| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by xevove2061: 1:32pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Kswine:
Please what is this thing about mother in-law and daughter in-law that doesn’t make them get along?
Am in the middle an issue and don’t know how to proceed, let me tell you how it all started.
I’m the first born of my family, my father left us with my mom and marry another woman. To assist my mom I had to get a part time job while still in secondary school and this really affect my life.
Fast forward to 5 years ago I met my wife and we begin dating, during this time I won’t lie I saw some red flags about her family but was hoping things will change along the line. Her mom is a prophetess in a white garment church, she said my wife was her favorite in all her children. I didn’t count it because I see it as a normal thing for a mother to love her child endlessly.
To cut the long story short, last year my babe got pregnant and we decided to introduce both families and after that she will go stay with my mom for a while because am not always around and she need someone at home with her.
Now during this time mom do complain that she’s not free and do isolate herself from the rest of the family, on many occasion I’ll sit her down and we talk things out only for it to repeat itself.
On the second month of her stay with my mom I told her to go visit her mom maybe when she comes back things will be better, my wife got to her house and told her mom all sort of things and the next thing she and her mom started insulting my mom. All this thing happened around March this year and since then they have been begging because I told her nothing will make me marry her again.
Family meeting upon family meeting has been going on and at the end they want me to forgive her and bring her home which my mom insist.
Now I don’t want to look like a weak man because she and her family went too far by insulting someone I love and cherish and on the other hand I don’t want my daughter to grow up without a father figure in her life, so I don’t know what to do.
Please no insult Are you guys married already? I never really understand this story. |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by GoodCane: 1:41pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Kswine:
Please what is this thing about mother in-law and daughter in-law that doesn’t make them get along?
Am in the middle an issue and don’t know how to proceed, let me tell you how it all started.
I’m the first born of my family, my father left us with my mom and marry another woman. To assist my mom I had to get a part time job while still in secondary school and this really affect my life.
Fast forward to 5 years ago I met my wife and we begin dating, during this time I won’t lie I saw some red flags about her family but was hoping things will change along the line. Her mom is a prophetess in a white garment church, she said my wife was her favorite in all her children. I didn’t count it because I see it as a normal thing for a mother to love her child endlessly.
To cut the long story short, last year my babe got pregnant and we decided to introduce both families and after that she will go stay with my mom for a while because am not always around and she need someone at home with her.
Now during this time mom do complain that she’s not free and do isolate herself from the rest of the family, on many occasion I’ll sit her down and we talk things out only for it to repeat itself.
On the second month of her stay with my mom I told her to go visit her mom maybe when she comes back things will be better, my wife got to her house and told her mom all sort of things and the next thing she and her mom started insulting my mom. All this thing happened around March this year and since then they have been begging because I told her nothing will make me marry her again.
Family meeting upon family meeting has been going on and at the end they want me to forgive her and bring her home which my mom insist.
Now I don’t want to look like a weak man because she and her family went too far by insulting someone I love and cherish and on the other hand I don’t want my daughter to grow up without a father figure in her life, so I don’t know what to do.
Please no insult Oga to slap you now just dey hungry. You had a great relationship with your mom and you want to allow one olosho and runz girl to destroy it? Are you okay? Even despite seeing all Red flags? Bros you better throw that girl out of your Life ASAP and end everything immediately. Who said you can't be a loving Dad without getting married? Let ur gf give birth to the child and you'll become a baby daddy. Take care of your child but don't u ever make the mistake of getting married to that girl. Dear Men, if you must marry, Marry a girl who will give your mother and your family peace of mind and not an olosho who will come and start your family. Oga dump that girl now and move on with your life 1 Like |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by tunapawizzy: 1:41pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Kswine:
during this time I won’t lie I saw some red flags about her family but was hoping things will change along the line.
Well |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by tunapawizzy: 1:43pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Kswine:
during this time I won’t lie I saw some red flags about her family but was hoping things will change along the line.
I Stopped reading at this point.... Men and Women should stop ignoring red flags. 1 Like |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by promiseland245(m): 1:44pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Start what you can finish. Kswine:
Please what is this thing about mother in-law and daughter in-law that doesn’t make them get along?
