When I first started reading ur post I was expecting to hear the good part of it at the end put u messed things up by saying the woman in question should threatened her family in order to get quick marriage. But is that the way? What if something went wrong and the husband ask her to live or insult her base on what happened during the process of the wedding? God favored u but it seems like u want to abuse the favor by giving bad advice to people. Be careful my dear brother. A word is enough for the wise.

Mypeople2:
Bros, what you said now is what Bro Andrew said years ago .Now he is 45 years old and still not married

And so.....

Symphony1:


"Sometimes I think it is never gonna happen"

My brother you are not in this alone...

Bro this is a serious issue oooo

mrvitalis:

Knack her belle
Or she feels u are not financially ready yet

Can't do that oooo

bonnyhope:


Don't let your age push you into marriage o

Life begins @ 40

you're wicked oooooo

Your dey dear

The way Yoruba men are rushing Igbo girls eeh, na waoh. They have confirmed that IGBO AMAKA.

OP God bless you! I always say this, I don't have time to please anybody. I do my things the way I want it that's why they say am very stubborn and I don't care. Even if I have the whole money in the world I won't make my marriage a noisy one....Just family members and few useful friends marriage don set be dat

eni4real:
Let me rephrase it: "If you are not called a stingy man in Nigeria that means you are a mumu man.."

Hope you understand my comment now??

Yes sir. I'm sorry please

Godsonjolly:


Lol. Actually, my dad didn't really ask the kinsmen for contributions or something. He did it on his own. Cos if he should follow the tradition, it will be so disastrous and awful cos most of his brother's and sis are all idol worshippers. And u know how those idolatry people works. Instead of kolanut, we used apple. So it was just simple and befitting. Just hope mine is like that and the Father in law be sensible and reasonable

Well in my community, u cant give your daughter out without your kinsmen

north and west dont stress much on bride price, it mostly east that does that, for them everthing is all about money.

vickydankal:
Mmmm that's good news for you, but someone will ask what happens after the wedding?

The upkeep, pregnancy and children school fees

dont mind him and the way he was even saying it like he is buying the girl from a market sef

That's good news for you guys. Am happy atleast some parent still care to listen to their daughters plea. Some ladies are worth every penny tho irrespective of tribe. #GOODLUCK

Marvis4real:
dont mind him and the way he was even saying it like he is buying the girl from a market sef

Babe I know your type. Na your group de sabi stress men because you don't have anything which you're bringing to the table. Your beauty without intelligence means absolutely nothing to men who desire value in a woman. My woman is valuable and that's enough for me. No be you I de marry so I no know why e de pepper you for body. Girls with this mindset first check your pocket before giving you a response. If truly you have something to offer you'd be happy having a partner with whom you can work things out with. Beauty will fade but value can never. Cheers!

Lovelife433:
we human are our problem not ur village ppl. We just want to please ppl instead of GOD. GOD Will Bless ur Home.

That is Africans mentality.. They like to put burden on people...

Goodbloke:
I personally wouldn't get married until I have an account balance of nothing less than 3 million after all the marriage rites has been performed,renting and decoration of house etc.

Marriage is not child's play abeg, congrats OP

And if the 3million does not come by

Godislove1234:

Babe I know your type. Na your group de sabi stress men because you don't have anything which you're bringing to the table. Your beauty without intelligence means absolutely nothing to men who desire value in a woman. My woman is valuable and that's enough for me. No be you I de marry so I no know why e de pepper you for body. Girls with this mindset first check your pocket before giving you a response. If truly you have something to offer you'd be happy having a partner with whom you can work things out with. Beauty will fade but value can never. Cheers!

i dont have a problem with your proposed marriage but can you rephrased some of your words , so that it wouldnt look like you are buying her

Godislove1234:

Babe I know your type. Na your group de sabi stress men because you don't have anything which you're bringing to the table. Your beauty without intelligence means absolutely nothing to men who desire value in a woman. My woman is valuable and that's enough for me. No be you I de marry so I no know why e de pepper you for body. Girls with this mindset first check your pocket before giving you a response. If truly you have something to offer you'd be happy having a partner with whom you can work things out with. Beauty will fade but value can never. Cheers!

i dont have a problem with your proposed marriage but can you rephrased some of your words , so that it wouldnt look like you are buying her?

Godislove1234:

My brother just wish me well. Everyone can't have the same experience.

He's not wishing you bad, it's just reality.
She's probably going to get pregnant almost immediately.
I hope you're prepared for family care because it's no child's play.

Godislove1234:
I am quite a young man in my late 20's. There's this lady whom I love so much. She's from one of these eastern states in Nigeria. She's very beautiful, very godly and still a virgin. We've been together for about two years now but no money for marriage. The reason is because it is quite expensive to get married in their state.

