advanceDNA:


Baba no dey whine me

You should be writing a book called HOW TO BUILD A MARRIAGE And start selling it on Amazon

Odogwu s don’t care wat their wives do with their money . All bills on them , no complain . Na wen man s hand no strong , na him he Dey find who he go share bills with . It is the job of a man to provide for his family. So , pray and hustle , so that u won’t be arguing with ur wife on bills sharing formula.
Na condition make crayfish bend.

labake1:



I hope you are not married because I feel for your wife

Always with this stupid and stale statement!, feel for your pathetic life first!

Nwagold:
Odogwu s don’t care wat their wives do with their money . All bills on them , no complain . Na wen man s hand no strong , na him he Dey find who he go share bills with . It is the job of a man to provide for his family. So , pray and hustle , so that u won’t be arguing with ur wife on bills sharing formula.
Na condition make crayfish bend.

Who told you that it is the job of a man to provide. That is why most men die untimely and make their wives useless. I pray stupid ego will not kill you.

There are a lot of useless wives and stupid husbands out there due to your silly mindset

Kingson28:
If you want to split the bill's, then you must split the chores too or you must employ a maid to do the chores.
She can't go to work like you do and still be expected to cook, clean and take the kid to and from school.
So, if you're splitting the bills you MUST split the chores as well.

Even if she is cooking, the husband takes care of other house maintenance either by hand or by proxy, so she can cook and also do chore by proxy

BloomingDale:


Hope you also cook for yourself, do your laundry, clean your side of the house etc likewise she also cooks for herself, does her laundry etc, then you guys split the care of the children 50/50.

What a toxic approach other other partners. In a progressive partnership it is not so. You have just painted a toxic one

BloomingDale:


Hope you also cook for yourself, do your laundry, clean your side of the house etc likewise she also cooks for herself, does her laundry etc, then you guys split the care of the children 50/50.

Leadership is not defined by finances. Grow up.

BigIyanga:

If you’re a man , you’ll die faster. Your wife contributing to family’s upkeep will elongate your life since there is shared financial burden.

No go keel yourself trying to be a real man.. u go die faster

There is nothing like real or fake man. Just be responsible

Silentgroper:
Men has been doing chores since time immemorial.

Abi o

Bluffly:

What a toxic approach other other partners. In a progressive partnership it is not so. You have just painted a toxic one

Toxic ke? She is working and splitting the bill 50/50 and yet you want her to do all the housework by herself so she can grow old before her time while you ditch her for a younger model. What a selfish human being you are. Ladies you better wise up.

phemmyfour:
There is no one size fits all. Stop making rules about money in your home.

If you say 60/40, if he loses his job or you lose yours tomorrow, will you come back and change it to 0/100 or 100/0

If both parties are mature financially, all these algebra about payment of bills won't be necessary

Unfortunately, they won't learn because of ungodliness and sturborness.

BloomingDale:


Toxic ke? She is working and splitting the bill 50/50 and yet you want her to do all the housework by herself so she can grow old before her time while you ditch her for a younger model. What a selfish human being you are. Ladies you better wise up.

Who said she should do all the chores by herself, what happens to domestic staff. There are many men who sweep and mop the floor, there are many men who repairs everything thing at home and do not call artisans. Exercise regularly, grow up and stop crying over sweeping and cooking. A maid can be employed and stop been uselessly insecure.

Bluffly:

Who said she should do all the chores by herself, what happens to domestic staff. There are many men who sweep and mop the floor, there are many men who repairs everything thing at home and do not call artisans. Exercise regularly and grow up and stop trying over sweeping and cooking. A maid van be employed and stop been uselessly insecure.

You guys must definitely split the housework, cooking, laundry etc. Everything must be 50/50. No football watching for you on Saturdays while she slaves in the kitchen. You must bathe the kids, prepare their food, take them to school, watch over them etc. Ladies if you like let these foolish men use you as slaves while you age and die early.

BloomingDale:


You guys must definitely split the housework, cooking, laundry etc. Everything must be 50/50. No football watching for you on Saturdays while she slaves in the kitchen. You must bathe the kids, prepare their food, take them to school, watch over them etc. Ladies if you like let these foolish men use you as slaves while you age and die early.

Continue with you grave digging.
I am sure you are not married yet. You are one of those constantly living in fear. We have a maid that does most things.

Well the word is for both stupid men and stupid women. We have idiots from both sex

Bluffly:

Continue with you grave digging.
I am sure you are not married yet. You are one of those constantly living in fear. We have a maid that does most things.

Well the word is for both stupid men and stupid women. We have idiots from both sex

Go do your share and stop ranting. You are a cheat and karma will definitely balance the scale.

BloomingDale:


Toxic ke? She is working and splitting the bill 50/50 and yet you want her to do all the housework by herself so she can grow old before her time while you ditch her for a younger model. What a selfish human being you are. Ladies you better wise up.

So, women don't see men as tools?

Also, how is a woman a financial tool to a man? You said she has her own money.

Given that she claimed the money as hers alone and she doesn't want to split bills, how does her money become a tool to a man?

BloomingDale:


Go do your share and stop ranting. You are a cheat and karma will definitely balance the scale.

Come and do a holiday in my house and experience marriage. Butter soul

Bluffly:

Come and do a holiday in my house and experience marriage. Butter soul

There will be nothing to enjoy. I already know what the dynamics are.