Am in the middle an issue and don’t know how to proceed, let me tell you how it all started.
I’m the first born of my family, my father left us with my mom and marry another woman. To assist my mom I had to get a part time job while still in secondary school and this really affect my life.
Fast forward to 5 years ago I met my wife and we begin dating, during this time I won’t lie I saw some red flags about her family but was hoping things will change along the line. Her mom is a prophetess in a white garment church, she said my wife was her favorite in all her children. I didn’t count it because I see it as a normal thing for a mother to love her child endlessly.
To cut the long story short, last year my babe got pregnant and we decided to introduce both families and after that she will go stay with my mom for a while because am not always around and she need someone at home with her.
Now during this time mom do complain that she’s not free and do isolate herself from the rest of the family, on many occasion I’ll sit her down and we talk things out only for it to repeat itself.
On the second month of her stay with my mom I told her to go visit her mom maybe when she comes back things will be better, my wife got to her house and told her mom all sort of things and the next thing she and her mom started insulting my mom. All this thing happened around March this year and since then they have been begging because I told her nothing will make me marry her again.
Family meeting upon family meeting has been going on and at the end they want me to forgive her and bring her home which my mom insist.
Now I don’t want to look like a weak man because she and her family went too far by insulting someone I love and cherish and on the other hand I don’t want my daughter to grow up without a father figure in her life, so I don’t know what to do.
Please no insult |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by Josywhyte: 1:44pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
What is your heart telling u? Just follow it |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by GoodCane: 1:47pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
tunapawizzy:
I Stopped reading at this point....
Men and Women should stop ignoring red flags. Same here. Despite seeing Red flags. The Werey still went ahead. I don't know what exactly is wrong with some people 1 Like |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by ravensckar(m): 1:57pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
This right here is the first sign of immaturity! What is wrong with today's men and immaturity?  You got a lady pregnant, you couldn't get her accommodation, you couldn't be there for her during that trying time. You conveniently moved her to your mum's place (The first sign of irresponsibility). Secondly, your mum reported your wife to you and you foolishly went to confront her (another sign of irresponsibility). Thirdly, from the way you described your wife's mum, it's obvious that you don't have a good relationship with her (another sign of immaturity). Last but not the least, you allowed your love for your mother to hinder you from becoming or playing the role of a good husband to your wife (the highest form of immaturity). I say this and I'm standing on it, any man who doesn't know how to love both his wife and his mother equally does not deserve to be called a 'husband'. Both are important to the well-being and success of a man. The real problem starts when you try to place one above the other (albeit openly). Until men begin to apply common sense and diplomacy on issues like this, they will truly never experience the joy of marriage.  2 Likes |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by BArris007(m): 1:57pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Yhe insult will forever be her thing, and her mum is not helping matters. Your Mum love her unknown to her, she will never like your family to come cloe to you.
Now let me tell you whati have in mind, She is not a good wife, because no God fearing woMAN will insult her Mum inlaw even in her absence.
Use your tongue to count your teeth. |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by BArris007(m): 2:02pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
The insult will forever be her thing, and her mum is not helping matters. Your Mum love her unknown to her, she will never like your family to come cloe to you.
Now let me tell you what i have in mind, She is not a good wife, because no God fearing woMAN will insult her Mum in-law even in her absence.
Use your tongue to count your teeth. |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by deebrownneymar: 2:12pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Kswine:
Please what is this thing about mother in-law and daughter in-law that doesn’t make them get along?
Am in the middle an issue and don’t know how to proceed, let me tell you how it all started.
I’m the first born of my family, my father left us with my mom and marry another woman. To assist my mom I had to get a part time job while still in secondary school and this really affect my life.
Fast forward to 5 years ago I met my wife and we begin dating, during this time I won’t lie I saw some red flags about her family but was hoping things will change along the line. Her mom is a prophetess in a white garment church, she said my wife was her favorite in all her children. I didn’t count it because I see it as a normal thing for a mother to love her child endlessly.
