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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Chisave: 12:49pm On Dec 29, 2021
Nairaland is now turning to facebook groups where people will just forge story to get people talking.

Stody a write up to know whether it looks real before wasting your time on it.

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Kingluqman(m): 12:49pm On Dec 29, 2021
If you love yourself, just send her packing. Not in support of separation between you guys but the fact is that you will never get over the thought of knowing that another man slept with your wife. This will always off you, no matter what. You can’t get over it. Just let her go or else, you will get to know several man slept with her soon and not just one.
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Nobody: 12:49pm On Dec 29, 2021
Richy4:

If some of you were to be judges...I will put my chaplet on pure water and pray never to appear 100m close to the court room where you guys were preceding.. jzzz!!!! shocked
don't be surprise, silly SIMPS are everywhere.

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Dshocker(m): 12:50pm On Dec 29, 2021
Rinoxy:
A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!!

Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.

You cannot take away sex from marriage,if truly that the man can't satisfy his wife,then the man is at fault and has no reason to complain

Like the igbos will say "Ife Onye Metalu"

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Mvena(f): 12:50pm On Dec 29, 2021
The woman kala gan
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Toks2008(m): 12:50pm On Dec 29, 2021
Rinoxy:
A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!!

Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.

I don't support her actions but there must be another reason asides the excuse she gave and that we may never know.

If she was indeed a Virgin then she must have committed adultery first before knowing that another man is better.

Well some people just write fake stories just to make front page.

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by od501: 12:50pm On Dec 29, 2021
Rinoxy:
A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!!

Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.


I said, and always say, "real men are no more!!" What is left are the products of retired slay queens, and westernised idiots who parade themselves as educated fellows.

Just a imagine what a woman a man married said to his face, and still have emfruntry to disrespect him further!! First, slap that fornication outta her, send her straight to her boyfriend's house. Call her people and schedule when you will come and collect your dowry!!

Just imagine.

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Starz825(m): 12:50pm On Dec 29, 2021
Ok I have heard enough... grin
I see people jumping on this thread like a heaven-bound train grin

Firstly Op ..this is probably you and not your friend..

Secondly, shame on those who put more preference on virgin ladies...the likes of my wife must be a virgin ...so that I can be her first..bla bla bla ..

Thirdly, it's a game over...i am sorry to say the marriage is gone...she already tasted from the outside..only God can fix that angle...so for me its gone...




Yeah


Gone.
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Nobody: 12:51pm On Dec 29, 2021
yuping:

I never judge both parties involved.

You are daft! That is what that person is telling you.
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by GOVERNOR1988: 12:52pm On Dec 29, 2021
The only ground to leave a marriage is Infidelity and Adultery...that woman can kill him. Let him Divorce her
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Help2020: 12:52pm On Dec 29, 2021
Rinoxy:
A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!!

Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.
No advice from me. Let the man continue with her. I can't imagine my wife telling me to my face that she fcked another man. Even Bible made it clear the next action to take.
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by tunjilee003: 12:53pm On Dec 29, 2021
Things I read nowadays on nairaland makes me feel marriage only favour the female gender.....

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Czario: 12:53pm On Dec 29, 2021
chatinent:
The only ground for divorce I recognise is sexual immorality. You can divorce your wife if you can't live with it, sire.

Why should any man live with it ?

Can you ?
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by elmodee7(m): 12:53pm On Dec 29, 2021
Simple , he should run for his life. Ja kpa
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by olisaEze(m): 12:53pm On Dec 29, 2021
Choi! Ekwensu a gbala corkshoe! cheesy cheesy It’s the audacity for me!! grin

Yes ké, the internet has schooled her expectations to believe her man should be like Joe from Ghana & his fantasies. If u don’t gerrit forgerabourrit grin.

Ma mehn, quit applying 13th century mindsets in the 21st century, virginity now is more a mark of scarce opportunities than fidelity.

The Bible says, and Lot knew his wife and children were born, you gerrit?? grin You can’t really know a woman until u shag her! That’s why my neighbor wen judging will always say of his wife, "ona no know am o!" grin

Your man nor know im wife till e marry am. She was a virgin before marriage but not a novice in xvideos.

I bet she gives great head too and he thought himself Mr. Lucky! grin
Tell him breakfast just got served so wipe it clean nwa, there’ll always be lunch & dinner wen he realizes he just dodged a bullet!


