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| Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by klassyguy(m): 4:20pm On Dec 11, 2007 |
I don't know if this has been brought up before, but why are some girls always suspicious of any girl who they see with their boyfriends. What i mean is that if they dare see another girl talking and laughing with their beaus, they tend to get all suspicious and end up jumping to conclusions without verifying first. I ask this because last week friday one of my pals told me about it. He told me that his babe decided to follow him to one bash his CD group organised in one park here. While he was there one girl who was a good friend of his happened to show up at the party and they got talking. initially, he wanted to hang out with his babe as she knew no one in the party, but the girl was like he shouldn't worry about her and that he shld go ahead and have a good time. Later on, while he and the other girl were talking, his babe came up to him and said she was leaving. He saw her off to the road where the girl started raking for him, telling him not to think of her as a fool, and that she knows he has feelings for the other girl. The guy was shocked. He later called me and told me the whole story. Something similar to this has also happened to me as well, so i ask u ladies out there, why do SOME of you act that way? Why do some of you decide to jump into conclusions without finding out what's amiss? |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by Seun(m): 4:27pm On Dec 11, 2007 |
You can't win a man's heart by driving away his friends. 1 Like |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by Nobody: 4:31pm On Dec 11, 2007 |
I've had my fair share of jealous, possessive women. Avoid them. |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by uspry1(f): 4:40pm On Dec 11, 2007 |
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| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by ifyalways(f): 4:41pm On Dec 11, 2007 |
perharps the man is giving her reasons to be jealous. the girl herself feels so insecure in the relationship.more ep when the man is handsome and well to do.  she might have been a victim before lost a b/f to a girlfriend.. personally i don't do that and i don't think its OK for any reason.you end up losing instead of keeping a man you get so jealous over.moreover, men rarely want to be fussed over. |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by klassyguy(m): 4:45pm On Dec 11, 2007 |
Agreed, but the guy later told me he confronted the babe and she apologised, giving the reason that she loved him so much and that she doesn't want to lose him to another girl, as there are so many desperate girls out there in the world. Do u peeps think that justifies her actions? |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by Joey82(m): 4:54pm On Dec 11, 2007 |
klassyguy, ur girl gave u a mile and u probably travelled 2. the fact that she asked u 2 go ahead n enjoy urself does not mean u'll abadon her to gisting with another female friend u should have invited her to even take part in ur discussions girls like it when they're given the recongnition they deserve. 2 Likes |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by adekennis(m): 5:18pm On Dec 11, 2007 |
Joey82: Yeah,you a rite |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by derh(f): 5:45pm On Dec 11, 2007 |
if u ask me it is absolutely wrong for you to go out with your girlfriend and abandon her for another girl even if there is nothing going on btw both of you .it is simply lack of respect.it is not about her being suspicious it is about her feeling abandoned while watching her boyfriend playing friends with a girl.i wouldn't like it too. so she has a right to act the way she acted.so boy slow your role and know your responsibility,it's not baby sitting it's giving her her time. 1 Like |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by saucekid(m): 6:24pm On Dec 11, 2007 |
an extremely possesive and suspicious girl is bad new,steer clear |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by pleep(m): 9:35am On Nov 21, 2012 |
I dont mind chicks like this, its kinda cute as long as they are not crazy enough to physically harm me. But seriously, people should be a little more tactfull when flirting with other ppl in the veiw of ur significant other. its disrespectfull |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by Nessa23(f): 3:35am On Feb 02, 2013 |
LOOL abeg jor...some naija guys..actually most naija guys just dnt know how to be damn faithfull . So why wnt one be suspicious . Abegy |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by Nobody: 8:08am On Feb 02, 2013 |
@klassyguy Some girls are (extremely) suspicious because they have no self-confidence, others due to bad experience in the past. In some other cases, boyfriends give them reasons to be jealous and suspicious. Sometimes it comes down to all reasons just mentioned. |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by sexybash(f): 10:08am On Feb 02, 2013 |
Some men don't even have confidence in themselves that why they get possesive girlfreind, possesiveness does not start in one day I must have been built overtime last week I called a guy and his gf picked the phone and I over heard them dragging the phone I chilled later I called and the gf picked again saying I should leave them alone and do you know what I told her I said in her entire life she should not pick the call again and guess what the guy called back telling me dat I insulted his girl I was so fussed to the point where I called back and told him to give the girl the fone and I told her dat even if the guy has 50 wives I will be the 51st and when the guy try calling back I gave the phone to another to answer , I belive love is freedom if a man-woman is not willing to love you freely to hell with them(I dey vex) |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by numericalguy(m): 9:43pm On Feb 02, 2013 |
