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Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by GOFRONT(m): 11:25am On Jul 09, 2018
shocked

Abeg make una no use this topic burn my cable oo.....I don already start parole with Chidimma, a choir member at Lfc....
Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by Whysoserious: 11:26am On Jul 09, 2018
AreaFada2:


Who says?

But in Christianity you have freedom to obey the Bible's teaching or not able. God gives us free will.

Just because Christians do not behead or cut off limbs or give lashes of cane doesn't mean the religion allows those sins.

The basis is that everyone will face judgement of final day. We will then have to give account individually. Until the you are to obey the Bible for your own salvation. QED.

Not to start comparative talks but for Islam, punishment for adultery is stoning to death, while for fornication is 100 lashes first then stoning to death. Sunni practice and ideally this is for atonement. Lev 20:10 and Deu 22:22 also clearly states that the punishment for fornication and adultery is death as well. This isn't happening in churches alone. Just yesterday, my cousin brought an "hajia" completely covered to my house and you know the rest. I was shocked... I mean, I dey fear when me sef go marry now. Wetin remain? Already I feel cheated LOL because the women one actually has hopes on are actually just pretenders. May God have mercy on us all. Anyways, back to the topic is that, Christianity has gone soft with the upholding of those laws while the Sharia hasn't.... At least, not if you are caught. We can't say fornication is not a sin in Christianity, it's just the practice of upholding the punishments has been neglected and that's why it looks more obvious in Christianity. But this is something to look into because it will destroy our society. The amount of kids being brought out of wedlock is massive. It's like girls want to be addressed as baby mamas these days... Lord save our soul.

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Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by Whysoserious: 11:43am On Jul 09, 2018
8744Kin:


If they mock your imams the way you mock Pastors, you will have started your jihad.

#mindyourbusiness

Bro calm down. Look I'm a Muslim too and we also have our problems. Big problems to be honest but the reason it's less obvious is Sharia. All those natural attractions you guys speak of is what Islam tries to curb by making the women cover up alot of their bodies. God knows our nature is easily attracted to the opposite sex but then it has to begin from what one sees. It would be less disturbing if we don't see things that arouse us. And I am not saying that makes us holy or follow the laws lol. There are many amongst us worse than anything you can imagine so don't bother if one Muslim is trying to make us appear like angels lol. No matter how much we try to rep our faith, the truth must be said. And the truth is, the devil is using this sex of a thing to destroy us. Being someone who tries to be very religious, and seeing what's happening around... I am losing faith so much in women and marriage. I mean, it's hard to see people (ladies especially) who are trying to be pious and who aren't trying to emulate the Vogue in the world now. Everyone wants to live life the way the west does. Before, you're castigated if you aren't a virgin before marriage.... Now, if you are a virgin, they look at us like pest lol. And this is exactly what the scriptures preach. How things change. May God forgive us all is the prayer. We need grace to withstand temptation... But Islam still has tried to curb the events leading to these things. The rest would be human desire and there will be a day of retribution when the sun will be lowered to our heads and our brains would almost fry. Judgement day will not go unfulfilled. Let's all have that at the back of our minds.

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Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by 8744Kin(m): 12:16pm On Jul 09, 2018
madridguy:
You're free do so.


No, I will not. That is the difference between you and I.

#ImindMyBusiness.
Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 12:16pm On Jul 09, 2018
The 13 year old you see around are just mothers with aborted kids
Even the street is going H2H with Univ
Virgin girls now be like eclipse

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Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by 8744Kin(m): 12:23pm On Jul 09, 2018
Whysoserious:


Bro calm down. Look I'm a Muslim too and we also have our problems. Big problems to be honest but the reason it's less obvious is Sharia. All those natural attractions you guys speak of is what Islam tries to curb by making the women cover up alot of their bodies. God knows our nature is easily attracted to the opposite sex but then it has to begin from what one sees. It would be less disturbing if we don't see things that arouse us. And I am not saying that makes us holy or follow the laws lol. There are many amongst us worse than anything you can imagine so don't bother if one Muslim is trying to make us appear like angels lol. No matter how much we try to rep our faith, the truth must be said. And the truth is, the devil is using this sex of a thing to destroy us. Being someone who tries to be very religious, and seeing what's happening around... I am losing faith so much in women and marriage. I mean, it's hard to see people (ladies especially) who are trying to be pious and who aren't trying to emulate the Vogue in the world now. Everyone wants to live life the way the west does. Before, you're castigated if you aren't a virgin before marriage.... Now, if you are a virgin, they look at us like pest lol. And this is exactly what the scriptures preach. How things change. May God forgive us all is the prayer. We need grace to withstand temptation... But Islam still has tried to curb the events leading to these things. The rest would be human desire and there will be a day of retribution when the sun will be lowered to our heads and our brains would almost fry. Judgement day will not go unfulfilled. Let's all have that at the back of our minds.

bro! I understand point, having many Muslim friends made me to realise that it's people not religion that have problem.

I don't have many disagreement from your submission.

Shalom!

