queenafric: Don't know which section to post this, so I av to post it here. Well, a quick summary of the whole thing. She claim am her bestie while I will just call her a good friend or so I thot till I heard loads of crappy, hurtful, ridiculous and untrue things that she has been saying about me to different people that try to cultivate my friendship. I s.w.e.a.r this is like d worst case of character assasination that I av ever heard about. Imagine hearing about things dat u must av told a supposed friend in good faith hoping dat it won't be shared with anyone else and only for u to hear all about it from about..not one or two or three different peeps. And b4 u all start thinking about it (wot I confided in her about) being something really bad or hideous, no it isn't. To cap it all, she then created her own untrue stories to join too, like 5% truth 95% false stories. Since I heard about all d tales she has spread about me, I decided I was going to play it all maturedly, let her know about all she said about me, cut my friendship wit her, then move on. But d more d minutes passes by, and d more I keep thinking about all she said, a certain kind of anger kept welling up inside of me, a kind of burning anger. I am really trying so hard to control myself right now. One mind is telling me to go confront her to her face at her house but I know it will surely turn physical. I don't want to go that route cos beliv me, I might end up beating d daylight out of her and she might lose consciousness. I aint agbero so I won't but pls I just need mature suggestions about how I can handle it all?
Make una no vex o! didn't intend to make it this long.

queenafric:
Don't know which section to post this, so I have to post it here. Well, a quick summary of the whole thing.

She claims that I am her bestie while I will just call her a good friend, or so I thought until I heard loads of crappy, hurtful, ridiculous and untrue things that she has been saying about me to different people that try to cultivate my friendship. I s.w.e.a.r this is like the worst case of character assasination that I have ever heard about.

Imagine hearing about things that you told a supposed friend in good faith hoping that it won't be shared with anyone else, only for you to hear all about it from about..not one or two or three different peeps. And before you all start thinking about it (what I confided in her about) being something really bad or hideous, it isn't.

To cap it all, she then created her own untrue stories to join too, like 5% truth 95% false stories. Since I heard about all the tales she has spread about me, I decided I was going to play it all maturedly, let her know about all she said about me, cut my friendship with her, and then move on. But the more time passed, the more I kept thinking about all she said, and a certain kind of anger kept welling up inside of me, a kind of burning anger. I am really trying so hard to control myself right now.

One mind is telling me to go confront her to her face at her house but I know it will surely turn physical. I don't want to go that route because believe me, I might end up beating the daylight out of her and she might lose consciousness. I aint no agbero, so I won't, but please I just need mature suggestions about how I can handle it all?

Make una no vex o! didn't intend to make it this long.

queenafric:
Well, I was still seething with anger when I created this thread but now I'm cool.
@ beylinko, i agree wit u dat confronting her will make sense but at d end of d day, it's goodbye to d friendship. But men...some people are wicked o! They just envy u for no reason. Anyway, thanks y'all. Thread closed!

youngds:


A suggestion:- Act as if nothing hapn & remain friend with her, she can't take back what she has said neither can u unsaid wat u told, & b thnkful to God u no her now, not been her friend anymore would only make wat u av said to her av more importance to ur life & power over you.. she as wrong u & deep down she knows, now she has more to prove to u as a frnd (so she could earn ur trust, I.e if u don't take d issue as anything) instead of a new frnd who as nothing to prove & can do u worst!! so just let it go, believe me i learnt dat d hard way!!

it always d darkest before the dawn