^^^ u dey vex plenty sha |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by 190theclown: 10:51am On Feb 03, 2013 |
sexybash: Some men don't even have confidence in themselves that why they get possesive girlfreind, possesiveness does not start in one day I must have been built overtime last week I called a guy and his gf picked the phone and I over heard them dragging the phone I chilled later I called and the gf picked again saying I should leave them alone and do you know what I told her I said in her entire life she should not pick the call again and guess what the guy called back telling me dat I insulted his girl I was so fussed to the point where I called back and told him to give the girl the fone and I told her dat even if the guy has 50 wives I will be the 51st and when the guy try calling back I gave the phone to another to answer , I belive love is freedom if a man-woman is not willing to love you freely to hell with them(I dey vex) Na wa ooh this one pass me |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by greedie1(f): 12:01pm On Feb 03, 2013 |
sexybash: Some men don't even have confidence in themselves that why they get possesive girlfreind, possesiveness does not start in one day I must have been built overtime last week I called a guy and his gf picked the phone and I over heard them dragging the phone I chilled later I called and the gf picked again saying I should leave them alone and do you know what I told her I said in her entire life she should not pick the call again and guess what the guy called back telling me dat I insulted his girl I was so fussed to the point where I called back and told him to give the girl the fone and I told her dat even if the guy has 50 wives I will be the 51st and when the guy try calling back I gave the phone to another to answer , I belive love is freedom if a man-woman is not willing to love you d guy be mumu sha... so u told him to give his girl d fone and he jejely gave it to her. wat was he tinkin?? oh wait...... he tot u wanted to apologize!!  |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by Princeparix(m): 12:06pm On Feb 03, 2013 |
Let's forget this pretense------MAN IS A JEALOUS BEING |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by greedie1(f): 12:08pm On Feb 03, 2013 |
op, ur friend is to be blamed... yes!!! he said it himself dat she knew noone der so why leave her to chat endlessly wit a friend,a female friend?? she told him to have a good tym, does dat include neglecting her?? he can still gist wit his friends but always ve his girl by his side. imagine leaving her all alone, why wont her mind play tricks on her?? d girl try sef, if na me i no go apologize.say wetin happen? |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by sexybash(f): 12:46pm On Feb 03, 2013 |
gree-die: |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by Popowaa: 12:51pm On Feb 03, 2013 |
All has to with trust.if u make her trust u she wudnt mind if walk with hundred girls |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by greedie1(f): 1:34pm On Feb 03, 2013 |
[quote author=sexybash][/quote] ok now i get.. he scorned your love!! dat explains d fury... pele o |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by sexybash(f): 1:58pm On Feb 03, 2013 |
gree-die:you now understand d vexation abi dat is what love can do |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by greedie1(f): 2:42pm On Feb 03, 2013 |
sexybash: you now understand d vexation abi dat is what love can doi do... perfectly |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by stpat1(m): 2:52pm On Feb 03, 2013 |
Hmmmm no be small thing o. Well different strokes for different folks |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by kittykat1(f): 3:25pm On Feb 03, 2013 |
sexybash: you now understand d vexation abi dat is what love can doI thot u said u would never be jealous. |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by sexybash(f): 3:31pm On Feb 03, 2013 |
kitty kat:The guy broke all my defences jarey 1 Like |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by kittykat1(f): 3:45pm On Feb 03, 2013 |
I noticed that a lot of our men are becoming like this too much. You are human but babe u have a good heart. A very nice one and I pray you find someone that will catch u and never let go sexybash: |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by stpat1(m): 4:56pm On Feb 03, 2013 |
kitty kat: Its not possible for one not to have an atom of jealousy. We are human |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by sexybash(f): 8:52am On Feb 04, 2013 |
kitty kat: I noticed that a lot of our men are becoming like this too much. You are human but babe u have a good heart. A very nice one and I pray you find someone that will catch u and never let gobabe i am dangerously in love,am losing my senses i tot i was stong but he made me weak  |
| Re: Extremely Possessive And Suspicious Girls: Why? by WackyJ1(m): 10:52am On Feb 04, 2013 |
sexybash:But he has a girlfriend shey? |
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