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Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by HRMK: 9:55am On Apr 27, 2022 |
TRASH,BALDERDASH AND ARRANT NONSENSE!SELL WHAT THE POOR WOMAN SWEATED FOR TO PURSUE MASTERS DEGREE COURSE?AKOTILETA!ARUNGUN!AJELERUN!U ARE NOT DIFFERENT FROM BIBLICAL PRODIGAL SON!SIMPLY TOO BAD!! |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by Nackzy: 9:56am On Apr 27, 2022 |
Guy man no sell that house, look for funding somwhere else, use the house as collateral and get a good loan, get to UK start schooling and working at the same time as if theres no tomorrow, use that money to service the loan here in Nigeria, until you're done paying |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by koyyess: 9:56am On Apr 27, 2022 |
Very sad dilemma. |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by GGirll: 9:56am On Apr 27, 2022 |
I had a friend that did her Masters in the UK and came back for a greener pastures. Her mum knows GEJ's mum as she usually patronize her mum who deals in Indian laces and all manner of expensive fabrics in Abuja. Her family also knows Ekweremadu n she even went to his office with her outstanding credentials but was told they can't employ her because she's too qualified and has degrees than them so it's impossible. At the end, because she's from a rich family, one of her big uncle's who owns companies in Lagos employed her as an M.D. with luxury car new one and made her an executive in the company where she works till date. So going to UK for a study is not a guarantee for a well paying job. Instead, go to the US or Canada, cos you can be allowed to work when you are through if you perform well but UK will not allow you once your study is completed. 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by LilMissFavvy(f): 9:59am On Apr 27, 2022 |
You have just described the things you do in secret'. Your imaginations' and comments' speaks volumes of who you are....a Yahoo.boy. If your mother didn't leave property for you, you would have ended up as a broke' loser' for life. As for me, we are doing well, we don't need to sell where our precious dad's grave yard before we can make it. Even after selling your mom's grave..yard you have still turned out as a yahoiboy/loser'. You know the things you described in this comment I quoted, are the things I read you broke' losers' do with corpse' to get rich'. Maybe the spirit' of your mom' is truly after you'. Cursed'' son'. yassinattah: |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by Malawian(m): 10:01am On Apr 27, 2022 |
All these 20 years lease/build arrangements, why not tap into it? |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by Nobody: 10:03am On Apr 27, 2022 |
There is a reason she is buried there for memories and her legacy.. you should not sell the house for any reason.. look for a loan and use the rent to finance it.. make sure the loan has a good tenor... Secondly if you sell the house, are you ready to move the remains if the new owners refuse it being there... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by achimendy(m): 10:03am On Apr 27, 2022 |
Kelechi20007: I think relocating the casket to another site before sell will be better. But don't do the mistake of selling the house with her corpse there. Talk to your family people or pastor before doing it . |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by ibinaboonline: 10:04am On Apr 27, 2022 |
Your head will calm down after selling off that house. Masters, my foot. I’m sure Elon Musk who paid $44 billion to buy Twitter has a Masters Degree. Where are you living now? Your decision is ultimately yours but I’d say, thread wisely. |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by splashbaby(m): 10:04am On Apr 27, 2022 |
Laren24:Oloriburuku ni e to think your name sound Yoruba even make it worst to think your dysfunctional upbringing can be brought out in the open in this manner. What is insulting to tell him the truth. A person with proper home training will not consider selling his or her parents property with their grave in it...here the mother failed. The action is the reflection of training the parent gave him, which obviously is terrible for moulding a man to that state. A mad man like you will never find it even more insultive for a proper man to think this way. May your children sell you and your grave when you are dead. Eranko, ole. Stupid generation without home training....You still wonder why many of you die prematurely this days. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by tsnoop(m): 10:04am On Apr 27, 2022 |
Don’t sell the house you might regret it later What if your mom doesn’t have any properties wouldn’t you think of another way out 1 Like |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by babtoundey(m): 10:07am On Apr 27, 2022 |
Kelechi20007: I am in your shoes. In fact, your narration speaks true of my situation. I recently got admission to pursue my Masters degree in one USA university. The challenge is money and i don't even have a pen to sell. All I bank on is Assistantship. If it doesn't click, I can't come and kill MAself. You don't have to sell your mother's grave for any material gain. It's something you will regret till the time you take your last breath. You might be the only son, your mother's existence doesn't live in your memory alone. Your mother have siblings, friends and family and all of them won't forgive you for taking such step. Keep exploring other opportunities. There is always light at the end of the tunnel. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by id4sho(m): 10:08am On Apr 27, 2022 |
Kelechi20007:Big fool, ur mumu never do? Assuming she never had a property in her lifetime, will you go and sell the public graveyard where ur mum was buried. Think well, must you do MSC in UK |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by mischievous(m): 10:13am On Apr 27, 2022 |
Only thing I can advice you bro ensure the masters you are going for will ensure you have a work visa after studies so you won’t be back home with nothing. Kelechi20007: |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by Ola14(m): 10:13am On Apr 27, 2022 |
Kelechi20007:you are wicked soul, selling your mother's house with her grave?, Haba what of if your mother did not struggle to build the house before she died?, You will come and sell my mother's house because you wan go UK, I happened to be in the same situation,my father died in 1988 and was buried in his that he struggled to build for us but never sleep in it for one day,the house is located at Ibadan-Lagos expressway, some buyers came to buy the house about 10 years ago for 4m,we insisted not but today now they are still pricing for 12m, we also planning to erect shopping complex at the front because it face the expressway and we are even getting small change for maintenance,zero your mind from selling the house, try to hustle more and God will open ways for you. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by SIMONEKPA7: 10:19am On Apr 27, 2022 |
