Missfoxy: Please help!!! How do you know what a niger man wants being that he shows little emotions boarder line indiffrence but also shows interest? How do they date/court? Our culture is dfferent but he shows attention when he wants leaving me confused as to what hes thinking and our relationship. How can you tell if he wants sex, friendship or to date? Maybe im being silly but its really frustrating at times.

punnonline: pick a time and discus thats d best option ASSUMPTION will destroy ur relationship. Get it from the horses mouth so you dnt regret any decision or action. I have been there, i assumed based on pples thought, bt i knw nw that he did care,still does bt its late.

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As long as hes Nigerian - U have no cause for alarm

ure in safe hands

Missfoxy:
Thank punnonline for a direct answer. I have spoken to him about some of what I feel and I don't know if I'm pushing him away so I have stepped aside. Hes just so busy I don't know if I'm making a big deal out of something that could potentially be more just because of our cultures and him bring busy. Don't know exactly how to approach the situation anymore if he does not want to make time for me. Have you we are just getting to know one another and i dont want come off as possesive or overstepping the bondries.

Logic Mind: ladies listen.
All heterosexual men want your toto.
So stop asking if he wants sex because he does. ok?

tellwisdom: If you are male dating Nigerian female-----Risk

If you are female dating Nigerian Male ----> Safe

Please can i hug ur breasttt for thank u?

Missfoxy:

I dont think so. He never really lets me know whats on his mind. I think its a done deal. I think Im starting to understand nigerian ways but its too late cause I have distanced myself and he probably think im mad at him. We both
have moved on.

Missfoxy:

I dont think so. He never really lets me know whats on his mind. I think its a done deal. I think Im starting to understand nigerian ways but its too late cause I have distanced myself and he probably think im mad at him. We both have moved on.

Missfoxy:

I dont think so. He never really lets me know whats on his mind. I think its a done deal. I think Im starting to understand nigerian ways but its too late cause I have distanced myself and he probably think im mad at him. We both have moved on.

punnonline: then relax and enjoy whatever he offers as long as you LOVE him!
But dnt put so much faith so if ever brushes off you would be able to handle the break up(emotionally) i had an bf once who hardly called me except i did,i pushed d issue so much but no change so i assumed he didnt care and walked away i later realised it wasnt just me all his friends even family has the same problem. Its who he is bt i didnt gt it. We are stil friends and moved when i tink of it i knw i made a mistake and presently i make it a point to understand my partner's weakness.

punnonline: then relax and enjoy whatever he offers as long as you LOVE him!
But dnt put so much faith so if ever brushes off you would be able to handle the break up(emotionally) i had an bf once who hardly called me except i did,i pushed d issue so much but no change so i assumed he didnt care and walked away i later realised it wasnt just me all his friends even family has the same problem. Its who he is bt i didnt gt it. We are stil friends and moved when i tink of it i knw i made a mistake and presently i make it a point to understand my partner's weakness.

IZUKWU: why are crying after spilled milk

kpolli: she is confused and wants to understand someone else. . . Didn't u hear "charity begins at home". . . First understand urself before trying to understand him

Missfoxy:

Punnonline I thank you. You have given me the most helpfil information. Its like u understand me where im not able to express oi n words exacly what is happening. As if we had the same experience. I do think it is too late. I have distanxed myself thinking another women involved or he was not into me. He used to call/text everyday and.now I have not heard from him in 5 days. Its not all my fault though cause I wxpressed how I felt and I only stepped aside after I sensed him distancing himself. I did mot push the issue being that we just meet. I am not in love with him but I did value his friendship and would have loved to date. I dont know if he stopped waiting for me to hit him up but I do think its too late. No hard feelings towards him.