"Baby,should i recieve money from another person to make my hair ? Because tomorrow is sunday and i can't carry my hair like this" i recieve this text message from my gf this afternoon . She loosed her hair on tuesday and has been asking for #2,500 to do a new one and my pockets are empty and i have explained that and asked her to wait till next week . Meanwhile we have agreed that she will spend the weekend in my house and this morning she called me to come to her house and when i came ,it was just to drop her at her shop ,which i did but she was dropping hints that she may not come this evening again as her aunty wants her to come visiting. I kept silent and now she sent this text . What does she mean. Does she just want to punish me or what. And she has done similar things before like not willing to see me when am not willing or capable of meeting her needs. Its is begining to make me feel insecure . She is a fine woman and am sure must have other toasters who will be financially more viable than me and i will not be interested in competing with any for her love. I will just make myself unavailable.

Probably nothing. Sometimes, it's really just black and white. Haven't you dropped her off at the shop before? Because she's expecting a visitor, she must have figured out the best way to hang out with you, since she won't be able to later on. It's killing two birds with a stone.
Besides, accepting money from another, doesn't always mean that the other, is a contender na. It can come from a sibling or even her own purse. Keeping an unkempt hair can be quite annoying sometimes.

When i pull such stunts on my bf, its either to extort money from him or to make him jealous,or both. If he dares make himself 'unavailable', i'll ditch him so fast it would make his head spin. But if he shows me the love i desire,even if he's got no money,i'll understand. And im the most troublesome person i know. So,if you talk to her and she doesnt understand, shes one hell of a bit*ch.

RealBitch: When i pull such stunts on my bf, its either to extort money from him or to make him jealous,or both. If he dares make himself 'unavailable', i'll ditch him so fast it would make his head spin. But if he shows me the love i desire,even if he's got no money,i'll understand. And im the most troublesome person i know. So,if you talk to her and she doesnt understand, shes one hell of a bitch.

you're really a realbitch

joeydozzy:

you're really a realbitch

with a crackhead like you hanging around, any slowpoke would pass for a genius.

Rocktation: Probably nothing. Sometimes, it's really just black and white. Haven't you dropped her off at the shop before? Because she's expecting a visitor, she must have figured out the best way to hang out with you, since she won't be able to later on. It's killing two birds with a stone.
Besides, accepting money from another, doesn't always mean that the other, is a contender na. It can come from a sibling or even her own purse. Keeping an unkempt hair can be quite annoying sometimes.

yeah! she told me that why she called me was because she will not be able to see me later as we agreed as she will travel to see her aunty in a neighbouring town but will see me tomorrow but the text message just threw me off balance.

RealBitch: When i pull such stunts on my bf, its either to extort money from him or to make him jealous,or both. If he dares make himself 'unavailable', i'll ditch him so fast it would make his head spin. But if he shows me the love i desire,even if he's got no money,i'll understand. And im the most troublesome person i know. So,if you talk to her and she doesnt understand, shes one hell of a bitch.

so i have nothing to fear then, cos i will be mad to find out that i have wasted my emotions ,time and funds.

IZUKWU: so i have nothing to fear then, cos i will be mad to find out that i have wasted my emotions ,time and funds.

if you love her for real, it isnt a waste of all that shitty stuff. She wants attention¿ Give it to her. A little bit of cash wont hurt either

RealBitch: with a crackhead like you hanging around, any slowpoke would pass for a genius.

that was actually a compliment but hey I love you still. Can we kiss and make-up?

IZUKWU: yeah! she told me that why she called me was because she will not be able to see me later as we agreed as she will travel to see her aunty in a neighbouring town but will see me tomorrow but the text message just threw me off balance.

She is probably trying to team you or make you jealous bro. Noting to get so high about

Mynd_44:
She is probably trying to team you or make you jealous bro. Noting to get so high about

Myndi. Bro aint u suppose to be ga;y? And do u realize this topic is about women? Not Men?

joeydozzy:

that was actually a compliment but hey I love you still. Can we kiss and make-up?

how about we sh*ag and break up?

Mr..Cork:




Myndi. Bro aint u suppose to be ga;y? And do u realize this topic is about women? Not Men?

Okay I have seen you. Now go play with your joysticks

RealBitch: how about we sh*ag and break up?

sweet like friends with benefits?

joeydozzy:

sweet like friends with benefits?

exactly

RealBitch: if you love her for real, it isnt a waste of all that shitty stuff. She wants attention¿ Give it to her. A little bit of cash wont hurt either

okay,noted and thanks a bunch.

RealBitch: exactly

wait, there should be a hook right?

Dude, 2.5k aint much na, considering d fact dat d hair could last abt 3weeks. Wetin happen na? However, d text msg aint ordinary. It's straightforward. A result of what has been bottled up for a while. Buckle up or it's over ASAP!

My take: Dump her before she dumps u. Even if u get a better job 2mrw, and hence capable of spending more, u'd always be in the comparison...which isn't true love.

^^Guysss....una go dump tire oo...

What is wrong with these guys? Cant y'all take a joke anymore?

Rocktation: ^^Guysss....una go dump tire oo...

No be so o! Na her fault na...d girl would end up being a victim of d circumstance she created.

Mynd_44:
Okay I have seen you. Now go play with your joysticks

Plural! Na how u come take know dat one

ijebabe:
Plural! Na how u come take know dat one

Detective ijebabe on point.

Oya mynd answer the question..

Why doesnt she have her own money to pay for her hair? Instead she would rather manipulate and upset you? This is not how love works.

Guy the hand writing is on the wall and its obvious that u are insecure and she even knows this and is using it. Yea she has toasters and she making u know it so the ball is in you court. With this is is far gone already.

@op, its simple, some other guy is offering her d 2k5.. Dats y she won't come as planned.

ijebabe:
Plural! Na how u come take know dat one

His ex-girlfriend told me seems to be the reason why they are all leaving him

At OP: just imagine, you're dating this, whilst there was some really nice girl you most likely overlooked because she wasn't hot or was boring. People and their tastes, sooo funny.
Tell her to pls be understanding, you're broke (unless that's a lie) and you'll give her the money for th next one. But if she wants to collect money from someone else and she's also implying that no nacking (the going to see her aunty instead of you) unless you drop cash (what does that make her? Ask yourself), pls free her. Smile and tell her it's cool. And continue your life. She has a shop (a means of supporting herself) and yet this. Well...
I'm sure you'll probably marry her.

^^
Of course he will marry her. Humans are naturally suicidal

^^ Says who?How did you know?

@op,check through her phone when she comes over to your place.She must have an hidden agenda!