Do our young married men have ulterior motives? Unlike their wives, why are most of them seen without their wedding bands/rings?

cowgurl: Do our young married men have ulterior motives? Unlike their wives, why are most of them seen without their wedding bands/rings?

I cannot reach a conclusion because I am not married however, I think the motive would be different for each individual.

cowgurl: Do our young married men have ulterior motives? Unlike their wives, why are most of them seen without their wedding bands/rings?

some men dont naturaly like jewelries while some men cant do without it. Besides it not d ring dat matters cos some men wear theirs n still act foolishly and some dont wear n are still responsible always.

GboyegaD:
I cannot reach a conclusion because I am not married however, I think the motive would be different for each individual.

Hmm, I get u.

taryour:
some men dont naturaly like jewelries while some men cant do without it. Besides it not d ring dat matters cos some men wear theirs n still act foolishly and some dont wear n are still responsible always.

Yeah I kno but it's js a small piece n won't hurt.

My advise is if your hubby does not wear a ring, divorce him. Get intouch with me after you have kicked him out.

The truth is dat wit or without his wedding ring, a man wud still cheat comfortably if he wants to so it rily doesn't make any difference!

Personally, I dislike jewelry on my skin. I will have to convince future madam that they are no ulterior motives and that it is just something I dislike. I hope she will understand.

I don't like jewelry that is why i don't wear mine.

Johndoe100: My advise is if your hubby does not wear a ring, divorce him. Get intouch with me after you have kicked him out.

Lmao, ur signature says it all.

Seriously if my hubby wont wear his den i'l remove mine.y did he buy 2 in d first place
Come 2 tink of it y is it dat it's only d female dat wears engegement ring. Men and their sense of 'u-know-we've-got-a-polygamous-nature'excuse.

@ topic

i don't see it as a big deal

@ OP no ring hmmm yes they have alterior motives, usually includes flirting and the brazent ones have girlfriends.

maclatunji: Personally, I dislike jewelry on my skin. I will have to convince future madam that they are no ulterior motives and that it is just something I dislike. I hope she will understand.

Better pray i don't ever get to know her .

agiboma: @ OP no ring hmmm yes they have alterior motives, usually includes flirting and the brazent ones have girlfriends.

No be talk am o but yes that's what i wanted to say.

sweetcocoa: Better pray i don't ever get to know her .

I better pray you don't get to know her because?

maclatunji:

I better pray you don't get to know her because?

Because i'll make her realize your excuse for not wearing the ring is flimsy.

@Sweetcocoa, she will have to trust me on that. She has to love and trust me otherwise we will have problems.

maclatunji: @Sweetcocoa, she will have to trust me on that. She has to love and trust me otherwise we will have problems.

Okay o,I pray you find her if you haven't but i know say if na me,e go hard .

sweetcocoa: Okay o,I pray you find her if you haven't but i know say if na me,e go hard .

I know it will be hard to believe but action speaks louder than words. If I show her I love her everyday, she will begin to believe it. I will warn her not to be complacent though. It takes the grace of God to overcome the scheming and machinations of other women if they decide that they REALLY want a man.

maclatunji:

I know it will be hard to believe but action speaks louder than words. If I show her I love her everyday, she will begin to believe it. I will warn her not to be complacent though. It takes the grace of God to overcome the scheming and machinations of other women if they decide that they REALLY want a man.

So showing her you love her everyday automatically means you can't\won't stray?

Loving someone as i have learned thus far doesn't stop you from cheating on them,many married men who cheat love their wives to bits.

^Obviously, you did not comprehend the second half of that post.

maclatunji: ^Obviously, you did not comprehend the second half of that post.

Sorry my bad,yeah gotchya now.

maclatunji:

I know it will be hard to believe but action speaks louder than words. If I show her I love her everyday, she will begin to believe it. I will warn her not to be complacent though. It takes the grace of God to overcome the scheming and machinations of other women if they decide that they REALLY want a man.

Confession.lol

@ post.

I really don't see a big deal in it. My hubby added weight just 2weeks after wedding dat his wedding band became too tight. He managed wearing it for sometym, but had to give it up and I so love d design. We are planning to get a new set soon. Hope I find something similar sha.

chaircover: Not Wearing a wedding ring doesn’t automatically indicate that the person wants to practice infidelity.

There are tons of married people of both sexes wearing wedding rings but having affairs all over the place. I wear my wedding ring and I still get the occasional toast LOL

em Chaircover can you meet me by the street corner? I want to toast you. Cheers

divalin19: Seriously if my hubby wont wear his den i'l remove mine.y did he buy 2 in d first place
Come 2 tink of it y is it dat it's only d female dat wears engegement ring. Men and their sense of 'u-know-we've-got-a-polygamous-nature'excuse.

Lmao out @ ur last statement.

[quote author=sweetcocoa][/quote] Is dis freecocoa? Wer u banned or sth? Y d change? Luv dis new handle dou.

chaircover: Not Wearing a wedding ring doesn’t automatically indicate that the person wants to practice infidelity.

There are tons of married people of both sexes wearing wedding rings but having affairs all over the place. I wear my wedding ring and I still get the occasional toast LOL

Lmao. yeah, it sure doesn't stop dem man biatches ryt? Gud tin dy r d ones doin d comin n not d oda way round.

Wearing of a ring or not should be a mutual agreement between the couple. If A does not feel comfortable wearing it, then B should be aware of it, not that B will find out later on that her hubby is not wearing his ring, then wahala will begin.

It took me awhile to get used to waering my ring, i only wear it now when am going out of the house and remove it when am inside, my hubby is the same way, he wears it on his way-out and removes it as he is opening the door!!!!

even if we put sign board(married) on our chest, we still get laid, so whats the biggie about ring