TheLordIsGr8:

Oya give me your number... We get matter to discuss

NO

Fourwinds:
stop all these things jaree...u need a man and be humble....it doesn't take any thing from u rather makes u homely...I want to hear good news

Haha u will

bjhaid:
it doesn't sound weird trust me, every lady have their preference and like, but sometimes you don't know what the guy is up to, it's not everyone that collects number that'll call you trust me, I might collect your number and not call, if you give a guy your number and he starts disturbing or sending ridiculous messages, block him asap.

wait till you fall victim of a weird stalker/caller. My point is save yourself the stress, cut through the bullshi.t and don't give out your number if you don't want to. Finally we're in slight agreement; everyone is allowed to have preference.

kaffy4tope:







Perhaps you have been meeting kids. Real men don't fear Jack!

They do oh ..

ONCE YOU ASK ME I JUST OFFER TO HAVE YOUR NUMBER RATHER THAN GIVE OUT MY NUMBER
WITH THAT WE DO'NT PROLONG ISSUES

Sometimes I collect number, i dont call. So before you feel special in your high pants. Just know that you ain't da shlt..

arleck:
You wonder what see her dry a*s*s sef

poor you.. smh Mr fat ass...u try 0/100

muhakeem:
its not good to lie oh, why not just tell them 'i am not giving' finish.

They will still persist!

Ultimatesammie:

lol why wont you say that when you dont have any valuable point or intelligent contribution....
Abeg park well, no time for shenanigans

annyberry:
NO

You don start ooo. Shebi dem don teach you say make u no dey rude

Oya pm me make i no report to your daddy.

ToriBlue:
They will still persist!

Lol... Is it not in ur ability to persist too?

Edusouls:
woman wrapper,they ask women question,you answer..

OK I have seen you now move on..

RaeMystix:

Hummmm. Sure!. I'll give you either my home number or Dad's. My home phone is synced into my cell phone, and I can pick up calls for my home phone on my cell.

wait! after how nicely i asked, and after all the smile and my stares @ ur lip, then you'd luk me in the eye and do vhat?? Gosh!! dis creatures(girls) just unbelieveable.. i don't know

Benita27:
Simply say "Sorry, I don't give my number to strangers". If he insist, converse with him but still decline. There's no harm in saying "No" and standing on that, everyone mustn't be your friend, taking numbers from guys you don't like shows you're not stable.

Niiiice, but what if I end up asking for your number ma'am?? hope u won't blame me tho, u are just waay too cute ma

Idoko619:


Does the topic itself make any sense atall?

It does. This is a girl with a good heart and just wants to learn how to reject a man POLITELY.
And before you say she would start begging for the no someday, there are times you need to say No.

Bigsteveg:


Do u know her 'AjiChris' before? Seems there's something going on between you two.

I don't know er abeg,, who she EPP

Lordkylie:
harass you to drop your digits

There you go with that lie again. So someone cannot just ask for number without it being called harassment? Is that how u used to think?

vicfuntop:



It does. This is a girl with a good heart and just wants to learn how to reject a man POLITELY.
And before you say she would start begging for the no someday, there are sometimes you need to say No.
I dont

better shut up mumu

TheLordIsGr8:

Don't mind that my feeling jawe. Na so im dey run up an dan like say Usain Bolt dey pursue am.




I know your question is "how to say NO." A yuuuggge NO. I answered in my own way: say NO in style. Think smart and save your conscience mind the pain

From your comments that I've gathered that you seem like someone who cares a lot about people's feelings (not necessarily their perception of you though). Your conscience mind pricks you like a needle each time it thinks it has hurt a feeling.
In Morpheus' voice: welcome barbie, to the real world. feelings are fleeting. So take comfort that the feeling you hurt today will be healed in the next 5 minutes. And the person who asks for your number now may despise you tomorrow (never mind your fine face).

Its good to be caring. But to care about every little thing drains your energy that you won't have energy to care for things that matter.

No need for sorry. See that caring I talked about.

