y she refused. My brother, even the response of some females here will make u know that SHE IS A MISTAKE ooppps don't mind my latin there.

Shalom!
Love ya all

@Poster - u r a goat meat.

@Poster
it depends sha. . . i also cant visit some places but it was wrong for her to decline and ask for another place. Check the gurl well, she must be one of the hungry Lagos gurls on the prowl. Run before she asks you to take her to Churasco where all her lineage put together hasnt been to

ladies and wahala!!! sha is a fakie

i will gladly choose bukka cos i love thos assorted meats they serve there and home made foods instead of curry and thyme foods

is she nourished at all?

True talk the bukka is were u get to eat good meals and order as much as u want
U go to tantalizer shame nor fit let u shew ur own meat wen u buy with ur hard earned money so i feel its very stupid to do such any girl that cant trade are pride to accompany her man guy to a bukka even if shes not gonna eat is not worth it

aisha2:

Buka Food tastes better and more Natural, less calories and less risks from Cancer.
Most people that insist on eating in fast food joints, check there background, they are obviuosly trying to fit into a higher social ladder and eating in a fast food or posh resturant makes them feel as if they have arrived. Nothing wrong in eating in a posh place once in a while but when you have to eat out every day you should be wise and save cost.
Some young people don't think, If youn calculate how much you spend on fast food if you eat out everyday, you will be shocked.
My Boyfriends office is close to mine and he takes me out veryday for lunch, except on weekends when i cook, Guess where we he takes me to? A buka in maitama. Once in a while he takes me out for a special treat or i take him out.

Your damn right. Not that the girl does not go there .she wanted to '' form'' big girl.She can fucking go there alone even buka much more below standard.That was very un natural of her.
I can't continue with that kind of girl. I love girls that are all season anytime anyday.

Personally, i notice that I feel satisfied when I eat at all those buka than when I go to fast food joints for their calories and expenses.

[size=13pt]She is a hungry biatch! It's so wrong to decline going with you. What is she forming? Maybe she was afraid that her late night customers may spot her with you at the bukka. If she was desperate to visit tantalizer she should have offered to buy lunch for two of you at tantalizers.[/size]

@ poster
yes!

i can go 2 bukka with my guy.

even if ur guy drinks and u don't. it is good 4 her 2 still go with him.

there, she can take soft.

That's why i love my baby till today. Atimes when i take her out to lunch and i want to drive to jevnic or Drumstix or SFC, she'll just yell at me that why am i wasting my money? She'll demand me to take her to a nice food canteen (i recommend the one just beside Tofa House to all Abuja peeps here), and we'll wack Tight!!! Chow beta amala and abula soup. Much cheaper and more filling than all the eateries around. And we even spend less than 1000 naira for both of us too!!!

ehn?? pls describe the place well well,i have been missing yoruba food ever since i come abj,abeg hint me,i work around there(Central Area).

@Poster

Of course YES!!! i could remember when i was working in VI,there was(dont know if it's still there) a place on Oyin Jolayemi str,where Ghanaians(i think) cooked and a cool yoruba joint in a machanics' compound,big men from big offices used to go there.

i loved the place then even though i used go to TFC sometimes just on the same street.it wasnt the same.Eatries' food are stereotypes,no plantain for ur rice,no amala,no eba,no variety,ha,abeg na niaja we dey jo,even our naija ppl outhere long to eat our food.

Yes i will willingly follow my guy to the bukka with no hesitations.
Forget Tantaliser, they dont have the variety - ITS IYA BASIRA ALL THE WAY!

some of these babes just like to form for no reason.

whoever called her an  hungry asshole in here cldnt have described her better.

yes i will follow my guy to any yakoyo,iya dunni,iya basira,iya sheni,mama gregory's and what have u"S in town !!

minute:

some of these babes just like to form for no reason.

whoever called her an hungry asshole in here cldnt have described her better.

yes i would follow my guy to any yakoyo,iya dunni,iya basira,iya sheni,mama gregory's and what have u"S in town !!

minute:

some of these babes just like to form for no reason.

whoever called her an hungry asshole in here cldnt have described her better.

yes i would follow my guy to any yakoyo,iya dunni,iya basira,iya sheni,mama gregory's and what have u"S in town !!

