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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Nuel28: 8:58am On Jan 22, 2020
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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by mkoabiola: 9:01am On Jan 22, 2020
Presently in this mess.


Not a palatable one to experience
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Npraise(m): 9:05am On Jan 22, 2020
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N2B2:
No.

But, they should be forced to pay child support. No one asks if the lady wants to marry the guy? Guys forced to marry ladies they impregnate often take their anger out on their wives.

Forced Marriage should be a No. If you give her bele, then you pay Child Support till that kid turns 18. If you no get money for child support, then you gast go find work.

Do it this way and there'll be lesser unwanted pregnancies.

Exactly
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by ScotMisile: 9:06am On Jan 22, 2020
OH YE ADVOCATORS OF FORCED MARRIAGES READ THIS AND HAVE SENSE.

Man who allegedly pushed down his girlfriend from the 5th floor of their Onitsha apartment was allegedly forced to marry her

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More information about the Anambra-based man who was accused of pushing down his girlfriend from the 5th floor of their apartment in Onitsha has emerged, days after LIB shared the report.

The suspect was reportedly forced to marry the deceased after he impregnated her while working as his salesgirl.

The man who allegedly called his "in-laws" to inform them that his pregnant girlfriend was missing, was allegedly busted and found smoking cigarettes after a neighbour saw the lady fall from their apartment into another compound during a quarrel.

Faacebook user, Chinaza Joseph wrote;

This is what happened...
The man is from nsukka but lives in Onitsha, he impregnated his sales girl from abia state...the family of the girl forced him to marry her.
So on Wednesday night,after she finished cooking she went down stairs to call him to come eat.
He went up and they started having misunderstanding... The girl is 8mnths pregnant.
He beat her to death and to avoid traces,he threw her body from the 5th floor to another building close to them.
He called his in-laws and told them the girl is missing to cover up.
But he never knew some neighbours overheard them while quarrelling and someone saw when the girl fell .
So they raised alarm....they went upstairs and saw him smoking cigarette.
They have to call the police.
He killed an innocent pregnant wife and threw her down...God go punish him.

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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by purples25(f): 9:11am On Jan 22, 2020
The man that killed his wife is also in a mess for life now, so yes, he did not escape. You must enter that marriage, if you kill her, you will still be in a mess for life, just as you left that woman with a stain for life.

Same way she is suffering for life is the same way the guy must be tied down for life too. Nonsense, are you boys babies? You want to go scot free grin cheesy grin grin grin cheesy
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by ScotMisile: 9:16am On Jan 22, 2020
mkoabiola:
Presently in this mess.


Not a palatable one to experience

My bruv, no be small thing... God help us all
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by ScotMisile: 9:18am On Jan 22, 2020
purples25:
The man that killed his wife is also in a mess for life now, so yes, he did not escape. You must enter that marriage, if you kill her, you will still be in a mess for life, just as you left that woman with a stain for life.

Same way she is suffering for life is the same way the guy must be tied down for life too. Nonsense, are you boys babies? You want to go scot free grin cheesy grin grin grin cheesy

Then she should learn to say No... because if she die she's gone and fine forever
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Nobody: 9:20am On Jan 22, 2020
Emma1Oj:
If the shop remain closed for too long, the goods inside meant for human satisfaction will get spoil o..
that's a lie from the pit of hell.

Better pay your rent so that you can open shop.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Emma1Oj(m): 9:27am On Jan 22, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
that's a lie from the pit of hell.

Better pay your rent so that you can open shop.
Lol.. you jus give me gbas gbos early this morning..

You asked ladies to close their laps/shop and I said shop wey closed too long the goods wey dey inside go spoil.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by foolbuster: 9:30am On Jan 22, 2020
purples25:
The man that killed his wife is also in a mess for life now, so yes, he did not escape. You must enter that marriage, if you kill her, you will still be in a mess for life, just as you left that woman with a stain for life.

Same way she is suffering for life is the same way the guy must be tied down for life too. Nonsense, are you boys babies? You want to go scot free grin cheesy grin grin grin cheesy

Is it fair that the woman willingly opened her legs for the guy, enjoyed the sex and allowed her self to be pregnant and then force the guy to marry her?

In this era of "feminism" and the internet any woman that allows herself to be impregnated by a man and then turn around to force the guy into marriage is selfish and wicked.

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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Nobody: 9:37am On Jan 22, 2020
Emma1Oj:
Lol.. you jus give me gbas gbos early this morning..

You asked ladies to close their laps/shop and I said shop wey closed too long the goods wey dey inside go spoil.

Then pay your dues, so that shop will open
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by purples25(f): 9:42am On Jan 22, 2020
foolbuster:


Is it fair that the woman willingly opened her legs for the guy, enjoyed the sex and allowed her self to be pregnant and then force the guy to marry her?

In this era of "feminism" and the internet any woman that allows herself to be impregnated by a man and then turn around to force the guy into marriage is selfish and wicked.

This topic pain una no be small ....
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by foolbuster: 9:47am On Jan 22, 2020
purples25:


This topic pain una no be small ....