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Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by Gracespecial101(m): 12:34pm On Jul 09, 2018
NOETHNICITY:
Why will fornication not be common when nothing is forbidden in christiandom?

Commit any sin, pay ur tithe and ur sins are forgiven.


The religion is just a deceit.

Paying your tithe does not guarantee you a passage to heaven. Heaven is not for tithers if you pay your tithe but live in sin you are on your own.........
Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by Phyde: 12:40pm On Jul 09, 2018
Whysoserious:


Bro calm down. Look I'm a Muslim too and we also have our problems. Big problems to be honest but the reason it's less obvious is Sharia. All those natural attractions you guys speak of is what Islam tries to curb by making the women cover up alot of their bodies. God knows our nature is easily attracted to the opposite sex but then it has to begin from what one sees. It would be less disturbing if we don't see things that arouse us. And I am not saying that makes us holy or follow the laws lol. There are many amongst us worse than anything you can imagine so don't bother if one Muslim is trying to make us appear like angels lol. No matter how much we try to rep our faith, the truth must be said. And the truth is, the devil is using this sex of a thing to destroy us. Being someone who tries to be very religious, and seeing what's happening around... I am losing faith so much in women and marriage. I mean, it's hard to see people (ladies especially) who are trying to be pious and who aren't trying to emulate the Vogue in the world now. Everyone wants to live life the way the west does. Before, you're castigated if you aren't a virgin before marriage.... Now, if you are a virgin, they look at us like pest lol. And this is exactly what the scriptures preach. How things change. May God forgive us all is the prayer. We need grace to withstand temptation... But Islam still has tried to curb the events leading to these things. The rest would be human desire and there will be a day of retribution when the sun will be lowered to our heads and our brains would almost fry. Judgement day will not go unfulfilled. Let's all have that at the back of our minds.
You just made me to start falling in love with Islam for typing the truth. God bless you sir.

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Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by Whysoserious: 12:53pm On Jul 09, 2018
Phyde:

You just made me to start falling in love with Islam for typing the truth. God bless you sir.

Haha. I am a slave to the truth sir. Truth is, we aren't different that much. Just some confusing things have happened which has caused a breach between the two faiths. Ideally we are all living according to the 10 commandments. We love and respect Jesus as well as his mother. Extremism is just what pushes outsiders away from looking deeper into Islam. Considering another faith isn't necessarily because one is looking to convert... I read a lot of other scriptures. Majoring the Bible. The others includes litle knowledge of Buddhism Hinduism, zoroasterianism... To name a few. After all, there is as much sense in Hafiz as is in Horace, and as much sense in the world.


And oh... BTW... I really love the preaching on the mountain... The 8 beatitudes to be precise. I do love Jesus.

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Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by Gracespecial101(m): 1:05pm On Jul 09, 2018
Whysoserious:


Haha. I am a slave to the truth sir. Truth is, we aren't different that much. Just some confusing things have happened which has caused a breach between the two faiths. Ideally we are all living according to the 10 commandments. We love and respect Jesus as well as his mother. Extremism is just what pushes outsiders away from looking deeper into Islam. Considering another faith isn't necessarily because one is looking to convert... I read a lot of other scriptures. Majoring the Bible. The others includes litle knowledge of Buddhism Hinduism, zoroasterianism... To name a few. After all, there is as much sense in Hafiz as is in Horace, and as much sense in the world.


And oh... BTW... I really love the preaching on the mountain... The 8 beatitudes to be precise. I do love Jesus.
Thumps up bro, you the MAN
Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by Honesty007(m): 1:22pm On Jul 09, 2018
You are taking over the devil post and ministry without deliverance,being called or proper counselling and you think satan would not attack you?
even those who are truly called suffer terribly and and it takes a whole lot of the grace of God and the baptism of the Holyghost and fire to survive than some one who a pastor just say the should volunteer to join choir.
anyone can sing ,but if they dont have the spirit of God,which spirit would be in them? is that not a good stronghold for satans work?
Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by olatunjithomas(m): 1:31pm On Jul 09, 2018
pocohantas:
Because the choir group is made up of you and I.
Same everyday people that believe 'fornication' is lesser sin.
Same yoots that think sex must be present in every relationship.

That they are choir members doesn't make them above sin.
After all, na the same bible all of una dey read. The commandment[s] applies to every believer, choir member or not.


This is just the answer we're looking for...we can now close this thread.
Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by meobizy(f): 1:35pm On Jul 09, 2018
Something tells me she started the discussion then answered it using her different alternate accounts. The same happens everyday on this forum.
Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by call4shola(m): 1:36pm On Jul 09, 2018
A lady choir in my church got pregnant , she could not determine the father cos she slept with like 5 guys same period in the choir, no be today, God will forgive every one.
Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 1:37pm On Jul 09, 2018
Alright, Those Guilty As Charged Say Aye Against Say Na. The Aye Have It
As A Choirester, I Can Agree To That. We Have So Many Flirts As Choirester, For That Reason They Will Always Misbehave
Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 1:53pm On Jul 09, 2018
AreaFada2:


Who says?

