There is this girl I met today while I was returning from somewhere. She was in the same tricycle with me. She wore her NYSC wear; obviously a corp member. I sat close to her and immediately began to fancy everything about her.

I am not in the habit of wooing or 'toasting' women because nearly all the girls I have dated in the past actually just became my girlfriends just like that. We met, developed strong feelings and voila! dating started without me uttering any statement like like 'would you be my girlfriend?" bla bla blah.

Fast forward, while we were inside the taxi, I actually winked at her and whispered to her hearing that I needed her phone number which she declined.
By the time she alighted I decided to stop as well even though I didn't get to my destination.

I approached her while she was walking down the road, spoke nicely and she gave me her number after I had followed her almost to her house. I called the number immediately and her phone rang. However, she told me she doesn't pick calls or respond to text messages which I thought was a joke. This girl should be like 23 or 24 years old.
I am actually 30. This evening, I tried to call her twice but she kept ending the calls without picking. I even sent a text and there is no response.

I actually like this girl. I mean, her appearance ticks all the boxes but my problem is how to get her attention without offending her or acting desperate. Please, can someone help me with any clues on what to do. I actually don't want to bombard her with too many calls though.

She no like you. Girls like wo dem Dey always see face to face. It takes 15days for a lady to start liking a guy. For guys it take just 5secs. To start liking a lady

SHIVA001:
She no like you. Girls like wo dem Dey always see face to face. It takes 15days for a lady to start liking a guy. For guys it take just 5secs. To start liking a lady

Are you saying that I do not stand a chance??

30 yrs old man you still never get sense ,she's clearly not interested you still dey force yourself,when she chop your money now.

you no go allow us hear word with"fear women" comment.

Do you need touch and follow?

Stop wasting your time chasing girls

God1000:
Stop wasting your time chasing girls

I have not chased any girl for the past one year.

Ballzproblemm:
30 yrs old man you still never get sense ,she's clearly not interested you still dey force yourself,when she chop your money now.

you no go allow us hear word with"fear women" comment.

Me chio onu! Onye nkpu. Not all women show interest at the onset. Besides, why are you sounding so bitter as if me and you dey drag one woman? I mean, men chase women everyday. If a man of 60 years can woo a woman and still stand a chance, how much more me? And what makes you think I am broke? Because I entered tricycle? Smh

Mode4:


Me chio onu! Onye nkpu. Not all women show interest at the onset.

do you have sense? I bet you don't

Oga, go after girls that are interested in you.

Your persistence is admirable but at the end she wasn't interested (should have taken the hint from the scenario at the Keke napep)

Move on.

Renew hopeless no affect you?

Mode4:
There is this girl I met today while I was returning from somewhere. She was in the same tricycle with me. She wore her NYSC wear; obviously a corp member. I sat close to her and immediately began to fancy everything about her.

I am not in the habit of wooing or 'toasting' women because nearly all the girls I have dated in the past actually just became my girlfriends just like that. We met, developed strong feelings and voila! dating started without me uttering any statement like like 'would you be my girlfriend?" bla bla blah.

Fast forward, while we were inside the taxi, I actually winked at her and whispered to her hearing that I needed her phone number which she declined.
By the time she alighted I decided to stop as well even though I didn't get to my destination.

I approached her while she walking down the road, spoke nicely and she gave me her number after I had followed her almost to her house. I called the number immediately and her phone rang. However, she told me she doesn't pick calls or respond to text messages which I thought was a joke. This girl should be like 23 or 24 years old.
I am actually 30. This evening, I tried to call her several times but she keeps ending the call without picking. I even sent a text and there is no response.

I actually like this girl. I mean, her appearance ticks all the boxes but my problem is how to get her attention without offending her or acting desperate. Please, can someone help me with any clues on what to do. I actually don't want to bombard her with too many calls though.

Let's assume that she is in a relationship and she's trying to stay clean with her man.

Why do you think that you have a chance to get her in the first place?


I believe you called her line to be sure she gave the right number, but she blocked you instantly.... The reason why the phone rings and it will end showing line busy and you send messages and you don't get reply.


You see person for the first time you go fall in love... tomorrow, you will open threads and be crying.

U don't love that girl u just want to bleep her that's why u're showing this level of desperation. If i may ask, what do u pple call love?

Mode4:
There is this girl I met today while I was returning from somewhere. She was in the same tricycle with me. She wore her NYSC wear; obviously a corp member. I sat close to her and immediately began to fancy everything about her.