Lightorder:You are quoting the wrong person. I am not the OP 1 Like |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by oyebanji(m): 10:22am On Apr 27, 2022 |
If you can approach a bank to give you a loan, use the house as collateral and pay the loan back in instalments, it may be a better solution. Kelechi20007: |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by 77up(m): 10:26am On Apr 27, 2022 |
It's very simple , just dig out the remain to cemetery. |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by yassinattah(m): 10:29am On Apr 27, 2022 |
Your hypocrisy is second to none. At least it’s better than selling my mamas property than you looking for a way to go to Dubai to eat faeces of rich Arab men through mouth and sleep with their camels and animals just cos you need the money to slay on Instagram since you don’t have the means of selling your dads property to live large. The day of reckoning will come for you and you ll be exposed. Goofy ass mofo LilMissFavvy: 1 Like |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by PotatoSalad(m): 10:30am On Apr 27, 2022 |
Ebubu:You're a bandit |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by olumzzz(m): 10:31am On Apr 27, 2022 |
buygala:Oga C&B, there's a 2 year postgraduate work permit for international students that study in UK. That's what peeps use to settle in |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by Laren24(m): 10:33am On Apr 27, 2022 |
splashbaby: From your write up shows the kind of person you are. Im still telling you just thinking you sound rational but you're not. You're still a very stupid individual, with a malfunctioning brain to bring insult to the topic in the first place while the OP was just asking of humble opinion on what to do on the issue. But what do you do? You brought insult to the topic and still continue doing so. That's to show you're a mentally deranged person. If you can't give an opinion, you don't need to carry and start bullcrap. Mr unwoke bastard. Shut the F up! Bastard! 1 Like |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by Maghan37: 10:35am On Apr 27, 2022 |
Bro a Masters program in the U.K or any were in the World does not guarantee you success future. Most rich people you see today apart from the google brothers do not have more than a degree. If i may, I will suggest you open your eyes out for hustle and leave your mothers house in peace. Nigeria may not be the most conducive environment but it still has its opportunities. I suggest You develop the mentality of an entrepreneur rather than one that wants to work for someone. |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by Tuns20(m): 10:41am On Apr 27, 2022 |
maths1000: With due respect to the dead because we once shared something with them..Tell that to the children of corpses that were desecrated during road constructions, some Major establishments..His mother is resting in peace..He should exhume her on the consent of family members and give her a reburial in a cemetery..He should forge Ahead with his life because the dead stays Dead..There are lots of what if’s..mom c could have sold the house if she was alive, she could have sold the house for your master’s program..we all know what moms are capable of..but your future is paramount here because you’re still Breathing..Keyword “BREATHING”. |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by cheeketo(f): 10:41am On Apr 27, 2022 |
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Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by splashbaby(m): 10:42am On Apr 27, 2022 |
Laren24:What rational thinking is selling your parent property with their grave in it?...the indiscretion bothers on laziness, poor parenting and greed which unfortunately captured your own wierd foolish thinking and upbringing as well. What gave you the audacity to caution me when you are very stupid with your comments and vituperation. Getting woked does not mean stupidity and insanity. What stupid opinion is selling your mother's grave amount to?, what manner of a man will ask for opinions on this kind of matter without conscience? Who delight in tampering with the dead for pecuniary gains? only a mad man with greed and insane upbringing like your lot. What kind of a man will support him, stupid people like you of course? Someone that should be shamed publicly for thinking in that manner.. Like I have said before, your children will do same to your grave, even before you die. Flippant like you are keen to go down the lane of destruction. Do you know the reason why people go mad, this is one reason and you've bought one for yourself for being uncouth. Ole, thief...set awon grave rippers, what is the difference between you and those exhuming human bodies for spiritual wealth...I repeat you be real Oloroburuku...your parents and siblings should be ashamed of you. There no end to your greediness. |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by cheeketo(f): 10:43am On Apr 27, 2022 |
Do you such bank that can give loan with landed properties as collateral? Pls let me know if you do. Most banks this days only give loan to people with regular cash flow in their account without collateral. So we with small business without big income can not collect tangible loan. |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by Okwyjesus(m): 10:44am On Apr 27, 2022 |
Kelechi20007: Who does that. There are millions of successful Nigerians without UK masters. |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by buygala(m): 10:49am On Apr 27, 2022 |
olumzzz: Is that work permit granted as a matter of course? If na so e easy, why do so many Nigerian students come back home and starr trekking around Lagos jobhunting? Face issue on ground |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by poh10(m): 10:49am On Apr 27, 2022 |
pls, don't do that instead do some prayer for mother she will provide for you, trust me it works. |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by Testimony1988(m): 10:50am On Apr 27, 2022 |
You can't sell it. |
Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by olumzzz(m): 10:59am On Apr 27, 2022 |
buygala:You're a lawyer sir. I expect you to argue with facts. The law is in place but it was newly introduced |
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