Hello my people, i hope this post meets you well?. Firstly, I'm sorry for posting this in the wrong section of the forum. I sincerely apologize please.
I want to seek for your opinion on this. I got married at age 27 last year. It was a traditional marriage, no white wedding due to lack of funds. Though I wasn't ready for marriage since I was still struggling to find my bearing in life. I had mistakenly impregnated this girl(24years) and had to quickly marry her due to the pressure from her widowed mum. I am an orphan. I have no brother nor sister as well. I have no family to call my own. I am a posthumous child. Lost my dad while my mum was pregnant and mum died when I was just 10years of age. Due to the loneliness and boredom, I came across this girl who appeared so nice to me. We got along so easily and started have sex until she got pregnant.
I am an NCE holder while she has her ND. She gave birth to a Baby Boy.
The issue at hand now is I can't have my peace anymore. The constant nagging is driving me nuts. I went through a lot to get myself educated since I had nobody to lean on. Only determination and Zeal pulled me through. I work as a teacher with meagre salary of 25k. She is still nursing the child so she can't do anything for now. I pay rent and pay all bills at home. I augment my income by doing mathematics private tutorials. I have done my best yet she isn't satisfied.
As young as I am, I have high blood pressure now. I am restless during the day and sleepless at Night. She is threatening to run away with our child. Though I can understand her frustration cos I am also not happy with the situation. I feel more for the newborn baby because we can't afford his essential food items and give him proper medical attention.
I want to send my woman back to her widowed mum but I don't know how to go about this. Pls advise me my elders.

Just manage her. Every thing will be alright...

Na part of life, the woman is passing through a lot..

E go beta for una.

LikeAking:
Just manage her. Every thing will be alright...

Na part of life, the woman is passing through a lot..

E go beta for una.

I just pray so. Atleast for the sake of this baby so he doesn't die of malnutrition soon

Ismael97:


I just pray so. Atleast for the sake of this baby so he doesn't die of malnutrition soon

Every thing will be fine.

LikeAking:


Every thing will be fine.

As I write, baby is ill , no drugs

Ismael97:


As I write, baby is ill , no drugs

You joined 2nd of June and started begging up and down

This format has casted use another one..

Forget your NCE, go and learn new skills.. multi-media /web design, coding.. auto mechanic with diagnostic machine, welding, IT… or move to big city like Lagos and Abj to do uber. You’re too young to settle and bequeath your child with poverty. You knew when you were having unprotected s6x that you would get a baby not an iphone. Man up and take care of your fsmily.

OneCandleAway:


You joined 2nd of June and started begging up and down

This format has casted use another one..

Did I beg u for money? I only laid a complaint and u are here talking nonsense.

Ismael97:


Did I beg u for money? I only laid a complaint and u are here talking nonsense.

I'm talking nonsense because I figured you out
Weyrey

Thief. You have no excuse because even handicapped people work.

Your story sound authentic.
You are the kind of person that we concern Nairalanders can help.
Pls post your Banking details for a token.
I believe, others will also help you.

Ismael97:


Did I beg u for money? I only laid a complaint and u are here talking nonsense.

Kindly ignore him, A friend who is reading your story with me is willing to help you.
Post you banking details

You have made a very big mistake in life.. just because you saw a girl that appeared caring and probably loose, you started knacking raw til she got pregnant.
The bitter truth is that she doesn't love you, you were just unlucky to enter trap. She will most likely leave with your son to another man's house and start bearing kids there.

Most of you young boys don't learn.. a girl won't show her true colour till she has gotten the ring and packed into your house. Sex is not everything. I doubt you can even have erection for sex again with her nagging all the time.
A wise man once said.. any man that can control his sexual urge has solved 99.998 percent of his problems in life.

@OP My prayer is that you don't die of hypertension from high bp.

Why not try and learn a skill like barbing,fashion design or something...living on 25k for the child alone self is not feasible.working on saturday and sundays alone as a barber will augument your salary to over 50k,also barbing for only 2 or 3 people after your teaching job on weekdays will do daily expenses.just used barbing as an example.

Ismael97:


Thanks so much. God bless you so much Sir

One-four-eight-seven-five-zero-six-threes-even-nine

John Aondofa LANEN

Access Bank PLC

Unfortunately, an objection was raised against you. What Moniker were you using on NL before now?
In reality, this couldn't have been your 1st post.
Say the absolute truth and get a help.

Mankindman:

Unfortunately, an objection was raised against you. What Moniker were you using on NL before now?
In reality, this couldn't have been your 1st post.
Say the absolute truth and get a help.

Honestly I am saying the truth. Pls believe me pls. Help me

Mankindman:

Unfortunately, an objection was raised against you. What Moniker were you using on NL before now?
In reality, this couldn't have been your 1st post.
Say the absolute truth and get a help.

I will never lie that my child is sick just to get financial help. I understand how bad and polluted the society is. I discovered that whoever seeks help here on Nairaland is automatically a thief, mine is not so sir. Pls help me I appeal to you

Mankindman:
Your story sound authentic.
You are the kind of person that we concern Nairalanders can help.
Pls post your Banking details for a token.
I believe, others will also help you.