Empty response. You simply cant think of any justification. You are a woman does not mean you should be supporting nonsense.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by purples25(f): 10:00am On Jan 22, 2020
foolbuster:


Empty response. You simply cant think of any justification. You are a woman does not mean you should be supporting nonsense.

Not all silence translates to defeat. I've stated my opinion and you have stated yours, the fact that i later kept quiet does not mean I have no more. Going on and on over a matter which cannot change by argument would be pointless.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by foolbuster: 10:13am On Jan 22, 2020
purples25:


Not all silence translates to defeat. I've stated my opinion and you have stated yours, the fact that i later kept quiet does not mean I have no more. Going on and on over a matter which cannot change by argument would be pointless.

Forcing someone that has not comitted any crime whether male or female to be with whom they dont want to be with can never be right. You are wrong on this one sweetheart.

A womans body belongs to her, she has the responsibility to take care of herself and not forcefully drag another human being into a life they dont want because of her lapses.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by vincentjk(m): 10:17am On Jan 22, 2020
lovchalice:
if you told the lady come let's play away match and she accepts that's fine.
But if you started by saying I want to marry you and then she gets pregnant and you run away. God will surely judge you

In most cases nothing like "come I want to marry you"

They're just two people who are deceiving themselves on loving one another just to have sex and get intimate. They both enjoyed the sex so why forcing the pregnancy of the dude when it wasn't rape??
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by ScotMisile: 10:27am On Jan 22, 2020
Some people on this forum have forgotten how to get married in Nigeria.. .
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by wirinet(m): 10:42am On Jan 22, 2020
purples25:
The man that killed his wife is also in a mess for life now, so yes, he did not escape. You must enter that marriage, if you kill her, you will still be in a mess for life, just as you left that woman with a stain for life.

Same way she is suffering for life is the same way the guy must be tied down for life too. Nonsense, are you boys babies? You want to go scot free grin cheesy grin grin grin cheesy
I am appalled that you happiness in the whole story is that the man is receiving punishment for having pre marital sèx for killing his forced wife and the baby.

You religious fundamentalists are just after punishments. You want to punish the woman with forced pregnancy and delivery to punish the woman for having pre marital sèx, you want to punish the man with forced marriage as a punishment for having pre marital sex, you want to punish the child with abandonment because the parents commited sin of pre marital sèx.
Maybe you guys should liase with your Muslim counterparts and impose sharia, so you can stone to death sinners of pre marital sèx ( including the baby.

Unplanned pregnancy should be the business of the couple's involved and their families, and not the business of some religious fundamentalists.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by wirinet(m): 10:43am On Jan 22, 2020
vincentjk:


In most cases nothing like "come I want to marry you"

They're just two people who are deceiving themselves on loving one another just to have sex and get intimate. They both enjoyed the sex so why forcing the pregnancy of the dude when it wasn't rape??
These are religious fundamentalists who want to impose mosaic and Sharia laws on the country.

The only problem is that these moral laws are hypocritical. The states that practice sharia has the highest number of unwanted and uncared for children roaming the streets.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by mkoabiola: 11:17am On Jan 22, 2020
ScotMisile:


My bruv, no be small thing... God help us all
Are u in similar situation?
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by OlaJewel(f): 11:19am On Jan 22, 2020
The answer is NO,, a forced marriage will bring nothing to the couple but frustration... It is ladies who need to use their senses, get it right before you open those thighs
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Adabekee04(f): 11:36am On Jan 22, 2020
And freedom to marry her, if she gets pregnant for you. If you don't want to marry her, why sleeping with her? I am yet to understand this.
SMH
QueenSuccubus:
Me: NO.

We should have the freedom to choose who we want to marry sha..
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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by ScotMisile: 11:55am On Jan 22, 2020
mkoabiola:

Are u in similar situation?
What to do bruv? funny enough I don't really love her, but she set it all up despite all I told her about my relationship with my love... Now, I just pity the child because I won't commit abortion, never... That I ddn't commit abortion doesn't mean I must marry who set me up... For the child I have taken responsibility... Am employing a baby sitter soon.... Seen a very good school for him in lekki.... What to do bruv a man is got to be a man... But, I don't joke with my marriage... Never
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by purples25(f): 12:06pm On Jan 22, 2020
wirinet:

I am appalled that you happiness in the whole story is that the man is receiving punishment for having pre marital sèx for killing his forced wife and the baby.

You religious fundamentalists are just after punishments. You want to punish the woman with forced pregnancy and delivery to punish the woman for having pre marital sèx, you want to punish the man with forced marriage as a punishment for having pre marital sex, you want to punish the child with abandonment because the parents commited sin of pre marital sèx.
Maybe you guys should liase with your Muslim counterparts and impose sharia, so you can stone to death sinners of pre marital sèx ( including the baby.

Unplanned pregnancy should be the business of the couple's involved and their families, and not the business of some religious fundamentalists.

