simplesearch:
A man or woman who engages in extramarital sexual affairs is cursed, whether or not they can satisfy each other. Marriage is the last bus stop for man and woman to help each other become a better version of themselves. In the course of doing this a lot of patience and love may be required. Even in the case of violence and threat to life, there is a way round about it. There is no licence for extramarital affairs as far as God is cconcerm, whatever excuse you give to involve in or just such act is at your own peril, and if you die you go straight to hell.


Jude 1:7
Even as Sodom and Gomorrha, and the cities about them in like manner, giving themselves over to fornication, and going after strange flesh, are set forth for an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire.

Matthew 25:41
Then shall he say also unto them on the left hand, Depart from me, ye cursed, into everlasting fire, prepared for the devil and his angels:

in cases of violence and threat to.life na ur Bible go develop leg protect you from punches and blows? Stop yarning nonsense , Mr man.

[quote author=MNDY post=108906588][/quote] Actually the man holds immense power to.keep his penis in his pants and.not rely.om.women.to help him control himself. This is.the constant hypocrisy men practise - just to make sure.they are not accountable and can do as.they please - this is stale- women already.know your hypocrisy .

Pataricatering:
I never see people wey dey emotional like african men , u go dey cheay , dey beat chest say you dey polygamous naturally yet when woman do u d same thing you dey do - na premium tears up and down - you go dey pray make she suffer , make she regret am etc .
Lol

Ma'am, we're not carrying the same grace.
it’s just the way men are, it’s part of our nature to make conquest after conquest. Males are eager to mate with as many partners as possible because they’d have more chances of reproducing. The female, on the other hand, needed just one good male to reproduce successfully.
Man can be promiscuous and still be faithful to his family, it's not always the same with opposite sex.
There's a reason why there's plenty olosho and hook up. It's just the Grace and it's the normal norm. It's been like that since the beginning of the world and so shall it be till the end of the world.

olukoye200:
My Opinion on this matter is that a cheating woman is a dangerous woman who can decide with her crony to cause the husband harm, the best is that let your parents know and possible you guys should separate for a while to regain your interest and trust. I had a similar experience but before my wife could press further a lift up the bar. How you can consult later but honest trust i didn't find it funny as the aftermath was devastating as i couldn't forgive her until after 1 month.

lol ,na cheating husband no fit decide with him crony to harm the wife ?
U people are always so funny - always trying to attach unnecessary weight to issues when women cheat.

GhostWisperer:
your game is too simplistic, too ordinary and plain to decipher.

You're trying to demean virgins to make oloshos look sellable.

Because of all the bashing loose women are getting lately on this forum, you're trying desperately to reinvent reality and post your delusional, demonic manipulation on this site to create doubt in the minds of men to not hold virginity sacred.

You have failed before you even began.

Na only fools and loose cunts you fit convince.

you seem.to.think males bashing women actually has any effect ? Lol
Women just ignore.you.people ! Nobody ever takes the rantings of hypocrites seriously

efficiencie:


If you marry a hoe, you have married a foe...this is just the beginning of high blood pressure! If his sanity was indeed paramount he would have done his due diligence to ensure he is not converting a public utility into a wife. He had better end the marriage, focus on healing and repackage himself for the real wife. If a spouse can boldly claim that she cheated then the marriage has ended.

looolz, see how small cheating dey pain men ? The naturally polygamous gender !
Public utility dey pain una ? But men turn dem selves to Public pump for any woman ? Loooooool

Pataricatering:
lol ,na cheating husband no fit decide with him crony to harm the wife ?
U people are always so funny - always trying to attach unnecessary weight to issues when women cheat.

Maybe a woman should continues to cheat and a man continues to cheat. At the end of the day we'll see who is who. We'll know who go hear am pass. If you're a married woman and you're saying this, you'd better don't mislead yourself if you've not been misled already.

Pataricatering:
Actually the man holds immense power to.keep his penis in his pants and.not rely.om.women.to help him control himself. This is.the constant hypocrisy men practise - just to make sure.they are not accountable and can do as.they please - this is stale- women already.know your hypocrisy .

Oh really? Hypocrisy? Will you women (as usual) keep defending your gender like this to make things worse, insteading of criticizing? MY DEAR, A MAN'S ROLE IN THESE THINGS AMOUNT TO NOTHING WITHOUT THE WOMAN ALLOWING THINGS; YOUR GENDER PLAYS THE GREATER ROLE. Speaking of Control, if men are to control themselves, can you and your gender also control yourselves too?

[b][/b]The Woman did not sleep with another man. She lied because the man did not trust her.
DEEP WISDOM

Pataricatering:
lol , this ur comment dey so stupid !.who tell you say you be king ? Lmaaàooooo

LMAO why did you reply my stupid comment.
You sound like aDead woman.