I am not in the habit of wooing or 'toasting' women because nearly all the girls I have dated in the past actually just became my girlfriends just like that. We met, developed strong feelings and voila! dating started without me uttering any statement like like 'would you be my girlfriend?" bla bla blah.

Fast forward, while we were inside the taxi, I actually winked at her and whispered to her hearing that I needed her phone number which she declined.
By the time she alighted I decided to stop as well even though I didn't get to my destination.

I approached her while she walking down the road, spoke nicely and she gave me her number after I had followed her almost to her house. I called the number immediately and her phone rang. However, she told me she doesn't pick calls or respond to text messages which I thought was a joke. This girl should be like 23 or 24 years old.
I am actually 30. This evening, I tried to call her several times but she keeps ending the call without picking. I even sent a text and there is no response.

I actually like this girl. I mean, her appearance ticks all the boxes but my problem is how to get her attention without offending her or acting desperate. Please, can someone help me with any clues on what to do. I actually don't want to bombard her with too many calls though.

At 30yrs, you can't tell when a girl likes you or not.

Oga, she doesn't like, and i know you would be wondering why she gave you number, right?

I swear bro, if a girl likes you, even if you call her by 1am, she would gladly pickup.

Back off

You're not her spec.
She just gave you the number, so that you will get your senses back,since you forgot your way home. Your left the comfort of the keke you paid for,started following a girl who doesn't want you... At 30?
Your game rating is 0...

If that girl should pick that ur call,she will use billing to hang you,cux she doesn't like you.. So move on to the next one.. She is just one of of millions bannies you have over there...

Mode4:
There is this girl I met today while I was returning from somewhere. She was in the same tricycle with me. She wore her NYSC wear; obviously a corp member. I sat close to her and immediately began to fancy everything about her.

I am not in the habit of wooing or 'toasting' women because nearly all the girls I have dated in the past actually just became my girlfriends just like that. We met, developed strong feelings and voila! dating started without me uttering any statement like like 'would you be my girlfriend?" bla bla blah.

Fast forward, while we were inside the taxi, I actually winked at her and whispered to her hearing that I needed her phone number which she declined.
By the time she alighted I decided to stop as well even though I didn't get to my destination.

I approached her while she walking down the road, spoke nicely and she gave me her number after I had followed her almost to her house. I called the number immediately and her phone rang. However, she told me she doesn't pick calls or respond to text messages which I thought was a joke. This girl should be like 23 or 24 years old.
I am actually 30. This evening, I tried to call her several times but she keeps ending the call without picking. I even sent a text and there is no response.

I actually like this girl. I mean, her appearance ticks all the boxes but my problem is how to get her attention without offending her or acting desperate. Please, can someone help me with any clues on what to do. I actually don't want to bombard her with too many calls though.

You already bombarded her with calls..

Mode4:
There is this girl I met today while I was returning from somewhere. She was in the same tricycle with me. She wore her NYSC wear; obviously a corp member. I sat close to her and immediately began to fancy everything about her.

I am not in the habit of wooing or 'toasting' women because nearly all the girls I have dated in the past actually just became my girlfriends just like that. We met, developed strong feelings and voila! dating started without me uttering any statement like like 'would you be my girlfriend?" bla bla blah.

Fast forward, while we were inside the taxi, I actually winked at her and whispered to her hearing that I needed her phone number which she declined.
By the time she alighted I decided to stop as well even though I didn't get to my destination.

I approached her while she walking down the road, spoke nicely and she gave me her number after I had followed her almost to her house. I called the number immediately and her phone rang. However, she told me she doesn't pick calls or respond to text messages which I thought was a joke. This girl should be like 23 or 24 years old.
I am actually 30. This evening, I tried to call her several times but she keeps ending the call without picking. I even sent a text and there is no response.

I actually like this girl. I mean, her appearance ticks all the boxes but my problem is how to get her attention without offending her or acting desperate. Please, can someone help me with any clues on what to do. I actually don't want to bombard her with too many calls though.

See my brother, there’s one rule that I’ve learnt in life.
Go and make money, I swear to you, if you have money, you will never stress over any girl again, at least you will have a hit rate of over 95%.

Having money to look good, eat well, hit the gym, dress well, have a nice ride, travel and visit places, have a nice apartment or even your own house, and continue to grow in your career.
You will see different classes of girls that you will be meeting and you won’t stress too much.

Mode4:


Are you saying that I do not stand a chance??

