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Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by Ashawoman82: 10:47pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
martins2021:don't mind the stupid girl 1 Like |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by SeriouslySense(m): 10:49pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Try and avoid such groups, the more you react, the more they increase the flames, it can become insane, i don't have time for such, i better learn electronics, or learn something new, that i can do with my hands. We just have to learn to forgive and treat everyone well. Favor99: 2 Likes |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by 1Sharon(f): 10:49pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Favor99: Both groups are guilty of looking down on each other I'm not talking about other kinds of slavery, I'm talking about chatell slavery that is relevant to AAs. If you want to give excuses, will you allow white people to give theirs too? |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by Favor99(m): 10:55pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
SeriouslySense:That’s some real good wisdom. Can you go into a bit more detail on avoiding them, and reacting increases the flames. |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by Oxfordgrade: 10:59pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
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Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by SeriouslySense(m): 11:10pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
For instance, some may be having a bad time, and are just looking for where to express this depression, and if you chat with them on social media, on such topics, they already have their preconception, just like us, they are not there to listen, but to make a point. If you have time, then you can argue and they just get emotional and then perhaps block you, this helps in empowering them temporarily, but you may have a genuine concern, and all you used your time for, was increasing your blood pressure. Its like a viscous cycle. If you were not there to make a point, but to understand their motivation and where they are coming from, you will see that they want reparations, they want a country of their own in Africa, or a land to call own, so it means they want to have a place in Africa also, perhaps in the east or North. I think reparation is realistic and is very reasonable to some extent to recognize the inhumanity they endured, if i were in their shoes, i would want the same, i do not concern myself with whether they are hardworking or lazy. Just from historic perspective they deserve apology from US also. For the other demand about a land in Africa to call their own, i don't know if that is possible, i think they had a chance with Liberia, and I think the country seems to be okay now, because my impression about a Liberian, is that they are humble and have humanity in them, and very smart also. But where else can they get land in Africa, i don't know everywhere is occupied Favor99: |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by 43Ronin: 11:10pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
1Sharon:Nothing like that. The tenancy laws that are non-sentimental plus Its illegal for her to collect security deposit and refuse to rent the house. If the authorities know she will be severely sanctioned and still rent out that house to him or refund his complete money. |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by sheriffindy(m): 11:11pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
He's no there legally..that's just the main reason for not involving the police. tensazangetsu20: |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by SeriouslySense(m): 11:12pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
makes sense sheriffindy: |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by Favor99(m): 11:20pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
SeriouslySense:Ok true true. But still doesn’t give them the right to be pooing on us and dragging us in the mud in the their quest for reperations and land in Africa. If we had sensible leaders and a unified populace, nobody would dare disrespect us like this. But you have been bringing up some great points. |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by NaBanga: 11:22pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Contact the police and explain the situation. They will likely say it's a civil matter that has to go to court, but in some locales it may be seen as theft by deception. Police is "mostly" your friend in the United States, so you have nothing to fear. |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by AngelicBeing: 11:23pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
sukkot:Muchecheche, she fit dey sleep for female shelter sef, with her laptop and be running her scams + drugs + olosho work |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by SeriouslySense(m): 11:25pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Unfortunately, we dont have leaders right now, but rulers. So they will poo on us, as they like, it gives them temporary satisfaction, and to be sincere, i am not bothered or moved by such, I really hope they work on their attitudes, because it could make so much difference and help them very much, they are in a unique position to do a lot of amazing things for themselves, i wish them the best. What if they could channel that energy to helping themselves out, they will do wonders, they seem not to know their power, just like us. although recently people begin to realize they even had power . We lamented about our leaders, and within a short time i was amazed about the unity of the youths. We seem to lack awareness of our strength. I think i need to educate myself too. Favor99: |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by Favor99(m): 11:27pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
1Sharon:What we need is unity. When Oyinbo and other races poo on Nigerians, often times some Nigerians will be defending the other race. The disrespect and injustice from Black Americans is so glaring for all to see. How can you be defending them against your own comrades even when they’re clearly in the wrong? Other races even when their comrades are clearly wrong, will still defend them. Us even when we are right, our own won’t defend us. It’s why Chinese and Indians mistreat us in Nigeria, because they can get away with it and our people don’t care about our own justice |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by SeriouslySense(m): 11:32pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
When you say Unity, what brings unity, if not common goals, or genuine interest in building up each other and understanding each other. Without the basics, unity remains elusive. I always observe this hurried quest for unity, in face of danger or maybe certain challenges, although the people dont even understand themselves, how can iron cling with clay. Favor99: |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by fayomidada(m): 11:34pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
It's super easy, the deed has already been done. Just report her, if she's staying at an apartment, just go to the apartment office and report that she rented out a room to you because it's illegal to rent out a space you are renting to another person. I bet you she will be kicked out too. |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by 1Sharon(f): 11:35pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Favor99: Both groups are in the wrong. No dey form victim. |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by SeriouslySense(m): 11:38pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
1Sharon: |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by completeskills: 12:01am On Apr 02, 2023 |
1Sharon: You are right...plain reversed psychology |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by DIKEnaWAR: 12:13am On Apr 02, 2023 |
Controlla123: Go and report her dude. Her downfall is past the time. A very crooked lady there! |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by omoredia: 12:17am On Apr 02, 2023 |
Don't complain. Even Adeboye no dey complain of his brother MC Oluomo tribalism in Lagos. |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by sweetman2022: 1:04am On Apr 02, 2023 |
sukkot:It seems we read different stories, because if you are talking of same post, then go and read it again. Are you talking of a scammer that I know her place and can easily trace according to the post. The guy even has all the chats details which makes it easy to deal with the woman. Abeg talk another thing. |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by Nobody: 1:15am On Apr 02, 2023 |
Exmilitant: It doesn't matter ! Why would you relegate your own simply because of English language? When you enter that USA, you will find out that he is even better in English than most indians, Chinese and whitee sef. |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by BigCowHornn: 1:50am On Apr 02, 2023 |
Asour: I know. But there was the chance you were not a student at all |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by kingsceemark(m): 1:50am On Apr 02, 2023 |
Controlla123: Why are you disturbing our peace then? Abi you like the woman? |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by Goldbw122(m): 2:11am On Apr 02, 2023 |
Controlla123:They will keep scamming you is like that money is a small amount and you are rich. |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by BigIyanga: 2:29am On Apr 02, 2023 |
Sorry about your ugly experience with Naija woman. Try the best way u can to get your money. Most people advising to get the police involved in a $100 case dont know how things work. Most police officers would tell you that this a civil case and they wont do much. Most wont pay you attention if it’s not up $500. It also seems that you didnt sign any lease with that woman.?? Make sure you sign a lease with any landlord. 1 Like |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by Darkmode64: 2:34am On Apr 02, 2023 |
Senkasa:I think you're the mugu here cos he definitely revealed her name. Olodo |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by Ndipe(m): 2:54am On Apr 02, 2023 |
So, what do you expect your readers to do if you are unwilling to seek redress in court? Controlla123: |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by BigIyanga: 2:58am On Apr 02, 2023 |
Ndipe:Cost it’s going to cost $500-$1k to get a lawyer who is going to represent him/her in a civil court.. 1 Like |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by aestake: 4:26am On Apr 02, 2023 |
GreyLaw:Na folks in Nigeria Sabi wetin dey north america. |
Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by DasBeste: 4:27am On Apr 02, 2023 |
Controlla123: What are you still waiting for before you take her to Judge Judy? |
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