manmustwac:

Do u know how long i've known this girl for? And thinking about something dosen't necessarily mean that i'm going to do it. Besides i'm a british citizen born and bred ok.

  British citizen born Joker.

I doubt manmustwac is speaking of himself personally.

Its probably one of those threads where someone is testing the water for opinions by posting another person's story or situation

JeSoul i understand where u are coming from. Being a lady u people have phobia for matters of this nature but as a guy i will always tell u that getting Green Card is not Rocket Science.I have seen people with tales esp girls that they went for interview and the officer threatened to jail her if she dint tell her the truth that the marriage is fake and she started crying that the marriage is fake but a guy i know was threatened but he stood his ground.For over 4 hours he maintained that the marriage is genuine and his application was approved.It all depends on your guts and the guts of your spouse.
For the guy given 2 years to return hoe he shouldn't worry. Let him apply for stay of deportation order and with the little time he should look for another girl who has gut.He will get his papers only if he can take the risk.
No need to panic.
One love.

oyewolejos,
   Lol kai this my brother, you too expert for this thing self!    You're 100% right though that its usually the women that panic and confess, the few cases I know it was the woman who broke under pressure. Last I heard the guy I spoke of has already given up, this was his second marriage try, in addition to already trying to file as that alien refugee something. Add on that all the money already spent, he's says he's better off going back to ghana in peace lol.

Manmustwac,

Well what can i do then her student visa expires end of this month, she hasn't got enough money to pay her school fees and renew her visa. She can't go back to nija {empty handed} when she hasn't even finished her studies. To make matters worse students who are not doing degree courses can't work for more than 10 hours nowduring school term. She was kneeling down begging me to help her. Well thanks for your advice.

I dunno how feasible this is but can she go back to Naija before her visa expires, and then re-apply for a visa? would that work? Could you help her that way with funds instead?

Also are there company's that sponsor immigrants and get work visas for them in the UK as well? is there one she can try to get employment in for the mean time? or she has to finish school first?

frog kissers. . . SMH.

JeSoul:

oyewolejos,
   Lol kai this my brother, you too expert for this thing self!    You're 100% right though that its usually the women that panic and confess, the few cases I know it was the woman who broke under pressure. Last I heard the guy I spoke of has already given up, this was his second marriage try, in addition to already trying to file as that alien refugee something. Add on that all the money already spent, he's says he's better off going back to ghana in peace lol.

For where i dey expert?This are stories of people i know around me here.
The story of jobless guys marrying RN girls is for another day.
if i have money i would do a movie on people around me here,they are just too funny.
U will see 23 year old guy dating 35 year old lady because she's a nurse.
If your are not a nurse then just be a lesbian because they won't even call u for road.
Girls don suffer for Yankee cos no Husband

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symbian03:

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Oyewole how u dey na?
U no even ask afta ur guy again.
How is Cali treatin you?

SHALOM

@POSTER
Hmmm is she ready to give in all as in all herself during this period of "ARMY ARRANGEMENT"

Ashi robin:

@POSTER
Hmmm is she ready to give in all as in all herself during this period of "ARMY ARRANGEMENT"

She is ever ready

@poster
im always surprised when i see threads like this cos the world is looking at us nigerians as being fraudulent and we keep proving to them that we are.Posting this kind of thread on the internet,to me,is not going to help us rebuild the national image that we are trying to build so i think people should get wiser.the poster could have got help from talking to people not necessarily by putting our integrity as a nation in doubt considering that these authorities have access to all these things too.thank you

@ angella
every1 does arrangee marriage even australians and new zealands do arrangee marriage to remain in the uk
fair enough its bad but if it has to be done it has to be done
and besides what are the odds any authorities are actually looking
the wise enough people on here will have their identities hidden

angelllla:

@poster
im always surprised when i see threads like this cos the world is looking at us nigerians as being fraudulent and we keep proving to them that we are.Posting this kind of thread on the internet,to me,is not going to help us rebuild the national image that we are trying to build so i think people should get wiser.the poster could have got help from talking to people not necessarily by putting our integrity as a nation in doubt considering that these authorities have access to all these things too.thank you

don't we all get married for a purpose

@ funkybaby

are we still on kissing frogs?

jay bee:

@ funkybaby

are we still on kissing frogs?

jay bee:

@ funkybaby

are we still on kissing frogs?

justwise:

This is nt a good idea.sham marriage is a serious crime,if you are caught,you are on your own.
Gotta be careful

funkybaby:

PPle are becoming too interested in our frog kissing thing we shouldn't have made it public

justwise:

PPle are becoming too interested in our frog kissing thing we shouldn't have made it public

Spot on

funkybaby:


Spot on

Its all ur fault now some pple are sticking their tongues out looking 4 frog 2 kiss

justwise:

Its all your fault now some pple are sticking their tongues out looking 4 frog 2 kiss

Am sowwie sir. Lol.
Can't blame them for sticking their tongues sha. The frog can be their prince or princess.

funkybaby:

Am sowwie sir. Lol.
Can't blame them for sticking their tongues sha. The frog can be their prince or princess.

Hmmmm. . .u win

It's not hard to do your own research on this.

1) In the UK, you cannot file for divorce until you have been married for 12 months.

2) You could get married in the UK with a certificate of approval - or if you marry in a C of E church, you don't even need that. (so church weddings are very popular, lol).

3) It then takes 2 years to get the ILR.

4) AND - there are rules (of course) about what happens if this marriage breaks down. If this is during the 2 year wait, she will lose any right to be here and have to leave the country.

so, if you do this, you'll have to be married to her for 2 years for her to get ILR. After that you could get divorced. Which takes at leAST 4 MONTHS EVEN IF A QUICK AND EASY CASE.

So, you are looking at a marriage of around 2.5years at least.
All this information is on the Home Office website if you could have bothered to look.




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