I started dating my ex-boyfriend in my year two in the university, we experienced what an average couple go through, probably because we were young at first we did not worry about where the relationship was going to lead us.
Two years into the relationship I was passing of potential suitors because I was in love, then I discussed with ex about making plans for the future but most times all he talked about was enjoying the moment. While enjoying the moment I got pregnant which came as a shock to both of us because Posting 2 was my diet pills once we don't play safe, knowing the kind of family I was raised from there was no way I could go home pregnant so I opt for abortion. 

There is a saying that once you run away from a responsibility once, you will never be ready no matter how much you try. And then there was a second, the funny thing was I always take the two pills in a postinor2 tab once just to avoid complications but complications seems to always show up. Well that was when my common sense set in, I'm barely 24 ! And I've already done two abortions plus my relationship wasn't heading towards the altar anytime soon or never. I've not done anything reasonable with my life yet, so I told myself ENOUGH!!!!

 I rebuked myself because in all A MAN HAS NOTHING TO LOSE. When the deed was done, my body is the one been damaged gradually, I'M NOT A VICTIM BECAUSE IT WAS WITH MY CONSENT excluding the guilt. 
I dusted myself because I'm yet to achieve my best, I ended the toxic relationship because a relationship that adds nothing positive to my life is toxic and it can kill me. And I love myself more than anything or anyone in this world, so MY POINT IS WE WOMEN SHOULD STOP PLAYING THE VICTIMS CARD at least in cases like this. 


ENOUGH ALREADY, He dumped you after many abortions, So what? LIFE DOESN'T START AND END WITH ONE MAN. TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS, I'm till healing, give it time and your past exist only in your memory. What the future hold is new, let US women stop being our own worse enemy. Let us be wise, you loved him, you will love someone else. IF YOU ARE NOT READY FOR PARENTAL RESPONSIBILITY,DON'T DO IT!



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Culled from http://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2013/12/abortion-after-i-had-enough-i-deleted.html?m=1

Before anyone curse me out abet Jr opinion might help or save someone out there.

Interesting! well, she should................

Brb...sleepin already