To cut the long story short, last year my babe got pregnant and we decided to introduce both families and after that she will go stay with my mom for a while because am not always around and she need someone at home with her.
Now during this time mom do complain that she’s not free and do isolate herself from the rest of the family, on many occasion I’ll sit her down and we talk things out only for it to repeat itself.
On the second month of her stay with my mom I told her to go visit her mom maybe when she comes back things will be better, my wife got to her house and told her mom all sort of things and the next thing she and her mom started insulting my mom. All this thing happened around March this year and since then they have been begging because I told her nothing will make me marry her again.
Family meeting upon family meeting has been going on and at the end they want me to forgive her and bring her home which my mom insist.
Now I don’t want to look like a weak man because she and her family went too far by insulting someone I love and cherish and on the other hand I don’t want my daughter to grow up without a father figure in her life, so I don’t know what to do.
Please no insult Never have your woman and your mother living under the same roof if you want peace. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by diogo23: 2:14pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Kswine:
Please what is this thing about mother in-law and daughter in-law that doesn’t make them get along?
Am in the middle an issue and don’t know how to proceed, let me tell you how it all started.
I’m the first born of my family, my father left us with my mom and marry another woman. To assist my mom I had to get a part time job while still in secondary school and this really affect my life.
Fast forward to 5 years ago I met my wife and we begin dating, during this time I won’t lie I saw some red flags about her family but was hoping things will change along the line. Her mom is a prophetess in a white garment church, she said my wife was her favorite in all her children. I didn’t count it because I see it as a normal thing for a mother to love her child endlessly.
To cut the long story short, last year my babe got pregnant and we decided to introduce both families and after that she will go stay with my mom for a while because am not always around and she need someone at home with her.
Now during this time mom do complain that she’s not free and do isolate herself from the rest of the family, on many occasion I’ll sit her down and we talk things out only for it to repeat itself.
On the second month of her stay with my mom I told her to go visit her mom maybe when she comes back things will be better, my wife got to her house and told her mom all sort of things and the next thing she and her mom started insulting my mom. All this thing happened around March this year and since then they have been begging because I told her nothing will make me marry her again.
Family meeting upon family meeting has been going on and at the end they want me to forgive her and bring her home which my mom insist.
Now I don’t want to look like a weak man because she and her family went too far by insulting someone I love and cherish and on the other hand I don’t want my daughter to grow up without a father figure in her life, so I don’t know what to do.
Please no insult If you bring that woman back there will be no peace again in your life and that of your family and her mother will send you to your early grave |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by mozona(m): 2:38pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Weirdcamila:
Don’t send your wife to stay with your mom.
This things are simple .
Women find it hard to cohabit I disagree if she is good, she will cohabit. |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by Hugose: 2:41pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Kswine:
Please what is this thing about mother in-law and daughter in-law that doesn’t make them get along?
Am in the middle an issue and don’t know how to proceed, let me tell you how it all started.
I’m the first born of my family, my father left us with my mom and marry another woman. To assist my mom I had to get a part time job while still in secondary school and this really affect my life.
Fast forward to 5 years ago I met my wife and we begin dating, during this time I won’t lie I saw some red flags about her family but was hoping things will change along the line. Her mom is a prophetess in a white garment church, she said my wife was her favorite in all her children. I didn’t count it because I see it as a normal thing for a mother to love her child endlessly.
To cut the long story short, last year my babe got pregnant and we decided to introduce both families and after that she will go stay with my mom for a while because am not always around and she need someone at home with her.
Now during this time mom do complain that she’s not free and do isolate herself from the rest of the family, on many occasion I’ll sit her down and we talk things out only for it to repeat itself.
On the second month of her stay with my mom I told her to go visit her mom maybe when she comes back things will be better, my wife got to her house and told her mom all sort of things and the next thing she and her mom started insulting my mom. All this thing happened around March this year and since then they have been begging because I told her nothing will make me marry her again.
Family meeting upon family meeting has been going on and at the end they want me to forgive her and bring her home which my mom insist.