MADAM 60, who go caring u go BUKKA, u better sit ur hunny bun ass home and take the advantage of the "house wife".role

i see you've got a lot to talk about tnight.

do your thing.

im not 60 neither am i married.

i'll take dat as a joke but its a lousy one okay?

@minute
will u follow me to IYA BASIRA WITHOUT hesistating?, if YES, i will be in mARYLAND, TOMORROW, EVENING REPLY asap

@topic

I can go with my guy to the bukka, who cares as long as the food is wonderful and the bukka is clean. am in.

bad timing.

too bad ive got work to do.

some other time maybe hun?

yes oh!especially if they are selling white-amala with ewedu and gbegiri with correct ogunfe meat!

lol
Are you sure she is ur girlfriend?
'Cause I don't see any reason your girlie ain't gon' follow u to anywhere [I do mean anywhere] you wanna eat
Or else she got sumthin' else in her mind

y not, haaaaaaaaaaaa, most of my fav food are in a buka jare

No offence ooo - but the bukka better have a little class sha

rachiwise:

ehn?? please describe the place well well,i have been missing yoruba food ever since i come abj,abeg hint me,i work around there(Central Area).

@Poster

Of course YES!!! i could remember when i was working in VI,there was(don't know if it's still there) a place on Oyin Jolayemi str,where Ghanaians(i think) cooked and a cool yoruba joint in a machanics' compound,big men from big offices used to go there.

i loved the place then even though i used go to TFC sometimes just on the same street.it wasnt the same.Eatries' food are stereotypes,no plantain for your rice,no amala,no eba,no variety,ha,abeg na niaja we dey jo,even our naija people outhere long to eat our food.

They Have the Main Office in Tofa House Wuse , Behind the Central Mosque, You can Ask any Driver to take you there. They Also Have a Branch in Central area, Near Ademola Adetokunbo, Its a Garden, its on the left side of the road if you are coming from Celtel Office Ademola Adetukunbo and you are heading to the Federal secratariate.
I took my Bosses there oncee, we just came out from a Conference, we were all hungry and my DG usually goes to this posh place with Horrible food, I convinced them to try this place. They ate and Stained their Clothes. It was so funny. Now my organsation have become stakeholders in that Joint.
It is now an Official Duty to have lunch or have them bring us lunch when we have meetings or conferences in our Office.
I recommend amala and Ewedu and Pounded yam and Vegetable with goat meat, cow meat or Chicken depending on the weight of your purse
@Klassuguy
How far now? Am a regular there but not Tofa House, they have a branch close to my Office

@ aisha2 & rachiwise

Yes o, i know the joint near ademola adetokunbo, in V.I Its near my head office, (Tiamiyu Savage) i got introduced to that join when i started working there by my colleague, i miss those meals now that i've been transfered, and also the one at Oyin jolayemi. Once in a while u could feel like T.F.C at lunch time, but i do love food from those food joints mentioned here, i bet u won't regret. There are actually some bukka worth entering.

@ Topic
We know those type of girls, b4 they speak sef, we know them. T.F.C ko o Terra kulture ni

aisha2:

They Have the Main Office in Tofa House Wuse , Behind the Central Mosque, You can Ask any Driver to take you there. They Also Have a Branch in Central area, Near Ademola Adetokunbo, Its a Garden, its on the left side of the road if you are coming from Celtel Office Ademola Adetukunbo and you are heading to the Federal secratariate.
I took my Bosses there oncee, we just came out from a Conference, we were all hungry and my DG usually goes to this posh place with Horrible food, I convinced them to try this place. They ate and Stained their Clothes. It was so funny. Now my organsation have become stakeholders in that Joint.
It is now an Official Duty to have lunch or have them bring us lunch when we have meetings or conferences in our Office.
I recommend amala and Ewedu and Pounded yam and Vegetable with goat meat, cow meat or Chicken depending on the weight of your purse
@Klassuguy
How far now? Am a regular there but not Tofa House, they have a branch close to my Office

na bukka you describe reach like this? abeg my mouth don dey water oh!!!

oh boy! tell your girl make she live the good and real life

it's break time, im off to one bukka near my office called IYA EBA, catch ya

Good responses from you all. I am still listening to you fellow nairalanders.