Lol i am a Muslim that is not very religious at all. Funny enough i am starting to like religion. You know why? Those old testament times, you could not use a woman and throw it in her face like the way especially black men are doing now. It is actually the women that are suffering in this new age. Who presses for the sex? Mostly the man. They decieve and insist and demand to no end, you are only denying the truth if you oppose to that. All i think is that the woman should not suffer alone. If she has to suffer a stigma for the rest of her life, society must join that man in too.

You know what freedom has done to men? They impregnate a girl and go laughing all round town and posting on social media. Do you know that men BRAG about it. They CELEBRATE it. All the boldness coming from where? A man will sleep with a woman in the same room with his own manhood and in that same room he will give her an ugly look and judgement as thought he is not the one that just slept with her.

That cage society put women in, you see that cage, i wish men will be inside it too.

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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by purples25(f): 12:26pm On Jan 22, 2020
foolbuster:


Forcing someone that has not comitted any crime whether male or female to be with whom they dont want to be with can never be right. You are wrong on this one sweetheart.

A womans body belongs to her, she has the responsibility to take care of herself and not forcefully drag another human being into a life they dont want because of her lapses.

I have my opinion but all in all, i cannot force anyone. Yeah women are responsible for their actions, i just wish the man had to feel the same too but i won't ignore your point, since it makes sense. Nobody will be forcing you guys anyway. Human rights abi? You can be grateful for that.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Nobody: 1:31pm On Jan 22, 2020
ScotMisile:
When the gbedu don enter body.. .a guy can promise anything just to have sex. .. Girls shud know this.
Most girls are aware of their ovulation period,yet they open their legs for naked sex....say say the guy deceived them...
But, when she gets pregnant for a good-for-nothing boy. .. .you will swear heaven and Earth that she won't marry him, but if he's well to do guy you start quoting emotional detriments.. .All I can say is that ladies shud be wise in their dealings with guys.. . Allow the guy to run after you, chase you, meet tour parents.... Don't go fooling yourself. ...
I can authoritatively tell you that up to 80% of our women don't know anything about ovulation stuffs.

Notably the so called classy and educated ones.

Nobody love to give birth outside marriage cos it doesn't favour babes except very few ones that intentionally want something else
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Lightangel65: 1:37pm On Jan 22, 2020
purples25:


I have my opinion but all in all, i cannot force anyone. Yeah women are responsible for their actions, i just wish the man had to feel the same too but i won't ignore your point, since it makes sense. Nobody will be forcing you guys anyway. Human rights abi? You can be grateful for that.

This world is not fair in every bed stuff. Women get the hardest punnishment. But forced marriage is not good, that child would be truamatized.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by sholarr12: 2:11pm On Jan 22, 2020
Exodora:
Why should he impregnant her if he has no intention of marrying her.Who will now marry baggage/second material, you?
Get sense.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by wirinet(m): 2:15pm On Jan 22, 2020
purples25:


Lol i am a Muslim that is not very religious at all. Funny enough i am starting to like religion. You know why? Those old testament times, you could not use a woman and throw it in her face like the way especially black men are doing now. It is actually the women that are suffering in this new age. Who presses for the sex? Mostly the man. They decieve and insist and demand to no end, you are only denying the truth if you oppose to that. All i think is that the woman should not suffer alone. If she has to suffer a stigma for the rest of her life, society must join that man in too.

You know what freedom has done to men? They impregnate a girl and go laughing all round town and posting on social media. Do you know that men BRAG about it. They CELEBRATE it. All the boldness coming from where? A man will sleep with a woman in the same room with his own manhood and in that same room he will give her an ugly look and judgement as thought he is not the one that just slept with her.

That cage society put women in, you see that cage, i wish men will be inside it too.
The problem with the current generation is that the lack a knowledge of history. They only listen to and regurgitate what others in authority tells them, instead of taking the time and effort to learn how things were in the past.

Today is the best times in the history of mankind, for women, in terms of liberty and freedom. Just a few centuries ago, women were property, property of their parents, husband's, uncle's and other family members. They were given away (more like traded off as soon as they attain puberty. They had absolutely no say in who they marry. Virginity was a priced asset to the girl's family when negotiating for bride price.

In the olden days women were exploited by men and they had no right to complain. During the constant wars, young women of the defeated tribes were sex slaves, the old women were actual slaves. So many bastards were born with no known fathers.

Most world's religions seem to enforce that system, that a woman is private property. She should not be permitted to be seen, talked to, associate with others who don't own her. Till today ultra religious societies and organization's still operate that way, especially the Christian and muslim religions.

Now, women can marry who they like, have sèx with whomsoever they choose, go to school, pursue a career, vote and even preach at the alter.

I still find it amazing that some women long for the horrible sordid past. Well, it's called the Stockholm syndrome.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by ScotMisile: 2:18pm On Jan 22, 2020
sassysure:

I can authoritatively tell you that up to 80% of our women don't know anything about ovulation stuffs.

Notably the so called classy and educated ones.

Nobody love to give birth outside marriage cos it doesn't favour babes except very few ones that intentionally want something else
So, says you...

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