I told her to inquire from her parents how much I may need for the marital rites she called me back and said about 500k (na just to manage be that o). So I said ok. 500k is actually a small amount but when you try to get it and you cannot, then it will suddenly become like 500 million to you. So I started putting in more efforts to raise the money but na lie the money no wan show.

Guess what I did today? I called her up and after talking about other issues I finally told her that I can't keep waiting to raise that amount of money. I have been depressed about it for some time now but I couldn't tell her because I didn't want her to get bothered. So I told her to go tell her parents that what I can raise by God's grace is 200k. If they approve, I'll come but if not make she go look for another man marry. Before now she has been asking me to come with anything I have but I kept saying no and the reason is that you can't just show up at someone's house and tell them that you've come to pick up their daughter with the little amount you have. So guess what? Just like magic they agreed to what I said (even though I wasn't expecting it to go that way). She sent me the text confirming her parent's approval. For me its a big miracle. If I should tell you the state in question you won't believe it.

So here's my advise to you all who want to get married to the love of your life but no money... Make you and the Babe get strong head work together or else her village people go dey delay una marriage because they want something elaborate. It's good to be stubborn I tell people. Both of you should come up with a plan (not to get her pregnant o. I don't support that please). But the plan will be carried out by your woman. She should stubbornly insist incase the parents are the difficult type, that this is the man she wishes to marry and if they don't let her she will remain single for ever (parents especially mothers dey fear that kind talk) if it doesn't work think of something else.

Just keep trying or else two of una go dey there old. But above all please put God first. He can make even the most hardened of men become soft for your sake. He may not send you all the money you need to fulfil what's in the list but He can make her parents accept you the way you are. It is called favour. What you need is the approval and blessings from both parents nothing more.

Forget village people. They too like eating and drinking. Remember that if you spend all the money in your account just to get married you and your wife will starve after the wedding. And to those who are insisting on white wedding please stop being foolish. White wedding is just a mere celebration just to fulfil all righteousness. If you have the money for it, fine. If not, no kill yourself. Don't keep your woman or man waiting.

Take a bold step today and God will meet you guys halfway. But whatever you do PLEASE don't marry a lazy woman. With this is mind, its just a matter of time you guys will succeed. Two good head are better than one. All the best guys. One love.

Nice!

tonero230:


And if the 3million does not come by

that's why I must hustle now that am young , and it will by God's grace

Godislove1234:

My brother just wish me well. Everyone can't have the same experience.

Is like you like this girl well well o?

Gabson001:
why do I feel her parents just want her out of the house

they should keep her the house and get married to her... nnnhmmm!!!

Thiwalade:
That's very good! Many times when I think of marrying this my igbo babe(I'm yoruba) I sometimes wonder how much it'll cost me. This lady definitely worth every penny honestly but the way Nigeria is now doesn't give room for too much spending especially for upcoming men.

don't worry man God knows your desire, and he shall fulfill it for u just keep on trying, one day e go pick your call no give up Amaka na your wife already.no forget to invite me I go dance kill myself that day

[quote author=bukkielee post=85003809]Your own even better na. Shebi you don wan marry.
My own 24 year old babe says she's not ready for marriage. Me at 30 is confused now. I don't even have the luxury of time to find a new relationship. I just tire for this marriage matter make I no lie you. Sometimes I think it is never gonna happen.[/quote
Bros don't give up, my 25 year old babe did same to in 2016 just when I'm about to propose to her. Just keep ur cool and do what u have to do in life and every thing ll fall in place.

sanemind2:
Looks like money is really delaying most of the young guys, we gats hustle

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How much bro, I dey Abuja

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The day you plan to marry,you are planning to become a responsible man.and your person will gradually change to conform with her character.where the bigger trouble start is when but party are unwilling to shift ground either for pride or right. I Tell you as a marriage counselor.

Slynation:

Ibo is the correct way of spelling Igbo....
They don't join two consonant alphabets together in Ibo, unless it's a consonant vowel sounds....
You may not understand this tho....

U r wallowing in ignorance....
U r talking to someone that made A1 both in Igbo and English languages...
U certainly don't know ur language and it's a shame on u...

Nice one bro... God bless ur marriage. Some people put wedding first instead of marriage. Focus on the marriage not the wedding.
Meanwhile, the name of the State no go pass IMO state....

Slynation:

Ibo is the correct way of spelling Igbo....
They don't join two consonant alphabets together in Ibo, unless it's a consonant vowel sounds....
You may not understand this tho....

I cannot not respond to this...
Jeez... What sorta crap is this

Ojukwubucket:
U r wallowing in ignorance.... U r talking to someone that made A1 both in Igbo and English languages... U certainly don't know ur language and it's a shame on u...

Okay.....