Iyaebe:
Herself, parents and future kids(which you are part of)

So the man's money is not for himself, parents and future kids? Inukwa.

Please change your mentality. Yes a man is the "provider" (whatever that means) but a woman has to support him with her own contributions and not be a liability to the man who's probably struggling to make ends meet.

In many Nigerian homes now, women bring contribute the most financially so if you keep this your mindset of "a man will take care of me" and "my money of for me and me alone", you go old o.

jaxxy:


I'm working to be better than him bt why can't u be like a hard working woman instead of wanting a man to do everything? It doesn't look good. I don't like lazy dependent people be it man or woman

You are just a stingy man

Iyaebe:
You are just a stingy man

Haha not of my ex's think I'm stingy. I'm always giving bt I just don't like lazy or selfish people. Some of them helped me learn when and who not to give. Giving should be both ways anyways.

Iyaebe:
A struggling man should focus on how to make his life better and not go into relationship, stop looking for love while you are financially unstable, there's no love without financial backings(modern world). You should start given in to your urges and needs only when you are financially comfortable to care for another without feeling it's effect and lastly don't see any woman as bad because she dumped you due to your financial condition, she only did you a favour to be focused and become better, all female creatures go for the best and the one in charge of the jungle. Have a great week ahead. Note: This is just an advise to encourage young men out there who are struggling, don't misinterpret my harmless post.

that's why we fvck only and then the girls say we are players.

Baby we are not players

Iyaebe:
A struggling man should focus on how to make his life better and not go into relationship, stop looking for love while you are financially unstable, there's no love without financial backings(modern world). You should start given in to your urges and needs only when you are financially comfortable to care for another without feeling it's effect and lastly don't see any woman as bad because she dumped you due to your financial condition, she only did you a favour to be focused and become better, all female creatures go for the best and the one in charge of the jungle. Have a great week ahead. Note: This is just an advise to encourage young men out there who are struggling, don't misinterpret my harmless post.

Lol..if u leave them world people go still complain....bro y u no get girl friend nah,,u have a car and ur good looking...lol bro be like u r gay,,bro when re u marrying ?bro be like ur wife dey Villa ...world people no know say I dey follow mosdii advise....

Iyaebe:
A woman’s life is not measured by her financial status but it’s part of it, a struggling woman can go into relationship and marriage if the man is capable of providing for her

You see your life?

A struggling woman can go into a relationship as long as she has a pusssy. Cos that's the only thing she needs to contribute in the man's life. Nonsense.

I just hope u are not a feminist sha

Okey dokey

Iyaebe:
This post is just an advise and not a bill sharing post please

what you must realize is that some women have different men for different reasons,a woman may like and tolerate a man because of special likeness or she may equally tolerant another because of money and needs,you may be surprised to know that women spends money on men as well,I have been given #400k by a woman to buy a car in 2012,also another one has given my #200k to repair my truck,so it does not mean if you are broke you will not follow woman,it is when you are really broke you will follow women to help and give you succour

Iyaebe:
Why don’t you just be like your dad? That’s why I always praise our fathers, they are the real and true Alpha

And i always praise our mothers, they are not golddiggers like the kind of woman we have nowadays

Truvelisback:
If u see the Criterias of the man that she wants to marry that she listed in her thread ehn! U would think she wants to employ the man.

Our women these days are so lazy gosh!!! I wish i was born in the 80s

Iyaebe:
One out of millions of cases that ended well, Blessing was ready to settle down and your brother was still finding his feet, it’s that simple.

NasoLifeBe!!!

Iyaebe, u decern right, I believe that's what happens

Tell ladies to step dating struggling men too.

kepstone:


You are still not qualified to post trash... Because in life experience u are very far. So what happens if the one who finds his feet financially looses his money... Since you said no love without finance.

Your type should go and sit at the feet of elders to learn...
Stop churning your ignorance and undeveloped mindset in a public domain...
May God take far from me your type....
May I never come across your type with this kind of shallow, barbaric mindset..
You think love is money and money is love...
Go get a life ooooo...

Guyz if she not contributing to your life and your are busy funding her life... Pls kneel down let's pray for you to be delivered from 21st century stupidity....

This op should be avoided like plague, their type dump men when the storm comes....

And this person wants to be a marriage counselor with such negative mentality and shalow life experience.

I laugh in Swahili!

ParpahSeventy:

And you expect a successful guy to be loyal to one of you which this kind of reasoning.
I don't blame young men that mistreat women, I have never blamed them and I will never blame them.

Lol, you don't need to be triggered.

It's left for the successful guy to now know he has a lot of options and play around as he sees fit.

Iyaebe is right you know, it's the way the world works. You are either polygamized or hypergamized.

jaxxy:


I agree with u completely. A Struggling man's PRIORITY should be his work, tussle or ambition bt that doesn't mean he can't find genuine love along his journey to greatness if he is emotionally intelligent enough to identify the right partner. Some gals come into it life to help u and some come into it life to use u. Which one are u iyaebe? Lol

That said, Guys when all is said and done and u finally hit gold and success DO NOT date A Struggling girl, she is only a user and a pest 80% of the time. They don't love u bt love ur status and what u are not who u are.

And when u become successful young men date only Successful or rich and independent women like u not struggling broke hungry girls with fake love.

Struggling gals should get a job not a boyfriend or husband.

NasoLifeBe!!!

3 gbosa for you!!!

U really talk sense, you comment cap it all

Iyaebe:
Yes she never had to worry about bills sharing, a masculine and capable man married her

What about virginity? Is it not a woman's duty to enter into her husband's provision as a virgin?

Do you support pre-marital sex, for women who have decided to get married?

Elporo:


What about virginity? Is it not a woman's duty to enter into her husband's provision as a virgin?

Do you support pre-marital sex, for women who have decided to get married?

I've never supported premarital sex and I don't Indulge in it, nothing on earth will ever make me engage in premarital sex, and if I can keep myself and all that then my future husband should be able to perfectly play his role as well

Raalsalghul:




Lol, you don't need to be triggered.

It's left for the successful guy to now know he has a lot of options and play around as he sees fit.

Iyaebe is right you know, it's the way the world works. You are either polygamized or hypergamized.

I agree with her point and am not near being triggered tho.
But the way they cry foul when they are being mistreated by a successful guy is what am trying to bring to her attention.
She shouldn't cry when she is being used and dumped, what's good for the goose...

This shi is not applicable to women o omo Man life hard .

Truvelisback:
What should struggling women do?

Comrade na sense go assassin u

leody:
This shi is not applicable to women o omo Man life hard .

life is hard in general