I guess by now you must have gotten millions of pm here on NL. Suggestion for your next topic: "How to say NO to pm on NL."
Short answer. Just call seun and ask him to shut down NL


[s]But I wonder why someone will be asking for number in this recession [/s]

Lmao,you have a very good sense of humour and ur quite intelligent too,I wonder how u were able to analyze me correctly just by reading a few comments.Thanks for the advice too,I should really learn to care less about pples feelings

Fourwinds:
dats where u are wrong...is it everything u see dat u like dat u can buy.?

dat different dude, if i like her i will just gve her a shot, try my luck on Er thatz it

Sorry to ask, but how old are you Cos this should not be any issue, Just tell the person "sorry i can't give you my number FULL STOP" OR
if you want to be politely blunt, u tell the person " Let me have your number instead, and i will reach you if there is a need to meet you again"

Y why will you let a man/boy freak you out cos of ur digits?? Look am 4 eye tell am say "Bros, i no go giv u my number, cos i no wan ur friendship .

Brownbarbie97:
Ive tried the fake number thing but most of them will call it to confirm in ur presence?what will u do in that situation?

GOD! why is this ? I can F*U*C*K Boiz Every Where on this Thread

SNOWCREAM:
like how God is talking to you when you read the Bible or Quran huh? So tell me, what does God sound like?

I dnt know if you are trying to be sarcastic or just looking for trouble but if you feel sound doesn't make sense in the sentence, open a thread on how to use the word. E-fight isn't my thing.

jclassiq:


does it really matter

What are you talking about

Brownbarbie97:
Ive tried the fake number thing but most of them will call it to confirm in ur presence?what will u do in that situation?

Wat if dat nigga is helper
Dat is how u will give another person ur blessing
I would strongly suggest u give them ur real num den hear wat d guy has to say if na rubbish, give d boy lessons his parent forgot to teach him he won't even call u again

Edusouls:
woman wrapper,they ask women question,you answer..

dude he's nt just a woman wrapper he's a f*uck boi @calculator123

arleck:

better shut up mumu

Not suprised at ur frustration

You can't get a girlfriend so you come to beg for one online.

Brownbarbie97:
you can have the gay ones to yourself.

WE CAN ALSO BE A VIRGIN LIKE U.. SO LEAVE US ALONE NOW ABEG..
BECAUSE AM PATIENTLY WAITING FOR MY WEDDING NIGHT

samhay:


Love dis

If ure a guy that loved it . Maturity

I bumped into a girl i was kinda asking out one time. So we started talking about how long it has been and all that shid. I could tell from her facial expression and replies that she wasn't feeling me.

I decided to halt the bull talk and asked for her number, she told me her phone was down and said i should give her mine [i was literally seeing her phone in her bag ]. I asked "isnt that ur phone?". She was surprised i could see her phone but still told me that thats the reason why she kept it inside her bag(smart girl but i could tell she was lying).

I just shook my head and asked if she was for serious. I told her who she's kidding and said never mind i know she won't call me. I just kept it casual and cool and bade her goodbye.

We've bumped into each other few times again, i just tell her 'hi' and go my way while my prestige still dey intact. I can swear she regrets her action but no qualms sha, i dey my corner dey wait am make she come use her hand gimme her number

#No time to iron ponmo

Brownbarbie97:
Lmao,you have a very good sense of humour and ur quite intelligent too,I wonder how u were able to analyze me correctly just by reading a few comments.Thanks for the advice too,I should really learn to care less about pples feelings

Nne never mind. E bu onye ebe?
Anam eche na iga abu onye Enugu mor Anambra.

Biko zie mu ozi. Enwere ihe m choro ka anyi kpa

Enye na nsogbu. Agaghi m aju number gi

calculator123:
Give them a nonexistent number or better still give them ur Friends(male esp) that way when they call and hear wrong number.you go rest

A guy meet this lady in a mall and ask her for her number but the lady gave him her friends number. The guy thinking that he got the right number thanked her. The guy walked out of the mall and entered his Range Rover Evogue and the girl saw him and started shouting.. Stop... stop.. I gave you the wrong number, but the guy drove off.. Girls be wise.