Pataricatering:
lol, na man get sense ?

Not at all dear, but man still dey try. This is not meant to be degrading don't get me wrong.

Also, all these defense of your gender you're you're doing here isn't necessary. I pray you find a man that will make you happy and give you peace.

The story may not be true, except she was caught in the ACT.

Naturally a woman that is faithful and being accused severally for unfaithfulness by the one that disvirgins her, can say what she have said.

Trust me, women can say anything when they are making strong accusations.

Rinoxy:
A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!!

Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.

Plan yourself well and divorce the idiot.
Then marry a much better woman.

Bola146:


If she can't cooperate with her husband to face what was wrong, she should have left the marriage and focus on her sex trade

It's obvious you couldn't see through the person's sarcasm.

The person you quoted only highlighted the advice men give to women here when they come seeking for advice.
The person only reiterated it to the OP.

Pataricatering:
you people always dey.think say you get mouth to abuse women ..

Mama please am sorry, if have offended you..

Pataricatering:
you seem.to.think males bashing women actually has any effect ? Lol
Women just ignore.you.people ! Nobody ever takes the rantings of hypocrites seriously

if you don't care, why are you trying every trick possible to corrupt innocent young virgin girls to level the playing field and make olosho societal standard?

I have learnt not to take non-virgin whingbags seriously!

Pataricatering:
looolz, see how small cheating dey pain men ? The naturally polygamous gender !
Public utility dey pain una ? But men turn dem selves to Public pump for any woman ? Loooooool

I don't believe any gender is naturally polygamous because I believe in the biblical origins of marriage, one woman for one man. Polygamy, and the likes of it, was and remains an aberration occasioned by the desires of fallen men. For every woman that cheats there is a male accomplice and this is why in addition to advocating that men marry ladies that are sexually pure or that commit to rehabilitation, I also advocate that ladies should quit patronizing men that are sexual adventurers.

Pataricatering:
most Nigerian men deserve cheating wives .

I’m not sure if decent ladies who respect themselves will agree with you

Nezzjnr:
Pheeeew

Do you guys form stories or what

A virgin complaining of not being sexually satisfied??

Cmon this is getting boring..... People just want their Threads to hit fp by fabricating stories

Oboy ... nairaland feminist and waka waka's are working overtime to disrepute virgins.

This week at least 3 threads target virgins and chaste women. It seems they have begun to experience low DM traffic.

IJEYdiamond:
Those shouting Virgins where r they ooooo

Forgetting that is an individual thing!!


Its well.....!!

Virgins are still better. It is about probability, madam.

A wayward girl (high body count) get will cheat 7 times out of 10 chances
A virgin will cheat 0.5 times out of 10 chances

Remember she was once a better one too before becoming a whores. I hope u garrit!

Ebubechuwku:
If na me, I go send her away, make she pack all her belongings go her village and I will look out for a better someone daughter to marry....


Send that wh*re away


Life too short than to be sad on little things..

GoldenSpec:
Remember she was once a better one too before becoming a whores. I hope u garrit!

And I will keep changing them....

As if it's phone charger

Ebubechuwku:



And I will keep changing them....

meemee:
I always say that there is a downside when it comes to marrying a virgin. The moment she tastes the sweet pie it becomes difficult to imagine that she will live the rest of her life without experiencing something different more so when she always hear gist of other adventurous experiences from friends. They feel that something is missing since they did not sample a bit before committing to marriage.
Men who live wild during single days only to go and pick up a virgin because they don't want what other people have tasted are very selfish. Are they not men that will eventually end up with the ones they sampled? When the virgin they marry opens up it is difficult to stop them sampling too. This might not be true in most cases but stories like this will always appear.

some people dont understand what you wrote there borne outta lotta experience.
i have seen things over 3 decades sir

freshalien:





Shebi una dey find virgin and women with less body counts. See one here. Remember she was married a virgin, yet see the outcome.

I have said it and would continue to say it...being a virgin is no guarantee of being a good wife.

Agreed but the reverse is mostly not better either.

Exit the union immediately. Most of them are here on NL with no shame hence the kind of support and advice they will give her.

The bible has said it , you are now equipped with a reason for divorce. Just exit less you die early of irikuri (all manners of doings) and heart failure.

And the doctor will say you die of UDS
UNEXPLANABLE DEATH SYNDROME.
be wise and live

Rinoxy:
A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!!

Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.

Hello people, it's almost seven months that she's left my friend's house (she's in her father's house). Still rude, insultive and foul-mouthed. Dude had also let sleeping dogs lie and moved on.