"My wife is a virgin my wife is a virgin", no be she born baby Jesus o!! grin grin
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by tunjilee003: 12:54pm On Dec 29, 2021
Ebubechuwku:
If na me, I go send her away, make she pack all her belongings go her village and I will look out for a better someone daughter to marry....


Send that wh*re away grin grin grin


Life too short than to be sad on little things.. grin grin grin
there are no better daughters outside....
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Nobody: 12:54pm On Dec 29, 2021
od501:



I said, and always say, "real men are no more!!" What is left are the products of retired slay queens, and westernised idiots who parade themselves as educated fellows.

Just a imagine what a woman a man married said to his face, and still have emfruntry to disrespect him further!! First, slap that fornication outta her, send her straight to her boyfriend's house. Call her people and schedule when you will come and collect your dowry!!

Just imagine.

You know most of them don't have father figure in their lives. Just a prostitute that brought them up. That is why you always see act simps because the way they are being brought up. Honestly, it is so sad

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Owain: 12:54pm On Dec 29, 2021
chatinent:
The only ground for divorce I recognise is sexual immorality. You can divorce your wife if you can't live with it, sire.
What of 'threat to life'? Like a wife who perhaps has poisoned the husband once, maybe twice, or stabbed him with a knife...in a bid to claim his wealth or for some other reason best known to her.

You mean I shouldn't divorce such a woman because she hasn't cheated?? Would you do it bro
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Nobody: 12:56pm On Dec 29, 2021
A discussion for kids in the house.
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by MoIbrahim: 12:56pm On Dec 29, 2021
You mean you people need advice to know that this is no longer a wife? What do you do with a non-wife?

Or you want reassurance that it's not the woman's fault ni? Common!

Rinoxy:
A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!!

Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Omoluabi16(m): 12:56pm On Dec 29, 2021
Another fake story just to encourage gender war/women bashing. The last week here ehn, each storyteller dey struggle to out-do the other with the ridiculousness.

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Web2020: 12:57pm On Dec 29, 2021
There are two issues here to address:

1. The man can not satisfy the wife in bed. How true is this. Some men can not satisfy a woman and they refuse to work on themselves. The truth is that there is no amount of money you will give a woman when she is honey, she needs satisfaction. If you can not, then you are in trouble. Women need this thing. When your wife reaches orgasm there is this natural respect they give to you. Likewise, when you fail to climax them, there is also a natural disrespect from them.

2. The woman married for better and for worse. This is the only challenge of no sex before marriage.

For me both of them are at forth. The man should not expect the woman to keep enduring 2 minutes thing. Then the woman should know that she married for better and for worse

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Enny2013(f): 12:58pm On Dec 29, 2021
Nawao! if dis is true,She's a disgrace to VIRGINITY.
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Bizibi(m): 12:59pm On Dec 29, 2021
This is the first time I am hearing a virgin cheating.....virgins are loyal.

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by yuping(m): 1:00pm On Dec 29, 2021
oldtruth:


You are daft! That is what that person is telling you.


Noted
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Truvelisback(m): 1:00pm On Dec 29, 2021
Rinoxy:
A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!!

Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.
The man have nothing to lose since he was the 1st man to deflower her. She is now a second hand product, so he can let her go.
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by bankoleogundeji: 1:00pm On Dec 29, 2021
So why not leave the man alone instead of cheating on him? I wonder what women do in their husbands house if they could conviniently feel comfortable to cheat despite being married?
The man should confirm the paternity of their kids and releaf her of her duty as wife. What a gut? How dare?
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Thandiubani(m): 1:00pm On Dec 29, 2021
The wife did a very bad thing. Seems like the marriage has broken down irreconcilably. She's not remorseful at all. At this point, I believe divorcing her will be the right option before one person will kill the other.

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by lomprico(m): 1:01pm On Dec 29, 2021
Rinoxy:
A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!!

Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.

She will do it again and again.
Is your friend broke?
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Enny2013(f): 1:01pm On Dec 29, 2021
HEBEI:
How is he sure he married her a virgin

Not every Nigerian virgin girl is a virgin.
God bless u!
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Michaelpsych: 1:01pm On Dec 29, 2021
This story get as e be,so a virgin even knows that she is not satisfied
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by cmecproblem(m): 1:02pm On Dec 29, 2021
It's not insanity but wickedness. I consider anyone who cheats in marriage to be an extremely wicked person. Like why can't you just leave the marriage and be with the others. Why cheat?

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