Girls dey use eyes size people up. She probably has a boyfriend who buys her a new phone, a boyfriend working in a good company and earning fat salary, a guy with a nice ride and having a good life.
Then you met her in keke and you expect her to like you. You never sabi girls. Or else if you are so good looking and her boyfriend has been absent in her life that you can score a chance

Just look at the way you narrated this in such a benign manner when it really could have been a stressful experience for the girl!

You literally stalked someone to her house just to get her number? Really?!

You winked at her, whispered that you wanted her number, alighted after her and persistently followed her 'till she got to her house and you're still harassing her with calls and text messages? All you the while you were a stranger to her? And not to talk of age gap that may be visibly seen between the two of you?

Does that sound normal to you?

Later you will say women are accusing you guys of shxt when you have no sense of boundary, consent or consideration for her emotional state? Like how do you expect her to react?

Concentrate on your future and leave woman for now.

Get a life and you can get any woman

SHIVA001:
She no like you. Girls like wo dem Dey always see face to face. It takes 15days for a lady to start liking a guy. For guys it take just 5secs. To start liking a lady

Dey play

Mode4:
There is this girl I met today while I was returning from somewhere. She was in the same tricycle with me. She wore her NYSC wear; obviously a corp member. I sat close to her and immediately began to fancy everything about her.

I am not in the habit of wooing or 'toasting' women because nearly all the girls I have dated in the past actually just became my girlfriends just like that. We met, developed strong feelings and voila! dating started without me uttering any statement like like 'would you be my girlfriend?" bla bla blah.

Fast forward, while we were inside the taxi, I actually winked at her and whispered to her hearing that I needed her phone number which she declined.
By the time she alighted I decided to stop as well even though I didn't get to my destination.

I approached her while she walking down the road, spoke nicely and she gave me her number after I had followed her almost to her house. I called the number immediately and her phone rang. However, she told me she doesn't pick calls or respond to text messages which I thought was a joke. This girl should be like 23 or 24 years old.
I am actually 30. This evening, I tried to call her several times but she keeps ending the call without picking. I even sent a text and there is no response.

I actually like this girl. I mean, her appearance ticks all the boxes but my problem is how to get her attention without offending her or acting desperate. Please, can someone help me with any clues on what to do. I actually don't want to bombard her with too many calls though.

two issues here:

1. You called too many times.
2. You sent a text after you know that she's purposely declining your calls. She knows that you knew. We all know.

Both of these acts screams desperation and unseriousness. Or someone who is hot and only looking for a relieve.

Here's something you should do from now henceforth.

Only ring her line once a day. Do this alternatingly with text messages.

Some days, call her once or other times, drop a text.

Your text shouldn't be anything romantic or proving that you love her. You just met her.

Instead, make it a little casual like you really want to or are interested in getting to know her.

"wasup. Just wanted to check in on you today. Hope you are having a wonderful day? Would be awesome to hear your wonderful voice again"

Just simple casual texts but all with a hint to show that you actually care.

You might want to consider my book on dating guide for guys especially the Texting aspects of it.

Avoid her

Magnoliaa:
Just look at the way you narrated this in such a benign manner when it really could have been a stressful experience for the girl!

You literally stalked someone to her house just to get her number? Really?!

You winked at her, whispered that you wanted her number, alighted after her and persistently followed her 'till she got to her house and you're still harassing her with calls and text messages? All you the while you were a stranger to her? And not to talk of age gap that may be visibly seen between the two of you?

this is wrong though. He did nothing wrong.

Mode4:
There is this girl I met today while I was returning from somewhere. She was in the same tricycle with me. She wore her NYSC wear; obviously a corp member. I sat close to her and immediately began to fancy everything about her.

I am not in the habit of wooing or 'toasting' women because nearly all the girls I have dated in the past actually just became my girlfriends just like that. We met, developed strong feelings and voila! dating started without me uttering any statement like like 'would you be my girlfriend?" bla bla blah.

Fast forward, while we were inside the taxi, I actually winked at her and whispered to her hearing that I needed her phone number which she declined.
By the time she alighted I decided to stop as well even though I didn't get to my destination.

I approached her while she walking down the road, spoke nicely and she gave me her number after I had followed her almost to her house. I called the number immediately and her phone rang. However, she told me she doesn't pick calls or respond to text messages which I thought was a joke. This girl should be like 23 or 24 years old.
I am actually 30. This evening, I tried to call her several times but she keeps ending the call without picking. I even sent a text and there is no response.

