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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Mcocco: 10:50pm On Apr 05, 2017
Ok
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by AntiWailer: 10:50pm On Apr 05, 2017
Tell him to ring his call card.


If he does not have just walk away.
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by HRich(m): 10:52pm On Apr 05, 2017
ToriBlue:
Tell them I lost my phone.

Give them fake number.

Tell them I'm married.
Marry to that spiritual husband bah?

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by beautiful232(f): 10:55pm On Apr 05, 2017
tell them sorry,I can't

no be by force na, cause I can't give Any guy fake number
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by iykebest1(m): 10:57pm On Apr 05, 2017
vicfuntop:
Brownbarbie, tell him you are flattered that he is interested but you are not looking for a relationship or friendship at the moment, hence you are not able to share your number.

NB. Don't feel bad. I mean don't apologize. It's means that you feel sorry for him.
u go sabi something

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by pipilacious: 10:57pm On Apr 05, 2017
Give him a wrong number and tell him am not with my main line in case he try dialing it
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by reyscrub(m): 10:57pm On Apr 05, 2017
My lady you are mature enough to do the needsful as in give him your number with cheerful mind and get it sink into his skull that if you disturb me I will delete your history. Simple.

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by FitnessDoctor: 10:59pm On Apr 05, 2017
ToriBlue:
Tell them I lost my phone.

Give them fake number.

Tell them I'm married.

Been told about the lost my phone part some time ago.. But the deal is that the ladies always give me the number later...

What is up with you ladies?
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by goingape1: 10:59pm On Apr 05, 2017
Brownbarbie97:
Most of we ladies get approached by different calibers of men asking for our contacts ranging from the good, bad and ugly.

We definitely can't give out our digits to every tom, dick and harry that asks for it so my question is what is the best way of saying NO to some of these men that request for ur digits without being Rude, insulting or destroying their Ego?
block heads women angry


ya all are at the wrong place with the wrong guy asking for ya number and ya (block brain) is asking us on how to reject guys number ya meet at the wrong place undecided


useless women everywhere!

you will reject your destiny

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by permsec: 11:00pm On Apr 05, 2017
Make sure its nice and polite.
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Victornezzar: 11:00pm On Apr 05, 2017
Brownbarbie97:
you can have the gay ones to yourself.
But u fyn oo
send me a mail tongue
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by arleck(m): 11:01pm On Apr 05, 2017
calculator123:
What does the word PESTERING mean to you...I choose my words Mr
waheva!!! u do ur tinz ur way...
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by FitnessDoctor: 11:01pm On Apr 05, 2017
ToriBlue:
You tell them your phone is switched off.

Brownbarbie97

Just tell the guy to give you his number instead... That you could call him... Simple

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by banjeezay(m): 11:01pm On Apr 05, 2017
slimthugchimee2:
i give them my number, allov of them undecided
oya gimme naw grin
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by begwong: 11:02pm On Apr 05, 2017
They rather give you a wrong number than decline this days. If u even care to dial the number in dia very b4 they will tell you, no battery, it is charging at home.

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by nkemdi89(f): 11:02pm On Apr 05, 2017
Please I don't want to give you my number or better say " my husband is a military or police man" it works like magic.immediately the men will start apologising.

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 11:06pm On Apr 05, 2017
Brownbarbie97:
some men are very persistent,they will demand for the phone number only even to the extent that they will follow you to your destination if possible,it's very embarrassing and I try so much to avoid being rude or insultive

Follow u to your destination? ? Are you the one on #1000 note....guys dey fall my hands.

I ask for your digits... U dont give me. ..ill walk away and will never ask for it again. Too many fishes in the river. ...

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by arleck(m): 11:06pm On Apr 05, 2017
Na so em go dy do till wen dm go old... 4 dis era you dont wana gve guy ur num,, d gurl nxt door wud hurrydly do dat, i sorry 4 una...

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 11:07pm On Apr 05, 2017
nkemdi89:
Please I don't want to give you my number or better say " my husband is a military or police man" it works like magic.immediately the men will start apologising.
The chicken livered ...you mean ?
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by nextstep(m): 11:08pm On Apr 05, 2017
As a guy, I think women really should be blunt about it. F*ck the guy's ego. Of course the weak ones will resort to name calling, but just let that roll off your back. If all women stopped being nice about the put down, more guys will be forced to up their game. Now obviously, some guys are stupidly persistent, and can start being physical, so carry pepper spray grin )

At the same time I'd advice guys to raise their inner game (self-confidence, focus on self improvement, abundance mentality) and outer game (grooming, body language) so that rejection is not an issue. Guys claim to be all hard, but then get butt hurt when a woman says no. Take each rejection as an opportunity to learn, and no, you won't get every chick. Deal.

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by brostheo(m): 11:09pm On Apr 05, 2017
Brownbarbie97:
i think I like the second option,collect his number and delete it seconds after grin
Madam na your comment full everywhere, naso you fine reach abi you just like noise?

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by nkemdi89(f): 11:10pm On Apr 05, 2017
Freiden:

The chicken livered ...you mean ?
Maybe, but the bottom is that it works, imagine a meat seller in the market after cheating you he will want to have your number, the moment you use that line, omo he will shift.

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Afam4eva(m): 11:12pm On Apr 05, 2017
Benita27:
Simply say "Sorry, I don't give my number to strangers". If he insist, converse with him but still decline. There's no harm in saying "No" and standing on that, everyone mustn't be your friend, taking numbers from guys you don't like shows you're not stable.
If you're a Nigerian then you should know that you should never make a guy feel comfortable with you if you're not ready to give them what they're asking for else they'll bug you till you drop dead.

@OP
The best way is to decline giving a guy your contact is by respectfully saying know and if they stubbornly insist, you don't need to insult them, just tell the "I'm sorry" and walk away. There's no two way about it.

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 11:13pm On Apr 05, 2017
Brownbarbie97:
Lol,it's not about the money for me,A guy may drive a nice car and all but there may be Something off about him I don't like so I won't want to give him my contact.

Oniraw buruku

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by chronique(m): 11:13pm On Apr 05, 2017
Lol. As a guy, I rarely ask ladies for their numbers cos I don't dig that system of just walking up to a total stranger to start asking her out. For us to exchange numbers, we must have been discussing something meaningful and luckily for me, they usually request my number first. The periods I have asked for digits, I can't remember being denied. If I ask you for your number and you turn me down, I won't ask a second time and the next time I see you, I'd just mind my business like I ain't seeing you. Your declining my request sends a strong message and I wouldn't want to ridicule myself before anyone.

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by metroid(m): 11:14pm On Apr 05, 2017
To confirm if a girl is giving you her real number no need to flash her just recite the digits wrongly back to her if she corrects you gbam! grin grin Works for me all the time

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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by AjiChris(f): 11:17pm On Apr 05, 2017
Would rather say "i dnt give out my digit to strangers m sorry"
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Onnasucs1(m): 11:18pm On Apr 05, 2017
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Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 11:19pm On Apr 05, 2017
Make I commot for here before dem talk say I come do gbeborun/ woman wrapper for here
Re: Ladies, How Do You Decline Giving Guys Your Contact? by Nobody: 11:19pm On Apr 05, 2017
Make I commot for here before dem talk say I come do gbeborun/ woman wrapper for here.
When women are gathered to discuss,d number one on agenda na boys.
Make I geraout of here jare

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