Now I don’t want to look like a weak man because she and her family went too far by insulting someone I love and cherish and on the other hand I don’t want my daughter to grow up without a father figure in her life, so I don’t know what to do.
Please no insult My brother it's better your child grows in a broken home o as long as she is provided with everything she needs to be a huge success in life than you stay in a home with a wife who is likely to break your home, heart or family and make you feel depressed enough to even want to kill yourself. I am speaking from experience like this. I am also a first born, my wife is also a pain in the ass with my mom. Yes my mom is not the best of mothers but she really doesn't hate her as she claims. I am not saying this because it's my mom. It's what I have deciphered over time. Now they don't have clashes at all. My wife just plain refuses to reach out to her in any way she can but I do reach out to her parents who are good people by the way. Her reason is that according to her, my mom (my dad is late) does not like her. Which is not true from my own standpoint. My mom has a hard time showing she likes someone, but if she hates you, it would be almost similar to having an ad on that billboard in lekki tollgate...my point is everyone will know. I have decided to leave them at different poles, one in the north and the other in the south. So we have no clashes and I don't have to pick a side because the truth is I like to be neutral and tell you how wrong you are no matter who you are. Now in my case, here is the problem. My wife will always make sure my daughter spends time with her family but once it has to do with my family...my mom or sister. There is fire on the mountain. She claims stupid things like since my family does not like her they will take it out on my own daughter. Forgetting our daughter is also theirs. They share the same blood. So why do you assume stupid things like that. This is the issue we are presently having. She seems to want to break the unity with this issue. Brother see I have been married for about 4years now and I can beat my chest and tell you that women....you see these women...okay let me say most women in this country are soooooooooo selfish. Everything they do that looks like they love you it's because of the benefit they stand to gain from you not because they truly love you. So your woman is acting up and staying aloof because your mom is not the one she is benefiting from. It's you. So she feels she does not owe her anything, no respect nothing. But when you come she can kiss your ass to get what she wants If you doubt me. Go broke. And see if she will not do the same thing she is doing to your mom. You will lose respect almost instantly, and she will more or less stay aloof because she has nothing to gain from you anymore. What you should do my brother is this. Stand your ground. Demand nothing but respect. You don't need love, the only true love you can get is from your mother (just trust me) they might call you a Mama's boy, Omo that's their business. Take good care of your mom. But provide for your family and demand fucking respect from your wife. I did not say just respect. I said fucking respect. Of course that does not mean she has to kneel down when serving you food or pull your shoe when you return from work. That's slavery. Accept her but on the condition she respects you and your mom most especially. Those are the terms. If she can't take let her stay in her father's house. No be fight. When she gives birth take care of your child with every sweat and blood you have. That's my 2 cents. 1 Like |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by emma2002(m): 2:53pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Neither of them is the problem. The problem is their being together. Fix that! 1 Like |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by Acemilley(m): 2:57pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
[b][/b][quote author=Kswine post=119408524]Please what is this thing about mother in-law and daughter in-law that doesn’t make them get along?
Am in the middle an issue and don’t know how to proceed, let me tell you how it all started.
I’m the first born of my family, my father left us with my mom and marry another woman. To assist my mom I had to get a part time job while still in secondary school and this really affect my life.
Fast forward to 5 years ago I met my wife and we begin dating, during this time I won’t lie I saw some red flags about her family but was hoping things will change along the line. Her mom is a prophetess in a white garment church, she said my wife was her favorite in all her children. I didn’t count it because I see it as a normal thing for a mother to love her child endlessly.
To cut the long story short, last year my babe got pregnant and we decided to introduce both families and after that she will go stay with my mom for a while because am not always around and she need someone at home with her.
Now during this time mom do complain that she’s not free and do isolate herself from the rest of the family, on many occasion I’ll sit her down and we talk things out only for it to repeat itself.
On the second month of her stay with my mom I told her to go visit her mom maybe when she comes back things will be better, my wife got to her house and told her mom all sort of things and the next thing she and her mom started insulting my mom. All this thing happened around March this year and since then they have been begging because I told her nothing will make me marry her again.
