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Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by Nobody: 12:14am On Sep 09, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie:and extremely determined ....I'm Taurus too, May 8 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by priscaoge(f): 8:06am On Sep 09, 2014 |
scosco1: Keeping Grudge could be as a result of deep hurt and offence someone did against us intentionally or without knowing . It diminishes our joy aπϑ inhibits our relationship with others . We keep grudge because we choose not to overlook ,ignore the wrong the other person did against us . Letting go frees us . G-d commands, "You shall not hate your brother in your heart..." (Lev. 19:17) @Bolded. My dear I actually witnessed a scenario like that. It was an eyesore. You just nailed it all. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by priscaoge(f): 8:13am On Sep 09, 2014 |
jimmy4x:Wow...That's Nice! |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by Nobody: 8:49am On Sep 09, 2014 |
priscaoge:yea, wats ur day?? |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by priscaoge(f): 10:34am On Sep 09, 2014 |
jimmy4x:30th April |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by Nobody: 10:43am On Sep 09, 2014 |
priscaoge:Chai...you go do party for us be that. , you too @Jimmy4x, no try use location collect excuse o. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by priscaoge(f): 10:59am On Sep 09, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie:Lmao,U don give me expo be dat |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by Nobody: 12:01pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
I thank God for the kind of heart he gave to me.I forgive and forget easily, dont even know how to keep malice, Sometimes I wonder what people gain in holding grudges when the person you are starving and killing yourself might not even know. I like being free and happy. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by priscaoge(f): 12:13pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
softsparkyy: I thank God for the kind of heart he gave to me.I forgive and forget easily, dont even know how to keep malice, Sometimes I wonder what people gain in holding grudges when the person you are starving and killing yourself might not even know. I like being free and happy.Yeaa it can be very discomforting. To me it's like having a heavy burden,people actually feel comfortable bearing a grudge 4 years. It amazes me |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by Nobody: 12:28pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
priscaoge:Yeah it's like having a heavy burden and it gives me migraine so if you hurt me so bad, I will just cry and let go. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by Acidosis(m): 1:26pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
softsparkyy: |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by Orunto: 2:25pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
They don't PRAY. If they say they are christians, they are not BORN AGAIN. |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by Nobody: 12:42pm On Sep 10, 2014 |
priscaoge: Kachisbarbie:Lol....maybe if dem post me go Aba go serve |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by MizMyColi(f): 10:10pm On Sep 19, 2014 |
priscaoge: I just want to have Ur views on this. Why do I wonder ooo Some people eat grudges like food. if they don't bear a grudge, they will just go thin overnight. Lemmee nuh lie sha, if someone I love/value hurts me and doesn't make it up to me as is expected of them (depending on rank) Well That one is not grudge, is it? Okay, maybe advanced grudge. But then I think the crux of the matter here is bearing grudges against a general hood of people, that's a bah to me. A big no! no! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by spanzed(m): 11:12pm On Sep 19, 2014 |
To avoid some troubles with people in life I opt for not talking with dem...and I see no bad there infact I have so many of dem as I speak...I don't see dat as grudge I just device a means of staying out of wahala.. |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by Feraz(m): 11:20pm On Sep 19, 2014 |
softsparkyy: I thank God for the kind of heart he gave to me.I forgive and forget easily, dont even know how to keep malice, Sometimes I wonder what people gain in holding grudges when the person you are starving and killing yourself might not even know. I like being free and happy.We're somewhat alike. I don't see the need having one. The painful thing is if you see the person you have a grudge against being happy, you become burnt as to why the person is when you are not. It hinders you from staying happy. |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by priscaoge(f): 11:32pm On Sep 19, 2014 |
MizMyColi:Lol...No be small advanced grudge ,that one is not really a grudge naa. My dear I've come across people that hold a bitter grudge for years,I keep wondering how they sleep. |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by tpia6: 2:08am On Sep 20, 2014 |
priscaoge: most times it is. |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by tpia6: 2:09am On Sep 20, 2014 |
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Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by tpia6: 2:12am On Sep 20, 2014 |
priscaoge: its their nature, same way other people are unable to keep grudges and malice. |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by priscaoge(f): 6:33am On Sep 20, 2014 |
tpia6:Hmmm this is serious |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by Nobody: 1:43pm On Sep 20, 2014 |
1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by naijaaone(m): 6:30pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
lìfe is too brief to habour grudges. Grudge is a slow killer disease that has more negative effect on the bearer than the offender. So as that sharp guy with a liberal mind i treat mr grudge as an enemy i don't need in a twenty first century. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by priscaoge(f): 7:01pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
naijaaone: Spot on |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by naijaaone(m): 7:38pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
priscaoge:my dear, i can't stop people from offending me but i can choose to be happy. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by priscaoge(f): 7:51pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
naijaaone: Exactly! Been Happy is just what u need. Sometimes I use music to relax my nerves. No one can make me unhappy again unless I choose to be |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by naijaaone(m): 8:12pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
priscaoge:being happy is a delibrate choice. If u want to be happy start treating offences as none-essentials. Shalom 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by priscaoge(f): 8:17pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
naijaaone: Sure!!!!!!! |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by tpiander: 4:29am On Sep 16, 2015 |
personality/character. |
Re: Why Do People Hold On To Grudge(s)? by orisa37: 12:47pm On Sep 16, 2015 |
[quote] and extremely determined ....I'm Taurus too, May 8 and to follow up your dreams and ambitions... I am Taurus too and vengeance is The Lord... |
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