But in Christianity you have freedom to obey the Bible's teaching or not able. God gives us free will.

Just because Christians do not behead or cut off limbs or give lashes of cane doesn't mean the religion allows those sins.

The basis is that everyone will face judgement of final day. We will then have to give account individually. Until the you are to obey the Bible for your own salvation. QED.

Young people sleeping with each other in the bible isn't a sin. Goan read ur bible.
Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 1:55pm On Jul 09, 2018
matex97:
Stop saying trash. Christianity detests any form of sin so stop saying what you don't know. Go and deal with issue of "taqqiya (holy lying)" in your religion first

Oga what is taqqiya


I repeat again, unmarried people can freely have sex in the bible n its not a sin.
Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by wealthpos(f): 2:11pm On Jul 09, 2018
Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by JuanDeDios: 2:23pm On Jul 09, 2018
NOETHNICITY:
Why will fornication not be common when nothing is forbidden in christiandom?

Commit any sin, pay ur tithe and ur sins are forgiven.


The religion is just a deceit.
Pray, tell. Which religion do you consider not to be a deceit?
Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by thambolo(m): 2:35pm On Jul 09, 2018
pocohantas:
Because the choir group is made up of you and I.
Same everyday people that believe 'fornication' is lesser sin.
Same yoots that think sex must be present in every relationship.

That they are choir members doesn't make them above sin.
After all, na the same bible all of una dey read. The commandment[s] applies to every believer, choir member or not.

It is the best group in the church, yet the most dangerous... Remember: it was the headquarters of Lucifer himself.
Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by writeprof(m): 2:46pm On Jul 09, 2018
kennygee:
The devil's number one ministry is Music, you think he won't be a specialist in leading musicians to hell?

Dude planned a coup in heaven and was cast out with a huge number of angels, if he had that kind of influence then, you think he doesn't now?

Gbam! While many of them are so ignorant of this fact because many of them are there to show off instead of spirituality.
Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by Sunmolar(m): 2:47pm On Jul 09, 2018
NOETHNICITY:
Why will fornication not be common when nothing is forbidden in christiandom?

Commit any sin, pay ur tithe and ur sins are forgiven.


The religion is just a deceit.
who is talking about religion here. And if true as you said, which one is the religion of truth?
And who tells you religion will make you not to fornicate?
'ungodly people uses religion as tool to achieved their goal'. But godly character will help you to make a difference.
Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by sprints1: 3:25pm On Jul 09, 2018
Tonimatics:

There is nothing wrong with her thought pattern. Temperament influences most things we do including sex. Sanguine, choleric, melancholy and phlegmatic all have different disposition towards sex.
it does very true but that doesn't really explain fornication... an emotionally dealt with person(heart breaks and cheating) can power drive the affinity to fornicate... thereby affecting the total behavior of the person which u feel maybe due to his or her temperament just like we have introverted sanguine we also have the extroverted melancholy....fornication is caused by lack of self control and the urge to have sex(nymphomania)
Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 4:45pm On Jul 09, 2018
pocohantas:
Because the choir group is made up of you and I.
Same everyday people that believe 'fornication' is lesser sin.
Same yoots that think sex must be present in every relationship.

That they are choir members doesn't make them above sin.
After all, na the same bible all of una dey read. The commandment[s] applies to every believer, choir member or not.

Are you a choir mistress? Jusk asking oo.
Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by johnfa466(m): 6:48pm On Jul 09, 2018
THE ONLY THING THAT SWEET ME PASS IS THE WAY THEY CALL U IN CHURCH AND IN HOT DOGGY POSITION,
HMMM, BROTHER JOHNUUUUUUUUUUUUU PLSSSSSSS TAKE IT SLOWWWW
ND THEY START MIMICKIKING LIKE THEY ARE IN HEAVEN
MY FRIENDS CHOIR SWEET PASS ABYTHING OH
AM A LIVING PROFF
Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by Younghacka(m): 10:41am On Jul 13, 2018
sassysure:
Cos majority of them are sanguine and sanguine are flirts naturally. It's no surprise.
Apart From *''Why You Act The Way You Do-By Tim La Haye''* Which Other Interesting Book On Temperament Do U Know
Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by inkaboutit4u(m): 12:45am On Nov 20, 2018
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Single sex is NOT fornication.

Fornication is the joining in with the pagan worship of a pagan fertility god. per 1 Cor 10:8 compare to Nu 25: 1-9 and Nu 31

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Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by Wantedola(m): 1:28am On Feb 06, 2020
Been asking myself same question. But it doesn't happen in my new church, or at least not yet as all the women dun marry and the singles guys be young chaps. Plus them Sabi see vision, public vision for that matter wey dey leak secrets.
Re: "Why Is Fornication Common Amongst Choir Members?" - Nigerian Lady by Quality20(m): 11:51am On May 29, 2021
Speakdatruth:

Mumu! I was in Sokoto for official duties, I saw guys handling and sucking girls under hijab at night. They just lean on the wall like nothing is happening.
abeg let's b truthful for once

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