BloomingDale:


Go do your share and stop ranting. You are a cheat and karma will definitely balance the scale.

Come and do a holiday in my house and experience marriage. Bitter soul

BloomingDale:


There will be nothing to enjoy. I already know what the dynamics are.

You don't know. Better don't allow stupid ego to deprive you of your joy.

bukatyne:


Bring that energy when it comes to housework.

In man & woman matters, both parties always want to eat their cake & have it.

okay. Someone does heavy lifting as una dey call am, and you still want him to wash dishes.

With the way the world is going even you as a woman have to chime with bills. You want to kill all your money to buy material things while your family lacks on the home front.

labake1:
According to the UK nurse's statements, a man who is not capable of taking care of his family, shouldn't get married. I think this controversy started because of Kie kie's interview.
Bills splitting can be 50/50, 60/40, 70/30, I think all this depends on the financial strength of a man.

My opinion is, just like the nurse said, a man should be capable before getting married even if your wife will assist you, it should be little. A wife should help her husband out if he has financial challenges and husband that have financial challenges shouldn't just sit back and watch their wife do things. Try and do little things till you stand firm.

What's your opinion about splitting bills with your partner?

The truth is almost every man has the capability of living fine and paying bills with their partner. Problem comes when both of them starts inviting kids into their midst, that is when they need to rethink and plan on how to sort bills especially if the man's paygrade is underachieving and the wife works. Some women's job is just to keep opening vagie and be intimidating the man to bring in babies without been financially responsible to the procreation. Nothing is been wrong with bills been shared in this situation and I will point it out that the said Nurse is damn wrong and so are you. A man can conformably have a girlfriend without any financial burden and so a man can comfortably have a wife under his roof without pressure. The moment you both decide to have kids, buy cars, then you both need to understand how to carry on.

Nwagold:
Odogwu s don’t care wat their wives do with their money . All bills on them , no complain . Na wen man s hand no strong , na him he Dey find who he go share bills with . It is the job of a man to provide for his family. So , pray and hustle , so that u won’t be arguing with ur wife on bills sharing formula.
Na condition make crayfish bend.

There is no Odogwu in the abroad. The society is designed in a way that both partners need to contribute/share bills. Assuming their accomodation and other bills cost £2000 a month, the man makes £2100 per month and his wife makes £2200 do you think the man can still be Odogwu?

Lol! Very possible in my country with low cost of rent and utility bills…. Even a woman living in western countries understand what it means to run the gas, water and electricity on daily basis, not to talk of rent or mortgage. So willingly she will support her man or rather find a millionaire hubby who is more than capable. Cuz u can’t be paying millions in a month and expect ur man to cover it all alone, even when u both make almost equal amount.

As a man, by splitting bills with your partner, it means you have giving her a Sense of Responsibility as a woman. Even if you are away from the house for a long time, she can be able to assist with some little needs in the house..

That's why the bible refer to them as our help mate.

labake1:
According to the UK nurse's statements, a man who is not capable of taking care of his family, shouldn't get married. I think this controversy started because of Kie kie's interview.
Bills splitting can be 50/50, 60/40, 70/30, I think all this depends on the financial strength of a man.

My opinion is, just like the nurse said, a man should be capable before getting married even if your wife will assist you, it should be little. A wife should help her husband out if he has financial challenges and husband that have financial challenges shouldn't just sit back and watch their wife do things. Try and do little things till you stand firm.

What's your opinion about splitting bills with your partner?

No matter how rich a wife is, husband money is dignifying, sweet, and satisfying even if it's not much.

bukatyne:


So women who split bills withtheir husbands don't get cheated on?

Or you think we are living under the rock?

It is a man nature to have more than one sexual partner,this is a common phenomenal worldwide, the only cheat here is the programming of the male folks to believe that they shouldn't live their lives as intended.

advanceDNA:




My conclusion is Everybody should stay their lane since we all have two hands and can all make money...shebi the financial responsibility most u women want men to shoulder alone is very easy to come by.....so everyone should foot their own bills..... buy wateva u want with your money, feed urself, pay ur rent and build ur own house ..........

When u are hórny or want kids... Make temporary arrangements and agreement and fvck... and when kids do show up..u agree how to care for the kids ...... this way we wont put pressure on each other since we don't want to be good team players together in marriage or relationships.

Key word "team player"

But i'm pretty sure they wont still get it..

BlissGod:


That’s the most stupidest thing a woman should do. Support the home not splitting bills. A real man should never put such policy in his home, if he wants to live long.

Potato potahto
supporting d home, splitting d bills. It all boils down to her making contributions..

c'est fini..

Silentgroper:
Key word "team player"

But i'm pretty sure they wont still get it..

They get it....they are not stupid..... but they just don't want to be responsible because they know money is hard to get...

Konjiboii:


It is a man nature to have more than one sexual partner,this is a common phenomenal worldwide, the only cheat here is the programming of the male folks to believe that they shouldn't live their lives as intended.

Let me agree with you.

If a woman is to put up with a man's infidelity, wouldn't it make sense to marry a man useful for something (paying all her bills, that of her kids and wants)?

Of what use is a man who can't pay all the bills when he can't even be faithful which is a basic requirement?

My people say if you want to eat a frog, eat a frog that has egg.