Family meeting upon family meeting has been going on and at the end they want me to forgive her and bring her home which my mom insist.
Now I don’t want to look like a weak man because she and her family went too far by insulting someone I love and cherish and on the other hand I don’t want my daughter to grow up without a father figure in her life, so I don’t know what to do.
Please no insult Yoruba used to say you can have a bad wife but a bad in-law is not Good use your head |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by Acemilley(m): 2:57pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Use your head |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by Sultty(m): 2:59pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Kswine:
Please what is this thing about mother in-law and daughter in-law that doesn’t make them get along?
Am in the middle an issue and don’t know how to proceed, let me tell you how it all started.
I’m the first born of my family, my father left us with my mom and marry another woman. To assist my mom I had to get a part time job while still in secondary school and this really affect my life.
Fast forward to 5 years ago I met my wife and we begin dating, during this time I won’t lie I saw some red flags about her family but was hoping things will change along the line. Her mom is a prophetess in a white garment church, she said my wife was her favorite in all her children. I didn’t count it because I see it as a normal thing for a mother to love her child endlessly.
To cut the long story short, last year my babe got pregnant and we decided to introduce both families and after that she will go stay with my mom for a while because am not always around and she need someone at home with her.
Now during this time mom do complain that she’s not free and do isolate herself from the rest of the family, on many occasion I’ll sit her down and we talk things out only for it to repeat itself.
On the second month of her stay with my mom I told her to go visit her mom maybe when she comes back things will be better, my wife got to her house and told her mom all sort of things and the next thing she and her mom started insulting my mom. All this thing happened around March this year and since then they have been begging because I told her nothing will make me marry her again.
Family meeting upon family meeting has been going on and at the end they want me to forgive her and bring her home which my mom insist.
Now I don’t want to look like a weak man because she and her family went too far by insulting someone I love and cherish and on the other hand I don’t want my daughter to grow up without a father figure in her life, so I don’t know what to do.
Please no insult naija babes of nowadays are not worth it 100% when our mum's were youths they still better pass these one chance girls of today so if I were u I'll dump her ass and move on. But take care of your child |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by stuffs2002: 3:01pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Weirdcamila:
Don’t send your wife to stay with your mom.
This things are simple .
Women find it hard to cohabit That is not an excuse to insult your fiance's mother |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by stuffs2002: 3:05pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Gadafii:
The moment you marry this one, she will be worse, marriage no be by force
Any girl wey get mind insult your mom in collaboration with her own mom, should never be married , she’s not well trained or she’s plainly dumb
Besides with the other red flags you saw, if you marry this one you are done for, you will look older than your age because you will always have to settle issues between her and your mom or between your mom and her mom Kswine: The bolded is your answer 1 Like |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by ifechukwu736: 3:18pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
I'm interested in what you did after they insulted your mother.It doesn't seem you took any reasonable action because if you did, na you suppose dey beg them now and not the other way around.I'm interested in what you did after they insulted your mother.It doesn't seem you took any reasonable action because if you did, na you suppose dey beg them now and not the other way around.... 1 Like |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by Obiorahpcfg: 3:22pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Hmmm, you will regret this marriage! Save today's date pls! I repeat!!!! You will regret it in the future. 1 Like |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by Ara21(f): 3:23pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
To me I will advise you look for another girl to marry, white garment church people look at others like non spiritual. For insulting your mother. |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by LyfeJennings(m): 3:29pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Kswine:
Please what is this thing about mother in-law and daughter in-law that doesn’t make them get along?
Am in the middle an issue and don’t know how to proceed, let me tell you how it all started.
I’m the first born of my family, my father left us with my mom and marry another woman. To assist my mom I had to get a part time job while still in secondary school and this really affect my life.
Fast forward to 5 years ago I met my wife and we begin dating, during this time I won’t lie I saw some red flags about her family but was hoping things will change along the line. Her mom is a prophetess in a white garment church, she said my wife was her favorite in all her children. I didn’t count it because I see it as a normal thing for a mother to love her child endlessly.