Thanks for believing me Sir. Thanks

Mankindman:
Your story sound authentic.
You are the kind of person that we concern Nairalanders can help.
Pls post your Banking details for a token.
I believe, others will also help you.

That guy is a scammer, a well known nairaland scammer. Don't send him any money. Don't say you weren't warned.

flokii:
You have made a very big mistake in life.. just because you saw a girl that appeared caring and probably loose, you started knacking raw til she got pregnant.
The bitter truth is that she doesn't love you, you were just unlucky to enter trap. She will most likely leave with your son to another man's house and start bearing kids there.

Most of you young boys don't learn.. a girl won't show her true colour till she has gotten the ring and packed into your house. Sex is not everything. I doubt you can even have erection for sex again with her nagging all the time.
A wise man once said.. any man that can control his sexual urge has solved 99.998 percent of his problems in life.

@OP My prayer is that you don't die of hypertension from high bp.

You're right bro. I blame myself for everything that is happening to me. Like I said, I only pity my 7months old baby

plumcomm:
Why not try and learn a skill like barbing,fashion design or something...living on 25k for the child alone self is not feasible.working on saturday and sundays alone as a barber will augument your salary to over 50k,also barbing for only 2 or 3 people after your teaching job on weekdays will do daily expenses.just used barbing as an example.

Thank you Sir. I'm doing all I can to augment my salary Sir. I just need help to buy drugs for my baby now. Pls

Mankindman:

Unfortunately, an objection was raised against you. What Moniker were you using on NL before now?
In reality, this couldn't have been your 1st post.
Say the absolute truth and get a help.

I saw what one MrBanner wrote up there when he mentioned you saying that I'm a well knowned scammer. Pls ask if I have scammed him before or any nairalander. My baby needs help and I have nobody to help that's why I am here. I don't know what he means by saying I am a scammer. Some people are just a cloud to another man's sun. Go check that MrBanner's profile and see the curses laid on him for calling people scammers. Does he know what Nigerians are going through at dis time.? We work, we Hussle, buy our expenses are way over our incomes

Ismael97:


Thanks so much. God bless you so much Sir

One-four-eight-seven-five-zero-six-threes-even-nine

John Aondofa LANEN

Access Bank PLC

Na dem dem 🤣🤣🤣

Ismael97:


Thanks so much. God bless you so much Sir

One-four-eight-seven-five-zero-six-threes-even-nine

John Aondofa LANEN

Access Bank PLC

Ishmael who believes that Allah is the only God… is using John to collect funds?? You just registered today??

Ismael97:


I saw what one MrBanner wrote up there when he mentioned you saying that I'm a well knowned scammer. Pls ask if I have scammed him before or any nairalander. My baby needs help and I have nobody to help that's why I am here. I don't know what he means by saying I am a scammer. Some people are just a cloud to another man's sun. Go check that MrBanner's profile and see the curses laid on him for calling people scammers. Does he know what Nigerians are going through at dis time.? We work, we Hussle, buy our expenses are way over our incomes

You're a shameless wretch who switches from one sub-story to the other inorder to defraud unsuspecting nairalanders. Dude you've claimed to be a student, corper, a single guy, now you have a child. You once claimed to have malignant toothache, and another time you claimed to want to commit suicide. Arent you ashamed of yourself? Begging money on NL since last year is not enough, now you want to institutionalise it.

@mankindman, don't say you were not told. This criminal does nothing other than try to swindle people out of money all day. Go through his comments and see for yourself

These accounts also belong to him but they have been banned by the mods for this same offence:

www.nairaland.com/Flick490

www.nairaland.com/Flapp478

Skim through both accounts and see for yourself. #Nuffsaid.

plumcomm:
Why not try and learn a skill like barbing,fashion design or something...living on 25k for the child alone self is not feasible.working on saturday and sundays alone as a barber will augument your salary to over 50k,also barbing for only 2 or 3 people after your teaching job on weekdays will do daily expenses.just used barbing as an example.

He is a notorious scammer. Don't fall for it.

flokii:
You have made a very big mistake in life.. just because you saw a girl that appeared caring and probably loose, you started knacking raw til she got pregnant.
The bitter truth is that she doesn't love you, you were just unlucky to enter trap. She will most likely leave with your son to another man's house and start bearing kids there.

Most of you young boys don't learn.. a girl won't show her true colour till she has gotten the ring and packed into your house. Sex is not everything. I doubt you can even have erection for sex again with her nagging all the time.
A wise man once said.. any man that can control his sexual urge has solved 99.998 percent of his problems in life.

@OP My prayer is that you don't die of hypertension from high bp.

Na scam

Ismael97:


Thank you Sir. I'm doing all I can to augment my salary Sir. I just need help to buy drugs for my baby now. Pls

oro e ti ye mi

plumcomm:
oro e ti ye mi

Esanu' mi egbon

Mankindman:

Unfortunately, an objection was raised against you. What Moniker were you using on NL before now?
In reality, this couldn't have been your 1st post.
Say the absolute truth and get a help.

It is well Sir. Thank you for wanting to help. I'm sorry you had to listen to cock and bull stories which stopped u from helping out.