I actually like this girl. I mean, her appearance ticks all the boxes but my problem is how to get her attention without offending her or acting desperate. Please, can someone help me with any clues on what to do. I actually don't want to bombard her with too many calls though.

I think the girl was been polite to give you her correct number because she knows you will call and confirm but told you she doesn't pick calls,that sent a strong message,she is not seeing you as a high value man,it is obvious because you are in the same Keke with her and you are winking at her like mr Bean,forget about her,she's gone or less you can go and park in front of her house in a Lexus and call her with another number to come out,she will smile at you,bro

I think I'm being upset with you right

How can you no see
You even had to spend extra transportation for this hard time.

Queendera:
this is wrong though. He did nothing wrong.

Will you get this BS out of my front?!

Are you another man abi where are your kind coming from? Two fùcking times in a week? What exactly in my comments is drawing you people to it? Is everything okay bayi?

SHIVA001:
She no like you. Girls like wo dem Dey always see face to face. It takes 15days for a lady to start liking a guy. For guys it take just 5secs. To start liking a lady

Good point. So that means meeting random women on the road may not be a good strategy and may lead to unnecessary rejection

Mode4:
There is this girl I met today while I was returning from somewhere. She was in the same tricycle with me. She wore her NYSC wear; obviously a corp member. I sat close to her and immediately began to fancy everything about her.

I am not in the habit of wooing or 'toasting' women because nearly all the girls I have dated in the past actually just became my girlfriends just like that. We met, developed strong feelings and voila! dating started without me uttering any statement like like 'would you be my girlfriend?" bla bla blah.

Fast forward, while we were inside the taxi, I actually winked at her and whispered to her hearing that I needed her phone number which she declined.
By the time she alighted I decided to stop as well even though I didn't get to my destination.

I approached her while she was walking down the road, spoke nicely and she gave me her number after I had followed her almost to her house. I called the number immediately and her phone rang. However, she told me she doesn't pick calls or respond to text messages which I thought was a joke. This girl should be like 23 or 24 years old.
I am actually 30. This evening, I tried to call her twice but she kept ending the calls without picking. I even sent a text and there is no response.

I actually like this girl. I mean, her appearance ticks all the boxes but my problem is how to get her attention without offending her or acting desperate. Please, can someone help me with any clues on what to do. I actually don't want to bombard her with too many calls though.

You are on the course to simping. She declined giving u her number, u alighted with her without getting to your destination just to ask for the number. She gave u so u can stop following her. Meanwhile she made it clear to u dat she don't pick or reply text. What else do u want us to advise u oga?

Magnoliaa:


Will you get this BS out of my front?!

Are you another man abi where are your kind coming from? Two fùcking times in a week? What exactly in my comments is drawing you people to it? Is everything okay bayi?

I've always known you have anger issues

Mode4:
There is this girl I met today while I was returning from somewhere. She was in the same tricycle with me. She wore her NYSC wear; obviously a corp member. I sat close to her and immediately began to fancy everything about her.

I am not in the habit of wooing or 'toasting' women because nearly all the girls I have dated in the past actually just became my girlfriends just like that. We met, developed strong feelings and voila! dating started without me uttering any statement like like 'would you be my girlfriend?" bla bla blah.

Fast forward, while we were inside the taxi, I actually winked at her and whispered to her hearing that I needed her phone number which she declined.
By the time she alighted I decided to stop as well even though I didn't get to my destination.

I approached her while she was walking down the road, spoke nicely and she gave me her number after I had followed her almost to her house. I called the number immediately and her phone rang. However, she told me she doesn't pick calls or respond to text messages which I thought was a joke. This girl should be like 23 or 24 years old.
I am actually 30. This evening, I tried to call her twice but she kept ending the calls without picking. I even sent a text and there is no response.

I actually like this girl. I mean, her appearance ticks all the boxes but my problem is how to get her attention without offending her or acting desperate. Please, can someone help me with any clues on what to do. I actually don't want to bombard her with too many calls though.

Text or call her in late hours around 10pm

Who in God's own earth will not pick calls or answer text messages. Why the hell does she have a phone then?

You've got to have some self respect man especially at the age of 30. Money or a funny attitude is not a do all for meeting ladies but logical common sense for sure goes a long way.

Read the signs early on and save your resources once you realize it's an unprofitable venture. Why waste emotions, efforts, money, time on a lady that doesn't dig you?

Besides, corpers are one of the hungriest girls I ever met, no more pocket money from home so they devour any gullible sheep around them like wolves.