To cut the long story short, last year my babe got pregnant and we decided to introduce both families and after that she will go stay with my mom for a while because am not always around and she need someone at home with her.
Now during this time mom do complain that she’s not free and do isolate herself from the rest of the family, on many occasion I’ll sit her down and we talk things out only for it to repeat itself.
On the second month of her stay with my mom I told her to go visit her mom maybe when she comes back things will be better, my wife got to her house and told her mom all sort of things and the next thing she and her mom started insulting my mom. All this thing happened around March this year and since then they have been begging because I told her nothing will make me marry her again.
Family meeting upon family meeting has been going on and at the end they want me to forgive her and bring her home which my mom insist.
Now I don’t want to look like a weak man because she and her family went too far by insulting someone I love and cherish and on the other hand I don’t want my daughter to grow up without a father figure in her life, so I don’t know what to do.
Please no insult GUY, IF U MARRY THAT GIRL U MARRIED UR DEATH 2 THINGS WILL EITHER HAPPEN U WILL DIE YOUNG OR U WILL DIE IN DEEP REGRET I STAND BY U NOT TO EVER MARRY HER AGAIN GOD PUNISH ANYONE WHO ADVISES U OTHERWISE |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by LyfeJennings(m): 3:33pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
ravensckar:
This right here is the first sign of immaturity!
What is wrong with today's men and immaturity?
You got a lady pregnant, you couldn't get her accommodation, you couldn't be there for her during that trying time. You conveniently moved her to your mum's place (The first sign of irresponsibility). Secondly, your mum reported your wife to you and you foolishly went to confront her (another sign of irresponsibility). Thirdly, from the way you described your wife's mum, it's obvious that you don't have a good relationship with her (another sign of immaturity). Last but not the least, you allowed your love for your mother to hinder you from becoming or playing the role of a good husband to your wife (the highest form of immaturity).
I say this and I'm standing on it, any man who doesn't know how to love both his wife and his mother equally does not deserve to be called a 'husband'. Both are important to the well-being and success of a man. The real problem starts when you try to place one above the other (albeit openly). Until men begin to apply common sense and diplomacy on issues like this, they will truly never experience the joy of marriage. Oloriburuku niyin sir Baba nla Oloriburuku May ur son's gf insult U and let's see how U handle it if na real life men dey reason this kind matter and U put mouth like this I swear I go enter U if I no fit fght U I get very rugged me wey go enter U God punish ur generation |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by ravensckar(m): 3:39pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
LyfeJennings:
Oloriburuku niyin sir
Baba nla Oloriburuku
May ur son's gf insult U and let's see how U handle it
if na real life men dey reason this kind matter and U put mouth like this
I swear I go enter U
if I no fit fght U
I get very rugged me wey go enter U
God punish ur generation You just sounded like someone who has a brain fault. Firstly, to refer to a lady whom he impregnated as a 'girlfriend' says a lot about your upbringing. Iwo omo irankiran yi! Besides, let's even assume the so-called lady allegedly insulted his mum, so sending her packing together with the pregnancy she's carrying is the best approach abi? He who pushed his wife to go and live with his mum, what exactly did he think will happen? They will become best of friends abi? It's like you're low on cerebral fuel! Oponu ayirada! Perhaps that was how your father sent your mum too packing that made her gave birth to you in a mental home. Alainironu! I'm not sure you've reached marriagable age talk less of being married, hence, you won't be reasoning like someone who has a brain fault. I shouldn't waste my time exchanging words with someone who is probably still living with his parents and collecting money from subscription from them. What will such a child understand about marriage? Or your parents didn't teach you that beheading is not the solution to headache?  Go play with sand kid! The grown-ups are discussing about marriage! 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by ceeceeuwa: 3:43pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
kkins25:
Was it your father putting the sperm inside the abusive baby mama? She had all these problems from day 1, yet, he put piking number 2, then 3, then 4, then 5, then toped it with girl number 6... Your uncle is the one to blame here. He is the cause of his own demise. He felt if he had left her when she had just one he would have been spared ofnall the troubles. But alas,my dad adviced him to go back to the woman. |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by since13o: 3:54pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Hugose:
My brother it's better your child grows in a broken home o as long as she is provided with everything she needs to be a huge success in life than you stay in a home with a wife who is likely to break your home, heart or family and make you feel depressed enough to even want to kill yourself.
That's my 2 cents.
Thank you for talking about this issue here. You have saved a soul with this and I really appreciate you. This is something I suspect I might face in future, but what I am wondering is if it makes sense to even try and navigate it when it starts or just end everything now. |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by frozen70(f): 4:48pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Kswine:
Please what is this thing about mother in-law and daughter in-law that doesn’t make them get along?
Am in the middle an issue and don’t know how to proceed, let me tell you how it all started.
I’m the first born of my family, my father left us with my mom and marry another woman. To assist my mom I had to get a part time job while still in secondary school and this really affect my life.
Fast forward to 5 years ago I met my wife and we begin dating, during this time I won’t lie I saw some red flags about her family but was hoping things will change along the line. Her mom is a prophetess in a white garment church, she said my wife was her favorite in all her children. I didn’t count it because I see it as a normal thing for a mother to love her child endlessly.
To cut the long story short, last year my babe got pregnant and we decided to introduce both families and after that she will go stay with my mom for a while because am not always around and she need someone at home with her.
Now during this time mom do complain that she’s not free and do isolate herself from the rest of the family, on many occasion I’ll sit her down and we talk things out only for it to repeat itself.
On the second month of her stay with my mom I told her to go visit her mom maybe when she comes back things will be better, my wife got to her house and told her mom all sort of things and the next thing she and her mom started insulting my mom. All this thing happened around March this year and since then they have been begging because I told her nothing will make me marry her again.
Family meeting upon family meeting has been going on and at the end they want me to forgive her and bring her home which my mom insist.
Now I don’t want to look like a weak man because she and her family went too far by insulting someone I love and cherish and on the other hand I don’t want my daughter to grow up without a father figure in her life, so I don’t know what to do.
Please no insult Well you still have to bring her back and watch how she will relate with your mum Whichever way she relates with your mum is the exact way she will relate with you If she treats your mum bad be rest assured that she will treat you same For now, accept her and don't do any marriage commitment and watch if she has changed for good But the major problem now is that, you see this white garment church Hmmmm You are hooked ooh Especially as her mum is into prophecy things Keep correcting her till you see some changes If you don't want to bring her home Let her stay with her mother then you give the excuse that you want her to be with her mum since she loves her most and she is in her first pregnancy That you love her same way you love your mother and you don't like them having issues But the truth is that she doesn't respect your mum Take note of that |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by Armanipounds: 4:54pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Well, I'm not yet married but let me give you an advice... The day any girl I want to spend the rest of my life with, insults my Mom.... Just pen it down somewhere that our relationship or whatever name we gave it instantly died a natural death.. because if you can insult a woman who gave birth to me... Then you can insult me someday. What most men don't know is that whatever any woman does during courtship, has marital implications. Btw, you said you saw the red flags and ignored. Are you sure you aren't daft? |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by Kiemutex: 5:14pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
verifiablefacts:
Have this at the back of your mind,no one would ever love you more than your mother. this was exactly words I told a cousin of mine few years back when he made a statement that I love my wife more than my mother,he eventually saw the bitter side of life when his biz crumbled and the so called wife started messing around with some big boys in the neighbourhood,he nearly ran mad but now getting on his feet. |
| Re: Issue Between My Mom And My Wife by Danniedpastor(m): 5:21pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
buygala:
All long as nobody die and Police no involve, Op can keep his family problem to himself
Na insort dem insort your Mama.. Dem no kill am.. Your Mama sef don insult other people and dem no kill her...
Chill and try to impartially resolve the insulting crises instead of taking sides and giving us a one-sided story...
As you don talk your own side of the story, while we never hear Baby Mama and her Mama own, how you wan make we do? .. Abi make we carry gun give you make you kill dem? Best comment so far. |
